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Liu Wei
Liu Wei became famous very early, and after becoming popular in the early 1980s with the role of "Guan Yuntian" in "The Great Hero of Kanto", his acting career was on the rise.
Over the decades, Liu Wei has starred in more than 100 film and television drama works such as "Women's Einsatzgruppen", "Tang Minghuang", "A Face Of People", "White Deer Plain", "Ten Red Army", "Ordinary World", "Great Journey" and so on.
Liu Wei's play path is very broad, whether it is a rough and tough tough guy image, or a humorous and witty role, he can accurately shape and let the audience like it.
Liu Wei has won the "Golden Rooster Award" and "Huabiao Award" Best Actor Award of Chinese films, and in 2021, he won the title of "Glory Artist" of the National Theatre of China.
In his career, Liu Wei has made great achievements.
Emotionally, Liu Wei is more bumpy.
First fell into He Qing's "set", and then fell in love with Yang Ruoxi for many years, but failed to cultivate positive results, until he was more than half a hundred years old, he was connected with makeup artist Wang Xiaoyu.
After marriage, Liu Wei spoiled Wang Xiaoyu into a treasure, not only taking the initiative to pay the salary, but also taking the initiative to share some housework after filming, and he also expressed her love in public many times.
Happy family of three
Some people are puzzled.
Compared with He Qing, Wang Xiaoyu is not as beautiful as her;
Compared with Yang Ruoxi, Wang Xiaoyu is not as young as her, so why is she so pampered by him?
In fact, this problem is not difficult to understand, any relationship, only two-way rush, has meaning; mutual understanding, will be long-lasting.
01 with He Qing
Regarding the relationship with He Qing, Liu Wei said that he fell into the sleeve, and he said that he did not have the slightest mood to fall in love at that time.
It was because of his simplicity and kindness that something went wrong.
Liu Wei is 7 years older than He Qing, and the two met and fell in love during the filming of "Women's Rangers".
At that time, Liu Weigang was nominated for the best actor at the 8th Chinese Film Golden Eagle Awards for his role in "Guan Yuntian" in "The Great Hero of Kanto".
Stills from "The Great Man of Kanto"
Although Liu Wei at this time is already in his old age, after being seen by the audience with this role, his focus is still on his acting career, and he does not have the heart to fall in love.
Even if He Qing, who was in her early twenties at the time, was young and beautiful, in the same crew, Liu Wei only regarded her as a colleague.
But He Qing is not, she admires the mature and handsome Liu Wei, not just want to be a partner with him, so she began to take the initiative to signal to Liu Wei.
And successfully plucked his heartstrings.
Honestly, in the face of He Qing, such a "first classical beauty in the mainland", who is not impressed?
Liu Wei said that he was emotional about He Qing on a clear night in the moon. That day, He Qing asked him to go swimming under a waterfall near the crew, because it was too dark, and the two also brought some candles.
It was very hot, and after arriving, He Qing jumped into the water and swam into the waterfall, while Liu Wei was still lighting candles and lighting a circle around the "swimming pool".
He watched He Qing swim into the waterfall, and he was worried that the water inside was too deep.
Therefore, while he told He Qing to swim back to her, he swam towards her, and at the same time he looked back at the shore, lighting candles with such a night, he thought it was quite funny.
It's just that what he didn't expect was such an atmosphere, it was easy to make people up, especially when he swam quickly to the bottom of the waterfall, where he thought the water was very deep, but suddenly saw He Qing stand up.
The water is not deep at all, just waist-high, moonlight, jade girl, candles...
Liu Wei knew that he was trapped, so the two people began a sweet love.
Still
This love, although He Qing took the initiative, but after confirming the love relationship, Liu Wei really regarded her as a treasure.
As long as he has, he can do it, he is not stingy.
Jin Yusheng, the producer of the TV series "Tang Ming Huang", said that Liu Wei treated his girlfriend, there is a saying called "when he comes, he is a cat, when he leaves, he is a tiger", which makes him spoiled, which shows how considerate Liu Wei is to the woman he loves deeply.
But even so, when fate is exhausted, it is exhausted.
When Liu Wei and He Qing had the best relationship, people inside and outside the circle thought that they already had lovers and finally became dependents.
But in fact, they were not married, and Liu Wei's younger brother Liu Yongdu also came out to refute the rumors:
I have never been married, and many people have asked, if my brother is going to get married, it is the biggest thing in our family.
It's just that two people who were once so good, saying that they broke up and broke up, inevitably make people regret.
As for the reason why Liu Wei and He Qing broke up, neither of them had mentioned it.
However, after the two broke up, He Qing became acquainted with Xu Yajun in 1995 because of the play "Wind and Lotus Complaints", and then the two gave birth to their son Xu He in 2001. Therefore, some people speculate that the breakup is because of Xu Yajun.
