It is not difficult to find in life that many children are particularly well-behaved when they are young, especially sensible, and when they grow up, their personalities change greatly, which makes parents heartbroken, and many parents think that children are disobedient, but they have never pursued what they did wrong. Professor Li Meijin once said: "Children are not wrong, and children's faults are all adults' faults." Many people dare not admit this, but this is really the truth. The ancients said: "Strict self-discipline", which is used to educate children, the same is true.
The little Providence in "Fortune Diary" is a child picked up by Song Xiaobao, the child has no mother, in kindergarten, the teacher let the children draw their mothers, Xiao Providence will not draw the mother, which was ridiculed by other children. Back at home, Xiao Tianyi asked himself why there was no mother, Song Xiaobao, in order not to make the child sad, let a friend pretend to be her mother to write a letter to Xiao Tianyi, Xiao Tianyi was very happy, of course, the paper could not keep the fire, or was discovered by Xiao Tianyi.
The grandfather of Little Providence is not the grandfather of Little Providence, but Grandpa is very good to Little Providence, and this kind of care makes Little Providence's childhood full of love, Little Providence is lively and cheerful, and has a sense of gratitude to Grandpa, which makes the audience feel kind.
Until one day, Song Xiaobao's money was helplessly lent to the second brother, he had no money, he could not take care of Xiao Tianyi by himself, and in desperation, in the case that the child did not want to live in the school, he sent Xiao Tianyi to the boarding school.
Song Xiaobao simply thought that he had come to Shenzhen to earn money, and he was bent on cultivating the child he had picked up and sent him to boarding school, thinking that it was a perfect choice. But he never thought about how a child could leave the education of the family and the love of his relatives.
Until the child grows up, the problem comes, the misunderstanding of the father, the resentment that arises from the incomprehension. This segment is the most poignant part of the audience. After all, the child was still young, and he could not understand the difficulties and helplessness of his father's life. Coupled with so many years of boarding school life, lack of communication with the father, the misunderstanding with the father makes people sad and helpless.
The child is so old, in the absence of communication, has not been told of his origins, the child's aunt who is kind to himself, pretending to be her mother to write to him, the resentment caused by the letter, let the attention is even more heart-wrenching.
I suddenly remembered what Professor Li Meijin once said - the problem of children's education is a lagging response, the problem of education will not be presented immediately, he will present the problem of your education in 10 or 20 years.
The most gratifying thing about the movie is the ending, I didn't expect that a diary that Song Xiaobao wanted to record how to get rich in Shenzhen, was discovered by Providence, and found his father's helpless life.
People need to communicate with each other, and children need companionship. The child is born to accompany, raise a kitten and puppy, we are still with it, it is impossible to send it outside for foster care, right? Raising a child, if you send it to boarding school, what else to talk about raising children?
Parents are bent on making money, the child is sent to boarding school regardless of whether he asks, and gradually the child's relationship with us is shallow, and we are even more unable to educate him. When the child grows up, remembering the picture with his parents, it is only a one-sided little memory of his childhood, what is it like? Decades have passed, the memories are only a little bit, and the memories are still in the early childhood!