Under the epidemic situation, there are daily thoughts

One: Thinking about the status quo

"The world is impermanent, fluctuating and undulating" is the only way for everyone.

This is our basic cognition from childhood to adulthood and after entering the society.

Since we have cognition, then from the time we enter the society and embark on the journey of life, we are very clear that the future road needs to be walked by ourselves.

In addition to some overwhelmed panic when we make choices, we will also be a little excited, because we can finally make our own choices, and finally we can arrange our own future paths.

When we excitedly imagine in our minds the beautiful blueprint of our future and arrange the road to be taken in the future, we also know very well that no one can go smoothly except for a very few people who are born with a good life, and we are all mentally prepared to face difficulties in the future, thinking about how we should deal with it if we are unfavorable, even if we don't know how to deal with unknown risks, we also think that no matter what risks occur, we should come up with a positive state, so that we can live out what we like.

In the later exploration of life, you stumble all the way, ups and downs, there will be times of loss and confusion, emotional control, complaining, complaining, and even a state of decadence.

None of this is terrible, because you know very well what bad luck, social injustice... Wait, they are just looking for a step for their reasons for failure now.

You are not a fool, the world cannot be absolutely fair, and you are not the only one who starts from the same starting point, faces the same problems, and has the same difficulties. If you really have such a mentality, you will not plan the blueprint you want, you will not go through this muddy water, and there will be no failure and sadness now. (All those who are very sad but are still working hard should not believe what they say, not not their experiences and concepts, but do not believe their own attitudes and cognitions in life that they show, that is just his habit of talking with the same disease, (this he may not even know himself, if we have this habit ourselves, we must change it, because this is not the real self), what he shows is not his true personal ideas and values, on the contrary, it is his most hated state), hee-hee, How to become a psychologist, originally just wanted to express the correct cognition of their own experience summary, a few simple words to explain the meaning of the line, the result is to be able to let me express more accurate and comprehensive, feel that this is not right, that is not right, from how to use words to express clearly, explain clearly, to start thinking about different ways of understanding different people ... This is not the beginning of the study of psychology, I do not have that level, nor the purpose, just want to simply express their own feelings in their own way, the result is more and more biased, I actually do not know, and so I think of my true purpose, I found that the eight rods could not be beaten, and I made a lonely one for half a day. I think this is a mistake that many people will make, and it is the reason for failure, thinking that they are doing a good job, there is no mistake, the direction has not changed, but in fact, you have already been biased, the direction is biased and you do not know it.

Here's a reminder not to forget what you really want to do, the path you really want to take. The true purpose you want to express. The steps that should be done now. Why do I feel like I'm doing research here? ）

All kinds of dissatisfaction and complaints are just an outlet for you to comfort yourself when you are frustrated in life.

Bad luck! Society is unfair.........

In fact, this is not the state you want, and it is not the self you like. (Here I have to remind myself again, always want to put forward a different, very deep and easy to argue point of view, to achieve a better level in the ideal, so it will fall into a dead loop, it seems to be right, want to output more perfect content, improve themselves, and in fact, all of their existing cognition of all the views are so many, they are very clear that the essence will not change, even if they put forward a new point of view, they are just in the original theory for a more advanced way of expression, This seems to be seriously engaged in content, in fact, has deviated, not to do content, like in the word game, think that they are trying to improve their ability, the goal is very clear, in fact, they have deceived themselves and do not know, this is actually a temptation, but also the reason for the failure of many people, the purpose is not pure they do not know, remember, all people who want to pursue perfection, will fall into the cage, and this cage is dug by themselves, they forget the original intention but still think that they are fighting for this original intention. There are many temptations on the road, the disguise is seamless, it seems to be just a small obstacle in our own way, we have obstacles in the road is normal, we are also mentally prepared, we all want to cross the line, nothing more than will affect our progress, as a result, we encountered the first time is not to cross the past first, but to stand there to study it, why is there this obstacle, the next time I encountered, how faster, the result consumes more and more time, and even tempts themselves to deviate from the direction, If you can't reach the end of the line late, you must be clear about what the original purpose is, even if you first achieve this purpose and then go back to study him to improve himself)

So it's not scary, it's not a failure, after all, it's not the state you want

The terrible thing is that I no longer want to live the life I want, and I have become someone who even hates myself.

Although a person's achievements will have a certain relationship with his starting point, this so-called starting point will only affect the size of his future achievements and the progress of achieving his life ideals.

A low starting point in life is a placebo for us to lick our wounds, not an excuse to stop and lose our self-mental collapse.

If we think about it, although we have not reached the size and progress of the achievements we want, we have not reached the end of the big and worst, and what is the reason for this failure now?