On January 16, 2015, Yao Beina failed to resist the disease this time, and she closed her eyes forever, only 33 years old.
At the farewell ceremony of the body, there was no mourning music on the scene, but instead a song sung by Yao Beina herself; the fans who came to send her on her last journey cried, and Yao Beina's parents cried until they fainted.
As the only daughter in the family, Yao Beina's early death pushed her father Yao Feng and her mother Li Xinmin into the abyss of grief, and now that she has been gone for 7 years, her parents still do not accept this fact.
What is the living state of the old couple without a daughter? Where can their spiritual sustenance be placed?
01
Yao Beina's father, Yao Feng, was a vocal educator who served as the head of the vocal music department at the Wuhan Conservatory of Music, and later served as the director of the Shenzhen Qunyi Museum after being transferred to Shenzhen.
As a famous music teacher, Yao Feng has trained outstanding singers for literary and art troupes in various provinces and cities. His songs such as "Mulberry Field in the Sea" and "See Xibaipo Again" have been sung by well-known singers such as Dai Yuqiang and Liao Changyong.
Li Xinmin, the wife who matches Yao Feng, is also a well-known singer.
In this family atmosphere, in 1981, Yao Beina fell to the ground, she was talented, and at the age of 4, she could sing every note on the piano.
It was just that at that time, Yao Beina never sang a complete song in front of her parents, until she was 9 years old, Yao Beina sang a complete national anthem to her parents, and each tone surprised Yao Feng.
Looking at her daughter who likes to hum and sing in front of her, Yao Feng thought to herself, "My daughter has a talent for singing, and I have to guide her well." ”
In this way, borrowing the influence of her parents, Yao Beina began to perform on stage, she never timidized the stage, generously sang songs, and became a local famous child star for a while.
In 1997, Yao Beina was also admitted to the Affiliated Middle School of Wuhan Conservatory of Music with the first overall score and began to systematically study popular music, and her teacher was her father Yao Feng.
Father and Master are talking about these two.
But Yao Beina, who has just entered the school, was suspected of "spelling daddy", for which Yao Beina never explained, and she blocked her mouth with her top results.
Time passed in a hurry, and Yao Beina soon came to the crossroads of the college entrance examination.
She originally wanted to enter the Xinghai Conservatory of Music, but this idea was rejected by her other mentor, Feng Jiahui.
At that time, Yao Beina's vocal score was the first in the school, if going to the Xinghai Conservatory of Music was a small material, Feng Jiahui was not willing, she wanted Yao Beina to apply for the China Conservatory of Music.
Feng Jiahui
However, this school only recruited 15 people nationwide, and Yao Beina promised the teacher to take the exam.
There is also a small episode here, yao beina's mother knows that her daughter is going to Beijing for the exam, but also complains that Yao Feng does not go to Beijing to find connections for her daughter, walk around the relationship, Yao Feng said: "I don't believe, a good seedling who sings, can't go to school without relying on relationships?" ”
In the end, Yao Beina lived up to expectations and was admitted to the Vocal Department of the China Conservatory of Music in 2000, where she studied under Professor Dong Hua, a disciple of Jin Tielin.
The time spent studying in Beijing was the first time Yao Beina really left home, I remember yao Beina's first enrollment day, after her parents helped her prepare daily necessities, the family of three ate a meal at the restaurant in front of the school, during the banquet, Yao Feng tearfully said to her daughter: "At school, everything is the first time to call my father." ”
In this way, Yao Beina practiced the basic skills diligently in school, won many awards in singing competitions during college, and also cooperated with her teacher Dai Yuqiang.
In 2005, Yao Beina successfully completed her studies and walked out of school, and the first peak of her career also arrived.
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This year, China's first large-scale original musical, "Golden Sands," was recruiting female lead characters across the country, and director Sanbao was stunned when he first saw Yao Beina auditioning in the studio.
Yao Beina easily flew out of the high note C, as well as her singing skills and timbre conquered the three treasures, so Yao Beina starred in the heroine "Jin".
During the rehearsal, Yao Beina was always the first to come and the last to go, and her dedicated and studious attitude made everyone in the crew like, and on the day of the performance, she was affirmed by the musicians in the industry for the first time.
The Sands
It can be said that Yao Beina has made her road to art smooth with talent and hard work.
It was in this performance that Liu Huan in the seat noticed Yao Beina, which also laid the groundwork for the cooperation between the two later.
However, this year, Yao Beina's dream was to join the army, and she was admitted to the Naval Song and Dance Troupe as a soloist.
For his daughter's choice, Yao Feng has always been a supportive attitude, he knows that his daughter is a natural singer, where she can shine.
Indeed, the following year, Yao Beina won the second place in the professional group of the National Young Singers Television Grand Prix, and in 2007, Yao Beina appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
Yao Feng was very relieved to see that his daughter had realized her dream of joining the army and going to the Spring Festival Gala, and the husband and wife were at ease with their daughter's future, and they wanted their daughter to go on like this.
