Tong Liya has won the love of a large number of fans with her charming appearance and kind and gentle personality, and netizens affectionately call her "Ya Ya".
Born in 1983, Tong Liya and Chen Sicheng became acquainted with "Beijing Love Story" and married in 2014, and soon welcomed their son Duoduo.
After having children, Tong Liya put most of her energy into the family. She generously posted a photo of her son Duoduo and her father on social media, and the expressions of the grandchildren were highlights.
In the photo, Xiao Duoduo is happily held by Grandpa, who is also full of happiness. After watching this photo, many netizens said that the picture is too warm and looks envious.
We often say "generation-skipping parents", after seeing this photo, many netizens are more convinced of the truth of intergenerational relatives, then do you know why the next generation will be pro?
First, the older generation has more time to spend with children
When the older generation ushers in grandchildren, most of them have reached retirement age, so unlike when they take care of their children, they have more time to spend with their grandchildren.
Time is a very magical thing, the more time together, the feelings naturally deepen, so the feelings with the grandchildren are deeper and closer.
Second, retirement is boring
Some people work all their lives and don't know what to do when they retire. These people will worry about the loneliness of old age, but if the children have children, they will be happy to take care of the children, so that at least it will not be boring.
And there will be a lot of liveliness in the family, we all know that the elderly love to be lively, so they like to get along with children, and they are also very spoiled children, so there is the word "next generation".
Third, the old man has enough patience
We all know that people live more and more thoroughly, and the things that they can't understand when they are young may suddenly want to open up in old age. Compared with younger parents, the elderly have a more cheerful mind.
People have a broad mind, generally do not lose their temper, so when taking care of children, the elderly will be more gentle, so it is easy to get the child's like.
Children are very noisy, but the older generation has enough patience to accompany them, has enough experience to take care of them, children are not stupid, of course, they will like people who are good to them, and the reason why we say that the generations are very large is this.
The elderly and the child can get along very well, but there are some things to pay attention to when giving the child to the elderly
1, consider the body of the elderly
If the old man's body is not very good, then no matter how much he likes the child or how much the child likes the old man to hold, he cannot let the old man hold the child for a long time.
After all, the energy of the elderly is limited and the children are too small, and the old one is really not reassuring. In order to avoid accidents, we must pay more attention.
2. Consider the child's development
The elderly can take good care of their children in life, but we must also consider the future of their children, and the thinking of the elderly is generally a bit out of step with the times.
If the child has been around the elderly without the company of parents, the thinking may not be advanced, which has a certain impact on future development.
In general, the advantages of the older generation with children still outweigh the disadvantages, and the children will be very happy and happy around the older generation.
The elderly have the company of children, and do not have to worry about the boring days of retirement, two generations are really at the right time to meet the right people, it is no wonder that a large number of netizens will be envious after seeing the photos.