The recent entertainment version of musk news should be seen by everyone, to the effect that Musk stepped on two boats, and while dating Australian actress Natasa Bassett, he also had a second child with his ex-girlfriend, Exa Dark Sider l.
And this time, Musk finally has a daughter, the baby girl he and Grimes gave birth to through surrogacy. Exa Dark Sider was born at the end of 2021, which means that around February 2021, the two decided to have a daughter and transferred the embryos to a surrogate mother. But in September 2021, when the surrogate mother was about 7 months pregnant, the two announced that they had broken up. Although the two broke up, Grimes also said that they would probably continue to have a third and fourth child... (Media speculation does not rule out that the two men froze more embryos.) As the world's richest man worth more than $230 billion, Musk can afford to raise many children. Musk and his first wife Justin had six babies, unfortunately the eldest son died at 10 weeks of birth, so the two used technology to give birth to twins and triplets twice through IVF.
Today, let's take a look at the other side of Silicon Valley Iron Man Musk: a different view of fertility and marriage.
Conqueror in marriage
Musk's first wife, Justin, was a science fiction writer who the two met while studying in Canada. In fact, from Justin to Musk's second wife and ex-girlfriends, it can be seen that Musk's requirements for his spouse are almost all blonde beauties.
At the wedding, Justin was already aware of Musk's conqueror side. While they danced, Musk told Justin, "I'm the one who led this marriage." Two months later, Justin signed an agreement to distribute her marital property, which plunged her into a protracted property struggle.
Although the two were truly in love when they were in love in college, Justin's romance healed the trepidation in Musk's personality, and Justin regarded Musk as his hero. But after the marriage, Justin told the media: "Musk always repeatedly commented on my shortcomings, 'I am your wife, not your employee', and Musk will reply,' if you are my employee, I will fire you." ’”
In 2002, Justin gave birth to her and Musk's first son, Nevada, but Nevada died 10 weeks after birth, and doctors concluded that the child died of sudden infant death syndrome, an accident. In an article, Justin revealed: "The child is in the hospital on a ventilator to maintain his life, and three days later we decided to take off his respirator. He died in my arms. Musk made it clear that he didn't want to talk about Nevada's death, but I couldn't understand it, as if he couldn't understand my grief in front of people, and he said I was being led by emotion. So I decided to let go of my grief, and two months later, I went to the clinic for the first time with the intention of doing IVF. Musk and I both want to have another child as soon as possible. Over the next 5 years, I had twins and triplets. ”
Justin later attributed Musk's reaction to the defensive psychology formed by his childhood encounters. "Musk is afraid of the dark, he keeps moving forward, only then can he survive."
Musk later said briefly: "Talking about this will only make me extremely sad, and I don't understand why I should talk about such an extremely sad topic, which will not do me any good for the future." If you already have other children and responsibilities, immersing yourself in grief is not good for anyone around you. ”
In 2006, after twins, Justin gave birth to triplets but suffered from severe postpartum depression. The couple's marriage also had a red light in 2007. In Justin's blog, Musk became less romantically charming, and she always felt that others thought she was a vase.
On a trip to St. Barthes, the Musks had dinner with many prominent couples, and Justin expressed his political views at the dinner table, only to be ridiculed by a man present who felt that Justin was too opinionated. Musk, who was at the scene, smiled and then patted Justin's hand like a child.
The move made Justin think he was being snubbed, and she immediately asked Musk to introduce himself to outsiders by saying that Justin was a writer who had published novels, not just Musk's wife or the mother of their children. But it turned out that Musk kept telling people on the rest of his journey: "Justin wants me to tell you how many novels she wrote." ”
Such a perfunctory introduction infuriated Justin, which not only did not give Justin respect, but also did not bring any change to her situation. This disparity in family status is also reflected in musk's rareness in talking to Justin about the details of his work and property, and Justin says that he has been in the dark and that she has no idea about the family's financial situation.
What makes the marriage worse is Musk's 24/7 job, even if the two hire a babysitter team to take care of 5 children, it can't make up for the lack of Musk's absence at home.
On June 16, 2008, Musk went through divorce procedures. Three months later, Justin published her first blog post about their divorce, writing: "We had a great time, we were partners when we were young, we went a long way together, and now we're coming to an end. ”
Justin turns on big breaking mode
In the blog that follows, Justin details how their marriage ended, as well as his thoughts on Musk's later new girlfriend and future wife. Her description of the divorce process goes like this:
For me, the option of divorce is a bomb that detonates when you have nowhere to go, and I haven't given up on negotiating this option, so I didn't sign the divorce agreement. We were just in the marriage counseling phase. But Musk wanted to solve the problem the way he did, as he always did, so he gave me an ultimatum: "If we can't solve the marriage problem today, then we will divorce tomorrow." That night and the next morning, he asked me exactly what I wanted to do, and I repeatedly stressed to him that I wasn't ready for a divorce and that I hoped we could try to spend another week together. Musk nodded in agreement.
As a result, that morning, Justin found out that Musk had stopped her credit card while shopping, and musk had signed a divorce agreement.
As soon as Justin's blog broke the news, Musk's image and career that he had painstakingly managed for many years suffered a major setback, and everything turned into disaster. Both the mainstream media and the gossip media have begun to track down the court verdict reporting Musk's divorce, especially as Justin began to fight for more alimony.
During Musk's PayPal, Justin signed a postnuptial agreement, which Justin said he didn't have enough time and interest to study at the time. Later, Justin published a blog post titled "Gold Diggers" saying she was fighting for their property, alimony, children's education, $6 million in cash after divorce, 10 percent of Musk's Tesla stake, 5 percent of SpaceX's stake, and a Tesla Roadster. Justin even appeared on CNBC's "The War of Divorce" and wrote for the women's magazine "Jia Ren" titled "I Was an Entrepreneur's Wife: America's Most Confusing Divorce Inside Story."
In this divorce case, the public is more inclined to stand on Justin, after all, Musk is full of money. But the problem is that most of Musk's assets are invested in Tesla and SpaceX stock, which are difficult to cash out. The final divorce settlement was: Justin got a property, $2 million in cash, $80,000 a month in alimony, 17 years of child support, and a Tesla Roadster.
In the years since the dust settled on the divorce, Justin still can't talk about her relationship with Musk normally. In an interview with Vance, the author of "Iron Man in Silicon Valley," she burst into tears several times and needed time to calm her mind. She said that in their marital relationship, Musk hid a lot from her, and when they finally divorced, Musk still used her as a business rival to conquer. "For a while, our relationship was like an enemy, but if your opponent is Musk, then the war can become very cruel."
Second and third wives
Musk's second and third wives are British actress Riley, who is 14 years younger than him, and in order to chase this big beauty, Musk bought a total of three engagement rings, including a large diamond ring, a daily wear value, and one designed by Musk himself, surrounded by 10 sapphires, which means that he hopes to have 10 children with Riley.
However, this relationship is like a roller coaster, ups and downs, divided and merged. After Riley and Musk flashed marriage, she thought she was married to a billionaire who had made a fortune and conquered the world, but the reality was that Musk's cash at that time could only barely last until the end of the year, spaceX and Tesla needed capital injection to pay employee wages, but after 2008, the financial market was in a mess, and all investment was forced to be suspended.
Riley sees Musk's life as a Shakespearean tragedy, sometimes opening up to her, but sometimes retreating into her own world. Because of long hours of work and irregular diet, Musk looks like a tired athlete after a very long marathon, and Riley even describes that Musk looks like a god of death, and she fears that Musk will die of a heart attack. When he sleeps at night, Musk often has nightmares in the middle of the night and wakes up screaming.
As for the reasons for the first divorce, Riley said: "I just felt very unhappy, I felt that I might have made a wrong decision. ”
For the later reunion, Riley said that after the divorce, she could not find a person who could replace Musk, and she went around in a circle by herself, and did not find a person who moved her heart. Another reason is that Musk will never listen to other people's words in his life, no one will listen, but Musk is willing to do anything for Riley and listen to Riley's opinion. Riley said: "Musk proved to me that he values my opinion and is willing to listen to my opinion, and I think it speaks to a problem, which is that he has worked hard for this, and I love him and think of him." ”
The ruthless CEO Musk and her husband Musk are two completely different people. In Riley's eyes, Musk is cheeky and humorous, very family-oriented, and very good to children, when there is a family gathering, Musk will try to go home as early as possible to accompany Riley and the children, but at the same time Musk is also very fickle, he is the most eccentric person Riley has ever seen.
When he is with his children, Musk will accompany them to play computer games, listen to the children's experiences of the day, and take the children on excursions.
Unique parenting concepts
Musk's nannies are so many that they need to set up a special "nanny manager" position. But with an unusual father like Musk, for his sons, watching his father build rockets has become so habitual that they think it is not very cool to watch rocket launches.
Musk thinks he's a good dad. He says he spends more than half of his week with his sons and takes them with him when he goes out. In an interview with Vance a few years ago, Musk said that they recently went to Monaco to watch the Formula One championship and play with the Prince and Princess of Monaco. This is very common for children, who are tired of playing.
The children who grew up with a golden spoon did not suffer like Musk, which made Musk very distressed. Because he feels that hardship has made him what he has achieved today. In Musk's view, students should suffer a little in school, but the current school is too protective of students. While musk was a student, he said that if anyone gave you a punch, if there was no bleeding, it wouldn't matter. If it's just a little bit of blood, that's fine. horse
Ske asked himself, "What can I do to make the children suffer a little?" At best, I limit the amount of time they play video games. Because they always want to play day and night. My rule is that they have to spend more time reading books than they do playing games, and they can't play particularly stupid video games. ”
After the divorce, Justin also continued to expose the news. In one blog post, she revealed that when the twin sons were 7 years old, Musk banned any fluffy toys in his home.
"Musk is very tough, he himself grew up in a harsh family and social environment, so he became very tough so that he could become strong and conquer the world. Musk doesn't want to spoil his kids too much, he doesn't want them to have no purpose in life. ”
The reason for the regeneration of 10 babies
Musk, who already has 5 children in a marriage, how many children does it take to have enough children? Judging by the engagement ring he gave Riley, he plans to add at least 10 more.
Musk and the producers of "The Big Head" had a face-to-face discussion about having a few more children, and one of the ideas was that smart people should at least maintain their population base. Musk said: "According to Darwin's theory of evolution, if there is no survival of the fittest, then obviously, this is not a good thing. At least the number of smart and stupid people should be balanced. But if each generation of smart people has fewer and fewer children, that may not be a good thing. Europe, Japan, Russia and China will all face demographic problems. Wealthy people, people with high levels of education, and people without religious affiliation generally show low fertility rates. I'm not saying that only smart people should have children, but smart people should also have children, and they should at least maintain a population renewal rate. ”
So for Musk, having babies is also part of his contribution to human evolution and development. He had fantasized that if he and Riley had a lot of children, they would wait until Musk was 70 years old, and he would be able to settle down on Mars, and Riley might stay on Earth with the children.
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