On January 30, 2010, Yao Chen wrote on Weibo that he wanted to write a letter to Ling Xiaosu ten years later, telling him, "You are old, it doesn't matter, I don't hate you, because I am also old." ”
At that time, she and Ling Xiaosu had a strong relationship, and everyone believed that ten years later, they would definitely still be together, still a loving couple.
Unexpectedly, not long after sending this Weibo, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu's feelings took a sharp turn, and the two suddenly parted ways.
January 30, 2011, the 27th day of the lunar month, is three days before the Spring Festival. On this day, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu received divorce certificates and ended their seven-year marriage.
At this time, it was exactly one year since Yao Chen wrote that ten-year weibo. After the divorce, she deleted all past "love".
After that, Yao Chen married the well-known photographer Cao Yu and had a son and a daughter; Ling Xiaosu was also married to the actor Tang Yifei, and also had a son and a daughter.
Originally, after the divorce, they were happy and had nothing to do with each other, but because of the question of "who cheated first", the two sides tore each other apart.
Both Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu accused each other of cheating, and it was the other party who had a third party before the marriage broke up. Tang Yifei also denied that he was a third party.
For a time, the three people talked to themselves and became the famous "Rashomon" in the entertainment industry.
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In the fall of 1999, Ling Xiaosu became a freshman at the Beijing Film Academy, and was in the same class as Yao Chen.
After the beginning of the school, the two were often arranged by the teacher to rehearse and perform together, and under the day and night, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen began to fall in love.
Ling Xiaosu was born in a film family, his grandfather was Ling Zifeng, who directed "Camel Xiangzi", his grandfather was a famous photographer in the industry, and his mother was the director of Xi'an Film Studio.
At the age of 19, Ling Xiaosu successfully passed the admissions exam of the Beijing Film Academy, where he met Yao Chen.
Yao Chen, a native of Fujian, was born into a working-class family, his father was a railway worker, and Yao Chen was several months older than Ling Xiaosu.
Unlike Ling Xiaosu, Yao Chen began to learn dance at a very young age, and began to study at the Beijing Dance Academy Affiliated Middle School at the age of 14, mainly learning folk dance.
Yao Chen is a student selected by the Fuzhou Song and Dance Troupe in his hometown to be trained at the Beijing Dance Academy at public expense, and must return to work in the dance troupe after graduation, otherwise he will have to pay liquidated damages.
During her time at Beiwu, Yao Chen was selected by the school to make cameo appearances in several plays, an experience that made her have a strong interest in acting and changed her plans for the future.
After graduating from Beiwu, Yao Chen decided not to return to the Fuzhou Song and Dance Troupe, but to apply for the Beijing Film Academy. This means that you can only use money to fight for freedom.
The father, who was a worker, raised money everywhere, scraped together 100,000 yuan, and handed it over to the Fuzhou Song and Dance Troupe, so that Yao Chen could safely go to the north to telegraph.
The opportunity to go to Nortel to study was not easy to come by, and Yao Chen cherished it very much, in addition to taking classes seriously and concentrating on rehearsals, she also went to a nearby restaurant to work when she had time.
After falling in love with Ling Xiaosu, the love between the Northwest Hanzi and the Little Beauty of the South has become a good story on campus.
In his junior year, Ling Xiaosu took over the Shaanxi local feature film "Guanzhong Bandit Affair" and played the role of Dunzi. With this role, Ling Xiaosu began to emerge.
Later, Ling Xiaosu acted in film and television dramas such as "Perfect Summer" and "Human Life Guantian", and his career gradually revealed its dawn, and his love with Yao Chen soon blossomed.
As soon as he graduated from his senior year, Ling Xiaosu and Yao Chen got a license to marry.
In the first year of marriage, Yao Chen took over the indoor sitcom "Wulin Waichuan" directed by Shang Jing, which was broadcast on CCTV, and Yao Chen became popular with the role of "Guo Furong" in the play.
The relationship between Yao Chen, who was red, and Ling Xiaosu was suddenly reversed.
Previously, Ling Xiaosu's first acting in "Bandits in Guanzhong" was as the male number one and becoming the best among his classmates; and Yao Chen, in addition to participating in "Perfect Summer" with Ling Xiaosu, played a supporting role in several plays.
In Shang Jing's "The Story of the Cooking Class", Yao Chen made a cameo appearance in the role of Xiao Yao, and it was also this experience that gave her the later "Tale of Wulin".
After the fire of "Wulin Wai Biao", Ling Xiaosu became "Yao Chen's husband" in the public's mouth. For this title, Ling Xiaosu did not reject it, he knew that Yao Chen could have such an achievement, and how much hard sweat had been paid behind it.
"Whether I admit this title or not, it can't change the fact that I am her husband, I just feel sorry for her too hard." 」 Yao Chen on the side listened to this and was also very moved.
