Although we often say that women are very reserved in front of men, especially in front of the men they like. But we can't deny that most women still value their love. After encountering love, although they will not take the initiative to pursue love, they will also take the initiative to approach men, or use some ways to hint at men.
As Stevenson said: "Because love enters the heart of a person, it is scolded and cannot go away." Since it has come to you, it will possess everything from you. Now that you're in love, that's the only way to do it, and the only way to do it is to think of the cheapest way to get it. ”
Love is regardless of age, women can pursue their own love when they are young, and they can still pursue their love in middle age. When young, women will feel that they have more opportunities, and naturally they will not be so anxious. But in middle age, women have a sense of crisis of age, have some emotional and life experiences, and will know more about emotional things to seize opportunities.
After middle-aged women fall in love with a man, although they will not directly pursue a love, but in the process of getting along, middle-aged women will also have some obvious performance, as long as men observe women's words and deeds a little, they can naturally easily capture the signals given by women.
For this, men must understand that if a middle-aged woman takes the initiative to give you these three signals, it means that she has fallen in love with you, and is hinting at you in her own way, waiting for you to be more active.
01 Will take the initiative to care for you, and even take care of your life.
At a young age, if a woman falls in love with a man, she often deliberately shows her charm to attract the attention of a man. However, the face is fleeting, the woman's appearance will change with age, and in middle age, if you want to impress the heart of a man, you naturally can't completely rely on your own appearance.
The mind of a middle-aged woman is very delicate, and she also knows how to observe the color. Their hearts are also more clear that if two people want to come together, they can't just rely on love, but more on the most practical life. Women generally show their kindness and understanding to give men enough warmth. Men feel this warmth, and naturally it is easier to be moved.
After a middle-aged woman falls in love with a man, she will definitely take the initiative to care for the man, and even take care of the man's life. If a man meets such a middle-aged woman, she is very concerned about you, very caring, and her attitude is also very gentle, you should understand her thoughts.
02 Will take the initiative to spend money on you, regardless of their own gains and losses.
Jo Ford said, "Love is the tyrant of the heart; it makes the intellect unclear and the judgment unclear; it does not heed advice, but runs straight in the direction of infatuation." ”
Although middle-aged women have some life experience and some of their own feelings, when they encounter love, it is still easy to lose their minds and do some things that make people feel out of control.
Generally speaking, as long as middle-aged women have a certain material foundation, they will definitely take the initiative to pay in love. Even if they are not financially wealthy, once they meet a man who makes women feel worthy of love, they will be willing to give.
We often hear some women say when they are single: "A person's life is also very good, very free, no love and no relationship, they can live well." 」 However, when she meets love, the woman's thinking will change, and it is no longer the indifferent attitude she used to have.
Men should also understand that if a middle-aged woman is willing to take the initiative to spend money on you, regardless of their own gains and losses, it is not that they are too stupid, but when they encounter love, they want to use all their strength to keep their love and strive for their own happiness.
03 Will take the initiative to think for you and respect your ideas.
Zhang Ailing said: "For people after the age of thirty, ten years and eight years are just a matter of sewing, while for young people, three years and five years can be a lifetime." ”
When women reach middle age, they have a different understanding of love. When they are young, they will feel that two people are together, and men should spoil her more and obey her ideas more, so that love can go on better. Wait until middle age, women will no longer be such a thought, summing up the past failure experience, middle-aged women have long understood that love is two-way, more need to fall into the most ordinary life.
When encountering love, women will take the initiative to consider for men, and when they encounter things, they will also know how to respect men's ideas, and will no longer be self-centered and unreasonable as when they were young.
This feeling, which Is what Moluwa put it: "When you truly love a person, that person has some lovely weaknesses in addition to his noble talents, which is also an important key to your love for him." ”
When women reach middle age, although they have more experience and experience, and they have their own understanding and understanding of life, they will still behave very simple for love. As long as they truly love a man, the behavior they show must be different, and they can clearly feel the woman's mind.
When the opposite sex gets along, if the middle-aged woman gives you these obvious signals, the man should know that she has fallen in love with you, and know how to respond in the most appropriate way, and the most appropriate attitude to face this feeling.