But at that time, Xu Yajun was already a person who had experienced two marriages, and some people couldn't understand why He Qing wanted to marry him three times?
The key is that she fought so hard and ended up in divorce, which is even more regrettable.
Perhaps, this is the feeling, it is not clear.
"The Little Prince" says: "Love is not two people staring at each other, but two people looking in the same direction." ”
Every relationship is like this, only by getting along, understanding each other, cherishing each other, can we go better and farther.
After the breakup, Liu Wei invested his energy in his acting career, filming more than ten dramas such as "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview", "East Sunrise and West Rain", "Qingming on the River Map", "Year after Year", and once again became acquainted with Yang Ruoxi because of the drama.
02 With Yang Ruoxi
Yang Ruoxi, born in Chongqing in 1979, is 22 years younger than Liu Wei.
When the two met, Yang Ruoxi was still a little girl less than 20 years old, and soon after entering the circle, she was full of expectations for everything.
Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi met in 1008 in the Kangxi Micro-Service Private Interview, and Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie were witnesses to their love affair.
As a Chongqing girl, Yang Ruoxi is good-looking and has a lively and active personality, as a senior and Liu Wei, who is so many years older than her, from the day they met, they took good care of her, like a father taking care of his daughter.
Stills of Yang Ruoxi
And on the road to Yang Ruoxi's fame, Liu Wei also made a lot of efforts, using his own relationship to help her take over the play.
Of course, Yang Ruoxi himself is also very competitive, with his own appearance and efforts, step by step growth has been recognized and affirmed by the audience.
Yang Ruoxi and Liu Wei established a relationship around 2001, exposed by the media in 2005, and in 2007, Yang Ruoxi admitted at the press conference of the TV series "Beiping Past" that the two had broken up.
Talking about this relationship, Yang Ruoxi cried into tears, and she hoped that the other party could give her an explanation.
In fact, after Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi fell in love, the two were very sweet, although the age difference was very large, but they were in love.
And the two are rushing to get married, privately they are called "husband and wife", and they have also met the parents of both sides.
Although Yang Ruoxi's parents were opposed, Yang Ruoxi insisted that in the end they could only choose to respect.
However, this relationship was finally washed away in Yang Ruoxi's tears.
It is said that the reason why the two broke up was that the two had different views on many things, Liu Wei sought stability, and Yang Ruoxi sought change.
In fact, this is very easy to understand, when Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi fell in love, his career was stable, and Yang Ruoxi had just started;
When he wanted to start a family and have children, Yang Ruoxi was at the peak of his career and was still very young, and the two people had different directions and could not seek common ground while reserving differences.
Therefore, that summer Liu Wei did not quit and left Yang Ruoxi alone.
For this "yearless love", some people say that Liu Wei is not a grandfather, and some people are not worth it for Yang Ruoxi.
In fact, they are not people in it, it is difficult to determine who is right and who is wrong, and perhaps some emotions are destined to leave from the beginning of the encounter.
I like a sentence by Mr. Yang Dai: "No matter what the relationship, the love is exhausted, and the fate comes to the end." Blame yourself and politely exit.
Give yourself back to yourself, give others back to others. Let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees. Since then, the landscape has never met again. May the next life not be seen, not owed, not read. ”
Yang Ruoxi even had a family of three
After the breakup, although Yang Ruoxi could not let go, he was sad for a while, and cried in front of the media into tears.
But who can say with certainty that Liu Wei has not been sad?
Fortunately, they are now fine with each other, and Yang Ruoxi later met director Lian Yiming. The two married in 2011 and gave birth to a son in 2014, forming a happy family of three.
And Liu Wei also married the makeup artist Wang Xiaoyu, and at the age of 51, he grew old and had a son, forming a warm little family as he wished.
03 With Wang Xiaoyu
I often see a sentence in the circle of friends: "We have to meet the right person later, I am just mature, you are just gentle." ”
This sentence is most appropriate to put on Liu Wei and Wang Xiaoyu, although Wang Xiaoyu is not as beautiful as He Qing, nor is yang Ruoxi young, but the time they love each other is just right.
Wang Xiaoyu is 13 years younger than Liu Wei, she was once a well-known makeup artist in bayi film studio, and more than 20 film and television dramas such as "Beautiful Bigfoot", "Home with Nine Phoenixes", "Rushing Out of the Amazon", "Xuehua That Drift" have her masterpieces.
It is said that the two met very early on the set, but at that time, Wang Xiaoyu did not look at Liu Wei.
Later, the two met again in the "Snowflake That Drifting" crew, and from this play, the two had a deeper understanding.
As for when they began to fall in love, it is unknown.
And in Liu Wei's interview with Lu Yu, he also said that he was single.
