The best way to love someone is to be able to accompany each other and keep each other warm. When the person you love can really understand you, is willing to listen to your heart, and gives you the love and tenderness you really want, it shows that he really can't do without you.
We crave love, we crave marriage, if we meet the right person. The so-called right people are suitable for each other, can support each other together, need each other, and look at each other tirelessly.
If you are full of quarrels and cold wars together, and do not know how to tolerate and understand each other, it means that your feelings are rifted.
Life is full of challenges, we need to feel the changes in life with our hearts, and use love to melt the ice of this world.
Don't panic, don't get lost, don't wander. Don't be bound by age, don't be blinded by external distractions.
You have to remember that the present you are always younger than the future you are, and we don't have to be anxious and uneasy about the difficulties we encounter at this moment, it will all pass.
When you have walked a long way, you will suddenly look back and you will find that you really can't make such a tangle and pain, you have grown and progressed.
The same goes for feelings. When you meet someone who is not right, or when you are caught in a fictitious relationship, you can choose to end the relationship, and there is no need to let yourself struggle repeatedly in this cold relationship.
Generally speaking, middle-aged men usually have such abnormal behavior after they have feelings.
1, the desire to integrate into your world of really beautiful feelings, is that two people can help each other, rely on each other, need each other, and can be compatible with each other, so that you have me, I have you, each other's water and milk.
No matter what, life goes on, don't stop for someone who doesn't deserve love.
When a middle-aged man has feelings for you, he usually can't wait to fit into your world and mingle with you.
It is precisely because he can never let go of you in his heart, so he will always silently care about and pay attention to your latest developments, want to go in and out with you, soak up the sun, and feel the subtle changes in life.
When you have a keen interest in one person's life, you may want to fully integrate into the other person's circle of life.
Novelist John Owen said, "What could be better than the fusion of two souls?" Feel their lives merge into one – supporting each other with each other's efforts, comforting each other in grief, assisting each other in pain, until the final parting moment, in the wordless memories. ”
If the person you love starts to dislike you everywhere, and he no longer wants to have any intersection with you, you are like two completely independent worlds, indicating a deep rift in your feelings.
2, want to get your attention When a middle-aged man tries to win your attention, try his best to attract your attention, indicating that he may have feelings for you.
The reason why he wants your attention and craves your attention is because he is afraid of missing you.
If he doesn't care about you at all, he naturally won't want to get your attention, on the contrary, he will completely ignore your existence, whether you are good or bad for him, he will not really pay attention to it.
We long for love because we are so lonely, we are afraid of being swallowed up by loneliness. When a middle-aged man is willing to fit into your world and craves your attention and care, it shows that he is deeply dependent on you.
Only when he is emotional, will he be like a child, can't help but coddle you, take the initiative to show you kindness, and do everything possible to make you happy.
We all long for more care and attention from our beloved, and want to get more encouragement and comfort from our partners, which is also the meaning and value of love.
If a middle-aged man doesn't care about your opinions and evaluations at all, even if you constantly deny or belittle him, he will not be sad or depressed, even if you ignore him, he will not be hurt, indicating that he does not love you at all.
The more you love your middle-aged man, the more eager you are to get your care and attention, and to find a sense of presence and belonging in your feelings.
He longs for you to be able to rely on him appropriately, he wants you to take the initiative to ask him for help, and he hopes that he can become your reliance and pillar.
Once you no longer need him, he is an indispensable decoration for you, he will be particularly uncomfortable, and even doubt life.
So, when you find a middle-aged man who longs to get your true heart, whenever you take the initiative to care for and greet him, he seems to be particularly excited and excited, and there is a good chance that he has feelings for you.
3, almost obedient to you If a middle-aged man is almost obedient to you, completely obey your arrangements and obey your management, it means that he has feelings for you.
Two people living together need to tolerate and tolerate each other. If he confronts you everywhere, never thinks about problems from your point of view, and deliberately makes things difficult for you, it means that he is not interested in you.
The reason why he will be obedient to you is not because he is afraid of you, but because he loves you.
Of course, you can't try to deceive his feelings without hesitation by pampering you. On the contrary, the more you love your middle-aged man, the more you must know how to cherish his efforts.
Not all middle-aged men will be willing to pay you love and tenderness, only when he moves his feelings, he will not be able to help but be affectionate and tender to you.
The middle-aged man who loves you will become extra soft, willing to lay down his body for you, never easily quarrel with you, even if he occasionally quarrels, he will take the initiative to give you a step down.
A middle-aged man who has feelings for you usually has three typical characteristics: intrinsic kindness, natural warmth, and open-mindedness.
The gentleness of middle-aged men is reflected in many aspects, for example, he will put himself in your shoes, never easily violate your wishes, and will not embarrass you.
When you realize that a middle-aged man is almost obedient to you, silently paying for you, and unconditionally embracing you, it shows that he is truly in love with you, and you have to cherish him.
In short, meeting the right person is not an easy thing, pay attention to the time and place. When you encounter it, you must cherish it more.
We tend to be polite to strangers, but ignore those who really love us, and even the minimum courtesy is missing.
As the writer Su Gengsheng said: "Man, what a strange creature, always estranged from the people who should have been gentle with each other, but they were politely close to the people who should have turned their faces, true and false, and finally even they were mistaken, forgetting who our lovers were, and those who should have forgotten were placed next to them." ”
Life is short, there is really no need to worry about temporary troubles, we should be open-minded and long-term.
All the joys and sorrows, put into the long river of years, are just a small stone, and they cannot arouse too many waves.
If you feel that life is very stressful and you have suffered great grievances, you can talk to your partner or talk to friends and family.
In fact, no one knows you better than you, and you will find that the person you can really rely on is not someone else, but yourself.
When you find someone who really understands you, who is willing to be your loyal listener, and who is willing to take the initiative to help you share your worries and pain, pressure and anxiety, it shows that he has moved his feelings for you, and you must know how to cherish and be grateful.