But Yao Beina is a natural singer, she herself does not like such a life, the father and daughter for the first time have a contradiction.
In 2008, Yao Beina replaced the cultural troupe to participate in the "13th CCTV Young Singers Television Grand Prix", Yao Beina won the championship with a song "Sun and Moon", and even a judge gave her a score of 100 points.
After the competition, Yao Beina made a decision that puzzled her parents - to leave the Haizheng Cultural and Labor Troupe.
After learning of their daughter's choice, Yao Feng and his wife flew from Shenzhen to Beijing to persuade their daughter not to give up her existing achievements, and they also mobilized Yao Beina's teacher Dong Hua to persuade her daughter.
Unfortunately, Yao Beina has an iron heart to sing the songs she wants to sing and reflect her own value on the stage she loves.
Within three years of quitting the troupe, Yao Beina not only released her own album, she also appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala again.
In 2011, Yao Beina ushered in another climax of her career, which was related to a TV series, that is, "The Biography of Zhen Huan".
This year, Liu Huan accepted Zheng Xiaolong's invitation and quickly made a THEME SONG and interlude for the TV series, but who to sing is another problem. At a moment of confusion, Liu Huan thought of Yao Beina, who once had a relationship, and in this way, Yao Beina's father Yao Feng and his assistant received a call from Liu Huan.
Cut off the love thread is still chaotic, thousands of heads are still entangled, handing over to the country, low eyebrows love red face, misfortune and blessing take turns, is it robbery or fate...
With the popularity of the TV series, Yao Beina's singing voice spread throughout the streets and alleys, and the TV series that came to her to cooperate were endless, and Yao Beina was as hot as she hoped.
It's just that she doesn't know whether this is "robbery or fate", her fate is tied to "Red Face Robbery", and heaven has made a huge joke to this red face.
03
Just a few months before the recording of the song, one day in April 2011, Yao Beina suddenly found herself with a pit on her left chest that resembled "dimples" .
Intuition told her that this was not a good sign, so she rushed to the hospital for a full body examination.
"Dad, I'll tell you the news that I may have cancer." After the examination, Yao Beina quickly called her father Yao Feng.
When Yao Feng heard this, he was stunned and did not say a word.
"Dad, what are you doing, you talk, I haven't been diagnosed yet." Yao Feng asked her daughter to go to several more hospitals to check and determine what was going on.
Then Yao Beina went to a different hospital for examination, and all her test results showed normal, so the doctor judged that she was inflamed and suggested that she come back to the clinic after three months.
Yao Feng and his wife were relieved.
At that time, Yao Beina was almost 30 years old, and when she reached the age of establishment, she was alone in Beijing again, and her parents realized that their daughter should start a family, and they began to urge marriage.
In Yao Feng's heart, he felt that love and career were not in conflict, and it would be better if he could find a sympathetic fellow. He and his daughter had a long talk, talking about their parents' expectations and Yao Beina's own problems.
Yao Beina assured her parents: "Don't worry, I will find someone to enjoy the family." ”
With the promise of their daughter, the stone in Yao Feng and his wife's heart fell, and they waited for their son-in-law to come to the door in Shenzhen with joy.
Who ever thought that after 20 days, Yao Beina found that her physical condition was worse, she went to the hospital again for examination, this time, he was admitted to the hospital on the same day.
Yao Feng and Li Xinmin came to Beijing to accompany their daughter on the same day.
Whether the things in Yao Beina's body were benign or malignant could only be known until a biopsy was done, and she made a decision of her own, she wanted to remove her left breast.
How painful this is for an unmarried woman, but Yao Beina has no entanglement or regret.
On May 31, 2011, Yao Beina was lying in the operation waiting area, looking at her mother on the side who had already cried into tears, and her father forced herself to hold back tears to cheer her up, Yao Beina suddenly realized that she was really going to go through a ghost door, and it was uncertain whether she would live or die.
At this moment, Yao Beina burst into tears.
The operation went from six o'clock in the morning to three o'clock in the afternoon, and Yao Feng and his wife sat at the door of the operating room without eating. Fortunately, Yao Beina's breast cancer was early, with no metastasis and no spread, and the operation was successful.
When Yao Beina woke up, she shook her parents' hands and said, "Mommy and Daddy are sorry, I will take good care of my body." ”
Yao Feng and Li Xinmin comforted their daughter that the darkness had passed, and their family of three could live as before. But in order to prevent cancer cells from growing with the help of Yao Beina's young body, doctors recommended chemotherapy.
Yao Feng and his wife accompany their daughter in the hospital every day, accompanied by chemotherapy and hair loss, vomiting torment Yao Beina is in pain, seeing her daughter lose weight day by day, Li Xinmin often hides in the toilet alone and cries, she often wonders why she can't bear the pain for her daughter?
