In a Qingxuguan Jiao fight, the old lady said that Baoyu was going to be older and then talk about her relatives, and she also said the conditions for choosing a parent. The old lady never wanted to go again. The next day, Jia Mu didn't go. is the so-called next-generation parent, Jia's mother is heavy on the two jades. In Jia's mother's mind, the two jades will always be in the first place.
Daiyu didn't go to the theater because of heat stroke, and Baoyu didn't go. In addition, Baoyu felt that someone was a matchmaker for him, which hurt Daiyu's self-esteem, so he couldn't rest assured and wanted to find a way to comfort her. Today, I heard that Daiyu is sick again. I came to see Daiyu. Daiyu asked him why he hadn't gone to the theater. Baoyu is useless in her heart because of yesterday's events. Hearing Daiyu say this, I thought that I was not going to go for her. If someone else said this, he didn't think so, Daiyu said this, Baoyu thought, you also say this kind of thing to ridicule me. My heart is even more troubled, and my heart says that you don't understand me either, so I am very sad. In fact, this is love, Baoyu is good for Daiyu, and Daiyu is also good for Baoyu, but if you say it, it seems that you don't appreciate it. When Baoyu saw Daiyu say this, she immediately lowered her face and said I know you in vain.
Unexpectedly, Daiyu sneered and said I also know that Bai recognizes me, there is something like someone who is worthy of you. It's just that if you don't open any pot, Baoyu said that you are cursing me to death with peace of mind. Baoyu swore that if she was separated from Daiyu, she would be destroyed, and Daiyu said this, wouldn't it mean that she couldn't believe his oath. Daiyu then remembered Baoyu's oath and knew that she was wrong, but she would never admit her mistake, so she also swore that it was not a curse for Baoyu. But then she said again, I know, yesterday Daoist Zhang said kiss, you are afraid of hindering your good marriage, you are angry in your heart, and use me to kill your son. This is Daiyu's no. Originally, Baoyu was angry because he was afraid of blocking them, but he said that he was afraid of hindering a good marriage, and he was clearly talking about Jinyu marriage. Baoyu was even angrier. Both of them are obviously for each other's good, but they are both testing each other. Daiyu is dedicated and simple. Due to the huge psychological pressure, she is unable to control her emotions. Coupled with their reckless personalities, the two often let the situation develop in opposite directions when they are in conflict. The two people were originally one heart, but they both gave birth to more branches and leaves, and they became two hearts. It's all about seeking closeness, but it becomes the meaning of estrangement. The deeper the love, the more I don't love enough, and the more I want to prove it, this is the so-called infatuated female love, the more affectionate, and finally it becomes an indescribable and unclear entanglement.
In Baoyu's heart, all women are inferior to Daiyu. But love could not be said at the time. He fell in love with Daiyu but didn't dare to say it clearly, so he changed his method to tempt. Daiyu is also stupid, and it is not good to say something. Dedicated to hypothetical temptation. The people who really care the most are embarrassed to say it. Both of them will hide their sincerity and sincerity, and only use hypocrisy, so that you are fake and I am fake, and the more you are tempted, the deeper the misunderstanding will be. If we don't give in to each other, we will inevitably quarrel. There was a lot of fuss and fuss until the end, and I forgot why I quarreled in the first place.
The emotion between Baoyu and Daiyu is intimate friendship, which is actually a deep friendship in essence. Now it has developed from friendship to love. In that era, love could not be said explicitly, so it was tempted. Seeing that Daiyu was still testing herself. Baoyu thought to herself, don't you know that I only have you in my heart. Daiyu is another ceremonial idea, she said that as soon as I mention Jinyu, you are in a hurry, you are afraid that I will pretend to be anxious to coax me. Let's ask Daiyu, why is Baoyu in a hurry, don't you know? Shouldn't you be in a hurry when you mention Jinyu marriage and Baoyu? Both of them are testing each other with false intentions, and the more they are tempted, the farther away from their expectations.
When Baoyu heard the words "good marriage", she became more and more angry, and she didn't know how to vent her anger in her heart for a while. He thought that all these troubles were because of that broken stone, without which there would be no good fate. So he grabbed the jade and threw it hard. I don't want this jade anymore, you can have a gold and jade marriage with someone else. It turned out that what he fell was not jade, but gold and jade marriage. If you can't break it, find something to smash. The girls were frightened, so they hurried to call for an attack. The attackers came to snatch the jade down, and it was considered to stop.
Everyone came to persuade them, but the more they persuaded them, the more extraneous they became, and the good words and persuasions became malicious reminders. The more serious the situation. Daiyu cut the tassels on the jade into several sections. A seemingly gratuitous conflict has reached a stalemate. Baoyu's face turned yellow, and her eyebrows and eyes changed; Daiyu became more and more sad and cried, and vomited out the medicine she had just taken, her face was red and her head was swollen, and she was full of tears and sweat, and she was too cowardly. Bao Dai love is such a painful love. Some people analyze Bao Dai's love and say that the heavier the love, the more affectionate, self-defeating, and contrary to the anti-logic, it is the emotional logic of the couple at this time.
They hope to pursue the ideal of free love, and in the face of layers of cruel and ruthless pressure, how can two simple children sort it out? They have a lot of affection for each other, but they don't dare to express it directly, and they always change their ways to test each other, the purpose of course is to get each other's true feelings. The result is often new arguments and quarrels. It also leads to psychological distortion and even perversion. Causing mutual harm and even self-harm. Unable to face the cruel reality, two people become suspicious of each other's hearts, and the more they try, the more chaotic they become, until they are noisy, and the closer they get, the farther they go. This contradiction and conflict is written with ups and downs, grievances and tactful, delicate and vivid.