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Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, and then again and again passed on the marriage change.
In a trance, the news of their marriage change is definitely more than that of Huang Xiaoming and his wife.
Some time ago, Li Ronghao revealed on the show that the two have not seen each other for more than 300 days, and in these more than 300 days, the two have only video called 2-3 times.
Yes, you read that right, and it's not my exaggeration, they did video 2-3 times in over 300 days.
More critically, on the basis of this frequency, they do not require the other party to be in their line of sight.
Although it sounds incredible, it is fortunate that Rainie Yang can accept it, so for each other, this is also a very comfortable way to get along.
There are thousands of marriage models, and the most appropriate one is nothing more than what you feel comfortable with.
But like Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, that is definitely very rare.
It's no wonder that the guests on the show couldn't help but joke that they were worshipping the handles.
Remember that some time ago, after Huang Xiaoming and his wife divorced, some readers left a message in the background saying that the next couple should be Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao.
To tell the truth, this is not his alone to think so, do not believe that you go to the web search bar to enter the names of these two people, love more than just the news of marriage change.
But this is also very normal, to know that the two were married in 2019, now the full count is only 3 years, but the number of times the two meet is countless.
Instead, more, the two people's various suspected feelings become unstable.
For example, Rainie Yang suddenly cleared all the dynamics on ins;
Another example is to send some meaningful articles;
Or maybe two people are obviously in the same city, but they are still living separately.
Therefore, it is no wonder that there is often news on the Internet that the two have changed their marriage.
Remember when a reader asked me what I thought of the marriage of these two people?
I can only say that marriage is like water cooling and self-knowledge, and many things we only look at the surface.
However, there is one thing to say, rainie Yang and Li Ronghao's mode of getting along is really not suitable for most marriages.
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The marriage of Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang, to put it better, is independent.
Married, but it will not affect each other's development, you are in your Taiwan, I am in my Beijing, we each shine.
However, realistically speaking, feelings that are too independent are an invisible manifestation of a sense of responsibility that is easy to lack, and will also affect our experience of love.
Why have Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao been able to persist until now?
First, the economy of the two is not a problem, and the second is that the two do not have too many constraints now, for them, taking care of themselves and developing their careers is the most important task in their lives.
But for an ordinary person, this kind of platonic love, the vast majority is bound to die.
Think about it:
Life and work make you feel physically and mentally exhausted, you want to find a partner to complain about, only to find that your partner is thousands of miles away, you call but no one answers, so you can only give up, at this time, will you feel very lost?
The child is sick, you are busy with chicken flying dog jumping, you want to let your partner help, only to find that the cruel support is on the phone, can you accept it?
You obviously have a partner, but you are still alone in facing everything and carrying everything, so can you understand?
I believe that the answer for many people is No.
Because the partner is not just a noun identity, it is also a power that makes you feel at ease.
Huang Zhizhong shared one of his things on the show before.
For a while, he was uncomfortable wearing braces every day, and the torture made him feel terrible.
So he went home and said to his wife: I have achieved nothing today.
My wife listened to him and comforted him: Fortunately, you have braces, so even if you don't look like you've finished anything today, your teeth have become a little bit neater.
His wife's words made Huang Zhizhong suddenly understand: it turns out that the meaning between partners lies in mutual support between each other.
Therefore, you see that life is a variety of trivial things piled up, no matter how strong you are, you will always be unable to hold on, and the meaning of a partner is to be able to work with us to experience the sweet and sour.
If both power and love are "cloud-given," then why should we get married?
Of course, someone must have said it when you see this, as long as there is love, it is not a problem to see or not to meet.
However, love also takes time and energy.
Rather than the occasional surprise, I think long-term companionship is more reassuring.
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On the other hand, rainie Yang and Li Ronghao's marriage model is also very provocative.
I watched an interview before, and the reporter asked Rainie Yang if Li Ronghao would go to her concert?
Rainie Yang came back and said: He will not come.
Then the reporter asked Li Ronghao if he would propose to her at the concert?
Rainie Yang told reporters very firmly: He is not that kind of person.
You see, Rainie Yang was very determined when answering questions about Li Ronghao.
If you put it on other people, I believe that there will be a little drumming in my heart.
So the question arises: Why is the couple able to be so sure of each other after living apart for so long?
Many people say that they are trusting, but I think it is more that they are very indifferent people themselves, not that they are casual with their feelings, but that they do not let feelings dominate their lives.
Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao are both children from poor families, and both of them are from the bottom.
Let's start with Li Ronghao.
Before the song "Model" came out, no one knew this little-eyed man.
When he was 20 years old, he suddenly encountered a car accident, almost did not wake up, just prepared to chase dream music after raising his body, and as a result, his father died of illness, in this way, Li Ronghao could only work desperately in order to pay off the debt owed by his father for medical treatment.
Rainie Yang's experience is not much better.
The father is a man who has no responsibility, after the failure of investment, he directly left her and her mother and ran away, and the situation of going to the door every day to collect debts made Rainie Yang grow up quickly.
However, life is not a Mary Sue female lead drama, although Rainie Yang is very hardworking, but the process is quite unsatisfactory, there is no big splash.
It wasn't until later that he entered the show business that the name surfaced.
So you see, Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao belong to people with the same disease.
For those who get up from the bottom, love is either extreme possession or indifferent possession.
Obviously, they are the latter.
What's even more rare is that they are all the latter.
So they can accept this pattern that we find incredible.
If one of the parties is the former, I believe the relationship is difficult to get to where it is now.
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And if you want a long-distance relationship to be able to persist in going, it depends on each other's self-control.
This is the most testing person.
What are long-distance relationships most afraid of? Of course, it was the intrusion of outsiders.
If you want to say that you are not at all moved, it is also impossible, because human nature is there.
Ma Weidu also discussed this issue in the Round Table, saying that it is natural to see beautiful women feel good; but we should have the self-control to suppress this possible immoral thought.
Deeply.
Infidelity is instinctive, but loyalty is the choice.
The realm is very high, but how many people can do it?
That's another story.
Writing this, I think of a fragment I saw earlier.
The host Ni Ping once asked Haiyan: You seem to be writing love stories of young people, why don't you write about the love of middle-aged people? If you write, I'll play the heroine.
Haiyan thought for a moment and replied: I don't want to write a middle-aged love story.
Ni Ping asked why?
Haiyan replied: I don't like to write middle-aged people's love stories, and I always feel that middle-aged people's love is dirty.
It's not so much dirty as it is reality.
What is reality? It is the nakedst side of human nature.
For us ordinary people, it is good to live our own little life, don't think about those who are not marginal.
Just like the marriage of Rainie Yang and Li Ronghao, can you say that it must be bad?
No, but it's definitely not for most people.
Because we don't have as many retreats to choose from, what we can do is to take every step of the way down-to-earth.
It's bland, but it's the path that suits us best.