And said that he was almost fifty years old, and if he was 10 years younger, he would definitely get married, and he would only want to live every day at the moment.
But soon after,
On August 8, 2008, Liu Wei was a happy father, and he thought that there was also a long story in it.
After marriage, Liu Wei was immersed in the joy of parenthood, and he would generously share his family life when he was on the show.
He also said that in order to "conquer" his parents-in-law, he relied on his own good cooking skills to "cook and make dumplings".
In addition, Wang Xiaoyu is from Shaanxi, and his parents do not speak Mandarin very well.
And Liu Wei spoke Shaanxi dialect, and he communicated with them in Shaanxi dialect, which immediately brought them closer.
In this way, Wang Xiaoyu's parents opposed it at the beginning, and finally handed over their daughter's hand to Liu Wei with confidence.
After marriage, Liu Wei tried his best to be a good husband, his wife was pregnant, because the filming could not be taken care of, he took her to the crew, and when she gave birth in the delivery room, he waited anxiously outside the delivery room until the mother and son came out safely.
After giving birth, Wang Xiaoyu became a full-time wife at home, taking care of his son and Liu Wei's life wholeheartedly.
For his wife, Liu Wei expressed great admiration, before she was a strong woman, now she is a Kennaisuke, she takes care of everything in the family in an orderly manner, and takes good care of her son.
We saw that after Liu Wei got married, he began to shoot a lot of good dramas from 2010.
Whether it is Lu San in "White Deer Plain", Bai Jingqi in "The Gate of the Great Mansion", or Sun Yuhou in "Ordinary World", he has performed very well.
04 Happy marriage is a business
For the audience, the better Liu Wei's acting skills, the better the more works she plays, but for Wang Xiaoyu, she hopes that her husband will not shoot so hard, pay attention to physical health and accompany her son.
But Liu Wei likes acting, and he can't help but pick up good dramas, and he also wants to take advantage of his youth to earn more money to give their mother and son more protection.
At this time, Wang Xiaoyu was a little angry and helpless.
Because no amount of money can stand up to a healthy and long-lived husband, but sometimes she can't help him, she often takes her son to the crew to visit the class in order to take better care of him.
The actors who have worked with Liu Wei said that every time Wang Xiaoyu came, Liu Wei's entire state was different, with his wife and children around, and the whole person emitted a taste of happiness.
And Wang Xiaoyu is a particularly careful and measured person, she will not ask him at will, let alone interfere in his work.
Liu Wei's friend Bai Yong once praised Wang Xiaoyu in this way: "My sister-in-law is particularly sensible and considerate.
And she especially understands what kind of occasions she should go, what kind of occasions she should not go, when she should talk, when not to speak, she looked at Liu Wei from a distance, and the places that should be taken care of were taken care of. ”
Liu Wei reason not to love Wang Xiaoyu, because she will not only take care of his emotions, but also have a particularly high emotional intelligence.
Sometimes Liu Wei went home from filming, and when she talked to her about who had a dispute with in the crew because of the drama, she would take the initiative to call the other party to let the family bear more responsibilities.
In addition, Wang Xiaoyu can also resonate with Liu Wei, and the two are like-minded in art appreciation, saying that getting one can produce spiritual resonance.
Liu Wei often lamented that his relationship with his wife was no longer simply summed up by the word "tacit understanding", but a heart-to-heart exchange.
So he loves her, not just because she's his wife, the mother of his children, but also because they're soul mates.
In fact, whether it is He Qing in the early days, or Yang Ruoxi, Liu Wei is sincere in every relationship, and treats them thoughtfully, but there is no reason and no point, and finally dispersed.
Falling in love with Wang Xiaoyu was an accident, but when it happened, he cherished it well, and he once said: "Don't get married when you are not sure that you will not divorce, and when your wife is pregnant, you must love her for a lifetime." ”
He did it, and in the fourteen years since he married Wang Xiaoyu, he not only earned money to support his family, but also shared the housework with his wife, accompanied his son, and regarded his wife and children as his own treasures.
Although Wang Xiaoyu is not the most beautiful, she is full of wisdom, has high emotional intelligence, loves to laugh, is kind, and can contribute to the small family.
She not only worked hard in this marriage to run a happy family with Liu Wei, she also did not forget to run herself, let herself and her husband on the same frequency, soul resonance, not only eat together, sleep together, but also talk about together.
Writer Su Qian said: "The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give the other party a quality lover."
Instead of desperately being nice to a person, that person will love you desperately. Feelings in the world will inevitably have a realistic side, you have value, your efforts will be valued. ”
Wang Xiaoyu,
Did it,
She deserves it.
I hope that we can all have the ability to add bricks to the family when two people live, and when one person lives, we can also live calmly.
Wen ‖ one by one
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