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Text: Cold Snow Mountain
Edited by Hanxue Mountain
Preface
Is there another definition of love?
In this entertainment industry full of drunken fans, love is often understood as a transaction, an exchange of interests.
Young and beautiful women trade their youth for the wealth and status of old men, while old men use money for short-term carnal enjoyment.
Such a love game seems ridiculous, but under careful packaging, it has become a trend.
Mistaken love and abandonment
On that morning in October 2007, the crisp autumn weather in Beijing was as bright and moving as first love.
Yang Ruoxi thought it would be a memorable day in her life, and she would share her joy and pride at the premiere of "Once Upon a Time in Peking".
Who would have thought that this would turn into the darkest and most desperate scene in her life.
When the leading actor Liu Wei was absent from the press conference for no reason, Yang Ruoxi's heart suddenly became turbulent, raging like a storm.
As a 19-year-old young girl, how did she meet and fall in love with this old actor?
Is the age gap between them 22 years so ridiculous to the outside world?
She used to be fascinated by those warm eyes and kind smile, but now all this turned out to be just an illusory dream?
Every question from the reporter was like a sharp knife, tearing Yang Ruoxi's wound bigger and deeper.
She hid her face and choked hard, trying to hide the grief in her heart, but tears poured out like a bank.
In an instant, countless fragments of heartbreak replayed in her mind:
The two met at the filming site, and Liu Wei thoughtfully took her to the hospital, and during the long night, he gently cared for her pain;
All the warmth and restraint remained, and in the end, only the regret of "breaking up" remained.
At this moment, Yang Ruoxi realized how naïve and stupid she was.
She once gave her feelings to Liu Wei wholeheartedly, but she was betrayed and hurt so viciously.
She tried to call him, begging him to reconsider, but the building was empty, vanishing into her life.
Originated from the crew
If fate is a thread that affects life, then this thread originated from the crew of the TV series "God of Wealth".
In 2005, Liu Wei and Yang Ruoxi met for the first time on the shooting site.
At that time, Liu Wei was in a frustrated relationship and was exhausted.
As an old actor who has read countless people, he thought that he was used to seeing all kinds of madness in this world, but he didn't expect that this accident would rekindle his hope.
When Yang Ruoxi was accidentally scalded by boiling water, Liu Wei quickly picked her up and sent her to the hospital for treatment, and in the following days, he always guarded her and took care of everything about her.
This kind of thoughtful behavior touched the young Yang Ruoxi, and she had an indescribable good impression of this "life-saving benefactor".
Although Yang Ruoxi is young, she has a persistent and innocent heart.
She made no secret of her admiration for Liu Wei, and expressed her friendliness and friendship to him wholeheartedly.
Liu Wei only loved her as a daughter at first, but as time went by, Yang Ruoxi's sincere love moved his heart.
In this way, a hazy and ambiguous "year-old love" kicked off.
In the eyes of outsiders, perhaps this relationship is wishful thinking of youth.
However, only the two themselves know that this is the purest love from the bottom of their hearts.
The age gap is insignificant in their eyes, and the distance between them is only the distance of love.
Transshipment and rebirth
Just as Yang Ruoxi was wandering in the shadow of a breakup, fate opened a new door for her.
This door is paved with sunshine, and what awaits her in front of her will be a new life and sincere love.
In April 2009, the popular director Lian Yiming and his wife Chen Shi ended their 5-year married life, and the two ushered in the day of parting ways.
And in the same year, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi met in the crew of a new drama "The Process of History".
At that time, both parties were coming out of the haze of broken love and divorce, and their hearts were severely hurt by the thorns of love.
They frequently cooperate in the crew, so much so that they have unconsciously become close friends who talk about everything.
Whenever in the dead of night, Lian Yiming would tell Yang Ruoxi about the pain of his divorce, and Yang Ruoxi also took the opportunity to pour out his inner entanglement with his ex.
The two frustrated hearts gradually regained their strength in the comfort of each other, and this special spiritual union created a unique bond between them.
The power of fate is so subtle, as if every link is indispensable.
If Yang Ruoxi hadn't suffered the pain of breaking up first, she might not have been able to understand the pain of Lian Yiming's loss of love so deeply;
If Lian Yiming hadn't tasted the bitterness of divorce, how could he cherish his friendship with Yang Ruoxi so preciously?
It is because they have gone through the same ordeal that they can truly know how to heal each other.
Love is like a tenacious grass that grows savagely in the ruins.
When the old life was shattered, it took root again.
In November 2011, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi got married in Chongqing, the hot pot city, in a low-key manner.
Since then, they have overcome all the gossip with courage and determination, laughed at the suspicion and criticism of the world, and embarked on their own road to happiness together.
Happiness doesn't come easily
The joy of marriage came too suddenly, so for a period of time after marriage, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi were entangled by doubts from the outside world all the time.
"Is she trying to get your money?"
"Didn't you see it when you divorced, why are you being hooked by her again?"
Wherever they went, there were always people who were secretly pointing fingers at them and sneering at them.
Some people even bluntly said that after Yang Ruoxi cheated Lian Yiming's money, he would abandon and leave sooner or later.
In the face of the storm of public opinion, the hearts of the two were actually shaken for a while.
After all, it is himself who understands each other's pain best, and Lian Yiming knows how hurtful the suspicion of outsiders is.
And Yang Ruoxi often cries bitterly at night, she is afraid that one day she will really lose her loved one again.
But it is precisely because they have been hurt by the thorns of love that they cherish the fate in their hands even more.
No matter how suspicious the outside world is, the two always respond to the voices of doubt with their actions and the most sincere gesture in life.
As time passed, people finally saw that the lovers were truly in love with each other.
In 2014, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi ushered in the crystallization of love, and a cute boy was born.
Yang Ruoxi personally named his son "Fubao", implying the arrival of good fortune.
Since then, she has given up her work and devoted herself to family life, sharing family fun with her husband and children.
Under the sunny and kind eaves, happy scenes are staged one after another.
However, the good times were short-lived.
Just three years later, when Yang Ruoxi was ready to make a comeback and return to the screen, her new image caused an uproar.
A large number of comparison photos of her before and after plastic surgery broke out on the Internet, criticizing her for being unnatural, and even bumping into her face with "Cai Ming".
For a while, all kinds of questioning voices sprung up like mushrooms after a rain, shrouding her once happy life in a haze.
epilogue
But after several ups and downs in life, Yang Ruoxi is no longer as fragile as before.
In the face of doubts, she chose to respond with silence without any defense.
Because she knows that a change in appearance does not change the essence of her heart.
A woman who was once spurned by the world now has a happy family, and she has written her own life legend with courage and tenacity.