Throughout the second half of the year, Yao Beina was in chemotherapy, she suspended work, fully accompanied by her family, she comforted her mother: "I will hold on, spring is coming." ”
When the chemotherapy treatment was over, the doctor told her: "You have recovered well, and you will be a normal person in the future days." ”
Yao Feng and Li Xinmin cried more painfully than Yao Beina when they heard the doctor's words, and their daughter finally restarted her life. In this way, Yao Feng and his wife returned to Shenzhen again, while Yao Beina stayed in Beijing to continue working.
Through this illness, Yao Beina also recognized what she wanted, and she wanted to enjoy the process of singing in life.
04
In 2012, Yao Beina set sail again, singing the theme songs of the movies "Painted Skin" and "1942", and also participated in the competition of the music variety show "The Voice of China".
Red T-shirts, jeans, canvas shoes are the audience's impression of her, and a song "Maybe Tomorrow" made her enter the vision of the ordinary public from the clouds.
Two years later, Yao Beina once again appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, this time she sang the song "Tianyao China" in the finale, she did not know that the parents in front of the screen watched their daughter break out of the world again.
The years of fighting the disease reappeared in front of the couple's eyes, and they hoped that their daughter would not suffer from the pain for the rest of her life.
Unfortunately, in December 2014, Yao Beina's condition suddenly deteriorated, the cancer cells had metastasized to the brain and lungs, and her life began to count down.
In January of the following year, Yao Beina lay on the hospital bed and knew that her time was running out, and she wanted to donate her cornea to those in need, so on January 8, Yao Feng signed a donation volunteer letter for her daughter.
Eight days later, Yao Beina died of illness at the age of 33.
Before dying, Yao Beina took her parents' hands: "I'm sorry, this time my daughter really can't hold on, and I will repay you in the next life."
Yao Beina came to the earth for thirty years, and before people could appreciate her, she ended her journey in the dust and went to a paradise without sickness.
It was only her walk that pushed her parents into the abyss of grief.
There are thousands of pains in the world, white-haired people sending black-haired people is not the most painful thing, at the daughter's funeral, Guo Feng choked up several times, and Li Xinmin cried until he fainted.
A hundred days after his daughter's death, Yao Feng auctioned Yao Beina's living objects: "Instead of just leaving us a thought, it is better to let Beina fans have a long-term thought." ”
In the end, more than 2.7 million yuan was auctioned, and Yao Feng donated it to a Hope Middle School in Xinjiang.
In the same year, the International Astronomical Union also named asteroid 41981 "Yao Beina Star", presumably every night, Yao Feng and his wife had to look at the stars shining in the sky with their daughter's light.
At the end of September of that year, Shimenfeng Memorial Park also made a statue for Yao Beina, and the bottom of the statue read: A girl who loves to sing, a girl who sings with her life.
The world is commemorating Yao Beina in every way they think of, but what about her parents? How do you live?
05
Yao Feng and Li Xinmin did not dare to turn on the TV for a long time, did not dare to watch their daughter's relevant reports, and did not dare to listen to their daughter's songs.
They focus their lives on teaching and educating people, and their students also know the teacher's experience and comfort them, take them to live actively, and get out of the pain.
Later, Yao Feng understood that what her daughter valued most in her life was music, and after her death, the husband and wife wanted to use music to pin their thoughts on their daughter.
Yao Feng produced a complete set for his daughter, and Yao Beina left more than 300 songs in her short life.
In 2018, three years after Yao Beina's death, her parents and fans held a commemorative event for her, and Yao Beina's grandmother also came to the commemoration event, and tears were spilled on the scene.
The fans also sang a song for Yao Beina on the spot, saying: "This time we sing to you." ”
Seeing that so many people still miss their daughters, Yao Feng and Li Xinmin also cheered up, Li Xinmin slowly threw himself into various performances, and Yao Feng conformed to the development of the times and began to popularize singing knowledge to the elderly choir on the Internet.
In 2020, when Yao Beina was 39 years old, Li Xinmin recorded 6 songs for her daughter, and behind each work was a mother's endless thoughts about her daughter and the eternal love.
The following year, Yao Feng also joined the production team of "The Voice" champion Wu Keyue. Yao Beina re-bloomed on this stage, and Yao Feng also set sail again on this stage, which is also the fate of the father and daughter in the darkness.
Now Yao Feng and Li Xinmin have gradually come out of the grief of the bereaved daughter, but when eating, they will always put a pair of dishes and chopsticks for their daughter, and they will always keep their daughter's room at home, and they will spend the rest of their lives with their love for their daughter.
I hope that Yao Feng and Li Xinmin can dedicate their own efforts to music instead of Yao Beina, and I also hope that the second elder can live a stable and happy life.
Wen | Uncle Wine
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