This is how I understand, know, and think that no matter what social class a person is in, no matter what kind of temperament and disposition his person is, no matter what type of occupation he pursues, and whether he is a working person or a retiree; in his life journey, he will always have some friends to a greater or lesser extent. So, what is a friend?!
One is: after a long time with you and me, no matter when, he or she can bluntly "count" the various shortcomings in you and me in front of anyone, and tell how to correct these shortcomings and stop making mistakes, such people are you and my friends.
The second is that after someone has been in contact with you and me for a long time, he or she is willing to directly state some of his shortcomings and shortcomings, and will also tell you and me about the ugly things, immoral things, and bad things he has done, and such people are you and my friend.
The third is: although there is contact with a certain person, the usual contact is also very little, even in the moment of reunion, he or she is not willing to communicate with you and me more, but once you and I have difficulties, as long as it is within the scope of his or her ability, and is willing to reach out to help, can let you and me through the difficulties of the person, such a person is you and my friend.
The fourth is: whenever he or she encounters all kinds of good people and things, he is willing to share with you and me in time or the first time, and such people are your friends and me.
The fifth is: a person who is really a good friend of you and me, he or she will only do all kinds of things that are "charcoal in the snow", not do the things that are "icing on the cake".
The sixth is: whenever it is the New Year, he or she will always be happy to send you and me a New Year card before the New Year, although his or her handwriting is not the best, but he or she is willing to do this every year, and it is a non-stop person, like this person is your friend and me.
The seventh is: there is any personal relationship about you and me, he or she will never ask or inquire from anyone who knows you and me, including you and myself, if you and I are willing to talk about something, he or she will listen carefully and carefully with your heart and ears, if you and I insist on saying something, he or she will not take the initiative to ask you and me something, such a person is your friend and my friend.
The eighth is: When you and I talk about ourselves, any human or thing, neither you nor I talk at length, nor do you and I talk concisely and pick the most important part to talk to, no matter how long you talk to me, he or she is willing to listen attentively, will not interject a word, will not express any opinion, no matter how long it is, will not show an impatient attitude, such a person is you and my friend.
The ninth is: no matter what the time period, no matter what kind of a reason, as long as you and I contact him or her, once you receive the message, he or she does not even have a word of complaint, and will not complain, like this person is you and my friend.
The tenth is: What kind of person can be counted as a good friend?! This is how I understand, know and think that if we are good friends with each other, then we should all have a benchmark, a goal, a banner, and a guiding light for each other, and people who can promote friendship between each other, make progress together, develop together, and correct shortcomings together.
The eleventh is: when the person returns from a trip, he is willing to buy a gift (a souvenir of the tour) for you and me, whether the gift he or she buys is extremely expensive or very cheap, and whether the gift he or she chooses, you and I are full of joy, or not at all, just the so-called courtesy is light and affectionate, and the person will do this every time he returns from a trip, not occasionally, and such a person is you and my friend.
The twelfth is: in the whole process of everyone's life journey, if you look for one or more good friends with each other, you don't necessarily have to look for temperament and personality that are exactly the same as yourself, but you must have similar experiences, the same interests and hobbies, and the same life values between each other.
The thirteenth is: If we say that we have never had relatively similar experiences, the same interests and hobbies, and the same values in life, we cannot find some commonalities and some commonalities, and the intersection between them is contrary to each other, even if they are now barely becoming so-called good friends, it will not take long for them to break up.
Fourteen is: I have always understood, known and thought that anyone must abandon a very wrong view, neither the same sex can become a real good friend, nor is it between men and women, each other can not be good friends, between the opposite sex can also become good friends, you can have one or more "red face confidant", "I" can also go to make some "blue face confidant".
[Remarks: (1): The article is the author's original; (2): All kinds of friendship pictures are from the Internet; (3): Thank you for the original pictures. 】
Du Lao Chi Xia Guest House (Lu Wei) wrote on the morning of Saturday, January 25, 2014