After becoming famous, Yao Chen cooperated with Ling Xiaosu in "Days with Flight Attendants", but the response to this drama was quite general. Instead, the spy drama "Latent" cooperated by Yao Chen and Sun Honglei became the hit of the year.
A few years after graduation, Yao Chen has become a popular actress in China with two plays, she began to fight on the big screen, but the marriage went wrong at this time.
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In September 2009, Yao Chen opened Sina Weibo, which she treated as a diary, and the most recorded was the daily life of Ling Xiaosu.
Because he stayed on Weibo all day, some friends joked that Yao Chen was a Weibo maniac. Yao Chen joked with Ling Xiaosu, saying that he would also learn from Lu Xun in the future and write a "Weibo Madman's Diary".
Ling Xiaosu did not think much of this, and he told Yao Chen not to insult Lu Xun, and he also "damaged" her: "At most, you are a brine egg, or a very inferior brine egg."
After that, Yao Chen changed her Weibo profile picture to a brine egg, and her personality signature was also changed to "a very inferior brine egg." ”
In addition to the small two gags, Yao Chen also recorded the thoughts of the two filming separated, and when she was at home, Ling Xiaosu cooked chicken soup for her, cooked noodles and other loving daily life.
It's just not a long time.
In March 2010, Yao Chen and Liu Ye collaborated on the film "Love Outstanding" and met the cinematographer Cao Yu of this film.
Cao Yu is a well-known photographer in the industry, as early as 2004, the film "Coco Xili" starring him won the Golden Horse Award for Best Cinematography, and in 2009, Cao Yu was the cinematographer of "Nanjing! nanking! Won the Best Cinematography Award at the San Sebastian International Film Festival.
During the filming of Yao Chen's "Love Excellent", Ling Xiaosu was also in the crew of "Lang Heart Like Iron", and the husband and wife were separated from each other, and the contradictions were increasing day by day.
During the release and promotion of "Love Excellent", Liu Ye said that Yao Chen and Cao Yu had been "already good for two months" during filming, and a sentence leaked out of his mouth, after all, at this time, Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu did not divorce.
On the other hand, it is also reported that Ling Xiaosu had a hot fight with Tang Yifei, an actress of the same crew, when filming "Lang Heart Like Iron". Between shooting, Ling Xiaosu has been holding his mobile phone to take photos of Tang Yifei asleep.
Tang Yifei also did not shy away from it, posting all this on Weibo, and affectionately calling Ling Xiaosu "Xiao Lingzi." ”
The sweet interaction during the cooperation period became a strong evidence of the opening of the divorce war in the future.
Yao Chen's side took the lead in accusing Ling Xiaosu of cheating on Tang Yifei, and all the past interactions between Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei were scattered everywhere on Weibo through the form of pictures and texts, beating Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei without the ability to fight back.
The star war of words has always been like this, who first seized the opportunity of public opinion, who has more reputation among the people, who will fight the "marketing war", public opinion will be biased towards whom.
At that time, Yao Chen had just signed a contract with a large company Huayi, plus Cao Guowei, the boss of Sina Weibo, was a fellow villager in Fujian, and she herself was the "queen of Weibo", and all public opinion was undoubtedly biased towards Yao Chen.
In the eyes of the public, Ling Xiaosu is the heinous "scumbag", And Tang Yifei is the "little three" who destroys the marriages of others, and the reputation of the two has fallen to the bottom.
After the tearing war, Yao Chen and Cao Yu held a wedding, and Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei also married. After that, the two sides stopped for a few years until a person named "Giant Spring Thunder" appeared.
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In Ju Chunlei's long article, Yao Chen went home during the filming of "Love Excellent", and talked with someone on the phone, and Ling Xiaosu on the side found that it was Cao Yu who called her. The two had a big fight over it.
After this, the two had more and more contradictions, so that to the point where the parents of both sides could not reconcile, and the marriage finally disintegrated.
In addition, Ju Chunlei also broke the news that It was Yao Chen who cheated on the male actors of the same crew as many as four times that year, so that Ling Xiaosu felt that this was a family ugly and did not want to show it, so he did not break the news during the tearing war.
Unexpectedly, Yao Chen's side seized the opportunity and was splashed with dirty water.
After the news came out, Yao Chen only forwarded the former love Weibo, leaving eight words "full of absurd paper, things are not people", as a response to the juchun thunder revelations.
Some people say that because Yao Chen is better and better after the divorce, she has long left her ex-husband far behind, and she does not care to fight with her ex-husband again, so she does not entangle too much;
Some people also say that because Yao Chen was wrong first, but he beat a rake upside down, using public opinion to throw dirty water on the ex-husband's family who had the grace of promotion, and now that juchun thunder broke the news, she was weak in heart and did not dare to say anything more.
In the end who is right and who is wrong, or maybe both sides are wrong, the public can only know a little bit from the gossip news, the unknown full picture can not be commented on, only the parties know the true appearance of the matter.
After juchunlei broke the news, a reporter interviewed Sun Honglei, an actor who had worked with Yao Chen on "Latent", and asked him what response did he have when this divorce war involved him?
Sun Honglei only said, "My tutor did not allow me to respond to this matter." "Blocked the reporter's mouth.
No one knows exactly how things are going. The matter of juchun thunder breaking news was also quickly lost.
With Yao Chen and Ling Xiaosu both having their own children, life balance forward, the once loving couple, now have their own happiness.
The first time things made waves, it was in 2019.
That year, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei participated in the variety show "Wife's Romantic Trip" of Hunan Satellite TV. In the program, in addition to sharing the daily life of the family, Tang Yifei also mentioned the impact of the tearing war on himself.
Many people scolded her, calling her "green smoke from her ancestral grave", and every word was like a knife, which not only hurt her, but also hurt her parents.
After the program was broadcast, it caused a huge response, some people apologized, saying that they blamed her and Ling Xiaosu for the mistake, and some people continued to insult, scolding Ling Tang and his wife, and also scolding their children who were only a few years old.
Tang Yifei could not bear it any longer, and denied that he was "little three" with a long speech, and said that he was at most a small eight small nine, because someone had a number of male actors who cooperated with him, such as "Brother Lei Guo Brother" in front of him.
In the past ten years, public opinion has slowly shifted from one side to Tang Yifei's side, so that she excitedly pulled several groups of people who apologized or supported her, and sent more than 60,000 red envelopes in the group, which can also be regarded as a bad breath for the grievances of that year.
It's just that no matter how the heat wave is set off this time, Yao Chen's side has never responded from beginning to end.
Nevertheless, the trio's career was inevitably affected by some.
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In recent years, Yao Chen's most outstanding film and television works are none other than "All Is Good". This is a family drama produced by the noonday sun, Yao Chen plays Su Mingyu, the daughter who has not been loved since childhood, and has grown up to be the most filial piety.
This role is another impressive role for Yao Chen after Cuiping in "Latent", and many people also say that her acting skills have always been online.
In addition to "All Is Good", Yao Chen also made a cameo appearance in another big drama "Mountains and Seas" at noon, but the role was very small; the cameo movie "Eight Hundred" was complained that it was completely unlike the female painter He Xiangning; the starring "Holiday Warm Yangyang" had a very general reputation and almost no heat.
In addition to the works that did not make a splash, Yao Chen's own films invested and supervised by the boss did not catch fire as desired.
After leaving Huayi that year, Yao Chen set up his own film and television company, invested in and participated in the production of the movie "Find You". Yao Chen plays the female lawyer looking for the child, and Ma Yili plays the female nanny who takes the child away.
Film and television dramas about children are all hot themes, but after the release of this film, Yao Chen, as the female number one, the limelight was all snatched away by the female number two Ma Yili.
Looking at the other side of the divorce war, Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei, although there have been occasional works broadcast in recent years, the response is very general.
In the past two years, Ling Xiaosu has starred in TV series such as "The Hot Land of Tianya", "People in Spring", and "Ask the Sky", but these works are difficult to have the same popularity as "The Temptation to Go Home" that year.
And Tang Yifei's last work was 2014's "War in the Sky", after which she only participated in a few variety shows, gave birth to a second child, and basically retired.
From this point of view, compared with Yao Chen, Tang Yifei and Ling Xiaosu's pace is more consistent.
In Yao Chen's Weibo of that year, she recorded the daily life, and wrote many times that she went home from filming, and Ling Xiaosu slept at home, on the one hand, she was envious, on the other hand, she comforted herself: there was a person in the family who went out to suffer.
"The Tale of Wulin" made Yao Chen fire, and Ling Xiaosu, in addition to being sad that his wife was too hard, also said that he hoped that she would not fight so hard. In an interview, Ling Xiaosu said that the life he wanted most was to live together as a family and live an ordinary life.
Obviously, these were things that Yao Chen, who came out of an ordinary family, could not do.
Yao Chen's dance teacher once commented that she was "especially good at a young age", for a 14-year-old child who left her parents to go to school in Beijing, Yao Chen saw early on that it was not easy to survive and gain a foothold, and she would desperately want to get some, more.
On March 31, Yao Chen forwarded the help information in Shanghai, Jilin and other places on Weibo, she was no different from before, every time there was a similar matter, she would still use her influence to forward and help some people in need.
And Ling Xiaosu and Tang Yifei, the social platform is in a semi-abandoned state, and it has not been updated for a long time.
Looking at it again today, no one is the winner in this tear-up war that has lasted for nearly a decade. I just don't know if the three parties have ever regretted what they did?