Women in love are always too naïve, always too trusting of men, always treating men as all a little good, always falling in love quickly, and will fall into deeper.
Maybe men have not paid their hearts, women have taken it seriously, they feel that men like themselves, they love themselves, and even feel that men can't do without themselves.
Men love you or not, may not be able to see it for a day or two, but after two people are together for a long time, it is easy to feel whether the man is sincere, and the man's every move, every word and deed can reveal the extent to which he loves you.
If a man keeps saying "such things" to you, then it is obvious that he does not love you, stop being naïve, stop lying to yourself, and rationally see the man's true heart is the most important.
1, "what is the hurry to get married"
When a woman falls in love with a man, she may have the urge to marry him, which will imply that the man wants to marry, and the man who loves you is of course willing to marry you, of course willing to marry you, and he is also worried that you do not want to marry him.
After he understands your intentions, he will show his attitude, will tell you that he is willing to marry you, will arrange everything when the time comes, even if he does not have the money to do the wedding, he will begin to think of ways, not procrastination.
And if a man always says something like "what is the hurry to get married", it means that he does not want to marry you, has no intention of marrying you, and is with you, it may just be a play.
2. "Why do you say me?"
Two people together, whether in love, or married, are the closest people to each other, when the other party does something wrong, should be corrected, two people can continue to improve, two people can get along more and more harmoniously.
When women and men are together, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions, and it is inevitable that there will be times when they are not accustomed to each other, women may casually say a word about men, men who love you, usually humbly accept your opinions.
And if a man, when you talk about him, he usually says things like "why do you say me" and he feels that you are not qualified to say him, then it is obvious that you have no place in his heart, and he does not love you at all.
3. "What are you counting"
After men and women come together, they should respect each other, care about each other, and the man who loves you will naturally look at you very seriously, and even love you more than he loves himself, you are more important than anything in his heart.
Even when arguing with you, he will not say anything hurtful to you, will not say anything cruel, after the quarrel, he will take the initiative to coax you, try his best to make you happy, and take the initiative to apologize to you.
And if a man, when arguing with you, says something like "you are something", it means that you have no status in his heart, he does not take you seriously at all, such a man does not love you at all.
4. "What does it have to do with me?"
Two people together, it is equivalent to being tied together, they should take care of each other, support each other, no matter who has something, they should solve it together, face it together, and bear it together.
When you have something, when you love you, he will definitely rush ahead of you and solve things for you, and he will treat your things as his own, even more anxious than his own.
But if a man, always draws a clear line between you, when you have something, he is never willing to meddle, and he says to you such things as "what does it have to do with me", it can only mean that he does not love you at all.
5, "Big deal to break up"
In the vast sea of people, walking with a person is a great fate, should be cherished, of course, the man who loves you will naturally cherish you, he is reluctant to let go of you.
Even if you have a conflict and quarrel with you, he will not break up with you, when you want to break up, he will keep you, he hopes that you can always be by his side.
And if a man, as soon as he has a conflict with you, says this kind of thing to you, "break up when it's a big deal", and even says this to you when there is nothing to do, then he just doesn't love you, he doesn't have you in his heart, and you are also dispensable to him.
Summary: If a man loves you, you are his everything, and if a man does not love you, you are nothing to him.