This sign cannot resist the confident and calm man

When Sagittarius friends see this title, they should have already begun to think about how to refute it.

I don't want to say much about how rebellious Sagittarius really is, but in addition to the rebellious psychology, the emotional problem that needs to be asked is another big death hole for Sagittarius.

Including being asked "like Dad or Mom" since childhood, or when he grows up, he faces several friends who is the best friend, and then later "do you like him", "Is he already inseparable from him", when facing these problems, the shooter will have an inexplicable sense of shame.

Because the shooter will think that as long as he starts to think about this and starts to worry about changes in feelings, it must be because the other party has not given himself enough security.

So if the other person doesn't care so much about himself, why should he think about how much he cares about the other person?

To put it bluntly, no matter what answer is given in the mind, the shooter's mouth and brain will refute it.

It's similar to thinking about "do you still care about him" when you have a conflict, and you will say "He made me feel so bad, I must leave him". If the thought in your heart is "Do you not care about him anymore", what you say is "he makes me so uncomfortable, I must still have feelings for him"...

When the shooter is caught in a contradiction, he will constantly cause contradictions in his brain and heart, so that he cannot solve the contradictions, and even cannot face the contradictions.

In fact, in the face of today's theme, "Sagittarius can not resist which type of person", Sagittarius is almost the same mentality.

The shooter is faster on the top, the faster on the bottom.

For example, shooters recently like the type of mouth that is sweet and funny, so they have been ambiguous with this person for a while. As a result, one day he was in a bad mood and did not want to talk, and the person still joked in the usual way to make the shooter happy.

The shooter suddenly felt bored, and instantly felt bored, because the person could not make himself happy...

You will not feel that the shooter is scum through this description, but in the process, the shooter will not feel that he is scum anywhere. This is just a process of mutual choice and mutual happiness, if you are not happy together, it is better to make it clear as soon as possible, is it not more troublesome and more hurtful to drag out feelings?

Maybe he was alone for a while, the shooter felt lonely again, and the type he liked became a type that didn't talk much but could have a sense of contrast, and he would still be happy to follow the feeling.

So can we understand that the most irresistible type of shooter is what makes him happy?

Although it can be understood in this way, now the problem is that the shooter is a person who is particularly easy to go around and back.

It's not that the shooter likes to eat the grass, but he needs to chew and swallow slowly in many cases to taste a person's goodness and make him love.

Often, reluctance to leave is the thing that can most stimulate the sense of responsibility of the shooter.

And the premise of reluctance to leave, in addition to making the shooter crazy infatuation and unable to resist for a period of time, when the shooter decides to be quiet, there is not too much entanglement, or too much talk.

When the shooter suddenly wants to see this person one day and can really meet again, the relationship will settle down.

Because when the shooter wants to meet a person, but finds that there are too many contradictions in between, too much trouble, it is better not to see, he will also quickly lower his head and erase the idea.

So in the end, the shooter's most irresistible person is funny and humorous? Or is it taciturn but contrasting? Or is it thoughtful and takes care of people?

I don't think that's the most important factor.

The shooter is a person who has very low requirements for the other party and the living environment, and many times he has no needs, only talks about feelings.

He doesn't specify what he has to rely on, nor does he analyze whether it's worth it or not, and many choices are made in an instant.

At this time, respect will be particularly important. Now the question is, is the shooter the most irresistible person who will respect him? This is a bit superficial, because respect is often not out of true respect, but from a free attitude.

Can you understand?

Not to say anything, the shooter has been very low lately and doesn't want to go out, so you respect him and say," "Do whatever you want, I won't bother you."

This will only make the shooter more stressed on his back, "Because of me, you have been wronged, you still have to meet me sensibly", the shooter will feel even more tortured, why hurt others, affect other people's lives.

This mixed emotion will make him want to escape even more.

And the respect that the shooter can see is, "Don't ask, don't care, don't think too much", keep trust, keep feelings, keep fresh.

Although you can't understand why the shooter deserted and wanted to be alone, he must have his difficulties in doing so, if he didn't want to confide in you, if he didn't want to give you the contradictions in his heart. Then you don't have to rush, don't rush him to give an explanation.

It comes from the fact that you trust him, you believe in your future, and you are not in a hurry to have the hearts of two people completely coincide right away.

You are willing to give him time, willing to let him adjust slowly on his own, willing to move forward together. That's what the shooter can see and the respect they want.

You know, the shooter is also insecure in the relationship.

But the insecurity of the shooter is often, "What if he starts to rely on me and I'm distracted", "If he can't leave me and I leave, will he be uncomfortable", "Am I really scum like this"...

He was afraid that he had failed others, that he was afraid of promises he could not make. This is not that he lacks a sense of responsibility, but that he takes responsibility too seriously and does not dare to promise easily.

Give him time.

He needs to figure it out for himself first.

The premise of being able to trust the shooter must be enough self-confidence, and the person who has enough confidence and knows what he is doing and will not easily regret it must be the type that the shooter cannot resist the most.

Because the shooter was really afraid of seeing the moment of regret after seeing himself with him.

From that moment on, the shooter will always feel that the other party is blaming himself, so he can only escape.