This sentence is a sentence in "Dream of the Red Chamber", which is exclusive to Shi Xiangyun.
When looking at the Red Chamber, I think many people will feel that Lin Daiyu's life is full of misery. After all, Lin Daiyu often lived a life under the fence, and put all her expectations on Jia Baoyu alone.
Anyway, Jia Baoyu was too abusive, always inadvertently making Lin Daiyu feel insecure around him, and even the future was a darkness.
But in fact, in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Lin Daiyu is not the most miserable person, Shi Xiangyun is. As for the specific reasons, in general, they are shown below.
Reason one: His life is worse than Lin Daiyu's
Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochao were tied for the first of the Twelve Nobles of Jinling.
It is a beauty under the heavens. And people who look beautiful often provoke right and wrong, for example, Xiangling is involved in a series of troubles because of her beauty, and finally she is tragically killed by Xia Jingui.
However, because Lin Daiyu's family is solid, and her maternal power is like the sun in the sky, it is naturally impossible for something similar to Xiangling to happen on her body.
Of course, Lin Daiyu's life is also relatively miserable.
First, her mother died of illness when she was six or seven years old. Secondly, she has taken medicine as a meal since she was a child. In the end, shortly after being taken to Jia Province, her father also died tragically.
Therefore, it is not too much to describe Lin Daiyu with six words of miserable and miserable relatives.
However, Lin Daiyu's situation was still much better than that of Shi Xiangyun.
In Shi Xiangyun's sentence, "parents violating between swaddling" means that Shi Xiangyun was born shortly after he was born, and all of his parents died. Looking at Lin Daiyu again, her parents died one after another, and they lived much longer than Shi Xiangyun's parents.
This difference caused Lin Daiyu to at least enjoy the taste of her father's love for her mother. And Shi Xiangyun is completely different, she doesn't know what it's like to be hurt by her father and loved by her mother. To put it bluntly, although Lin Daiyu was miserable, she also had it. However, Shi Xiangyun couldn't even remember his father's mother's temperament and appearance.
Reason two: the ending is worse than Lin Daiyu
Lin Daiyu was a Daizhu Fairy in his previous life, and Jia Baoyu was a divine attendant in his previous life. Only because the Daizhu Fairy was cultivated into a fairy because the Divine Attendant irrigated with nectar, when the Divine Ying Attendant reincarnated for Jia Baoyu' calamities, the Daizhu Immortal reincarnated and vowed to repay Jia Baoyu's kindness with a lifetime of tears.
I have to say that the Daizhu Fairy is somewhat strange. To repay kindness is to repay kindness, but what is the use of repaying the servant of the gods by crying and crying?
Could it be that he wanted to take revenge and let the reincarnation of the divine attendant cover his face and cover his tears? With a tragic ending?
Back to the point. Lin Daiyu's end was that she failed to marry Jia Baoyu and finally died of illness. This looks miserable, but from another point of view, even if Lin Daiyu did not die of illness, would her ending be reversed? The answer, of course, is no, because Jia Fu, who can protect her, is already at the end of the road, even if she lives, marrying Jia Baoyu may not be very happy. Therefore, for Lin Daiyu, death is a kind of relief, and it is her best ending.
On the other hand, Shi Xiangyun, according to her judgment, her ultimate fate could not escape the road of widowhood. The days ahead will remain as tight as childhood. Even more bleak than then. After all, she has no parents and brothers, and she does not know how to do business.
The above is the specific reason why in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Lin Daiyu is not the most miserable person, and Shi Xiangyun is the most miserable person. Part of the content is quoted from the dream of the 120th Gengchen Ben Dream. The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted