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Children are the biggest weakness of parents, as long as parents divorce, the most hurt is definitely the children. Therefore, divorced parents will try their best to reduce the harm caused to their children because of divorce.
However, for Big S, she did not do this, from her divorce to remarriage, the whole thing was boiling over, almost every day there was news of remarriage with her, and everyone seemed to have become very disgusted with this farce from eating melon at the beginning.
Wang Xiaofei was angered and said that the child was not allowed to call the "unknown person" father
Big S's remarriage news can be described as a hot search every day. And the most speechless thing is that The heat of Little S for his sister can be described as rubbing every day, and the excitement level is even higher than that of myself in various major programs about the crazy sister's remarriage.
In the show, Xiao S broke the love history of his sister and the current brother-in-law, saying that the two people were in love at that time, separated only by helplessness, and even specially danced his "boy band dance" for his brother-in-law, as well as Korean confessions.
Such an overly excited move is simply more attentive than his own affairs, and it is precisely because of the unlimited consumption of small S that the big S remarriage is full of storms, and Wang Xiaofei is also aware of this, directly on the social platform publicly published Small S.
Wang Xiaofei scolded Xiao S on the social platform, and she was alone there all day, endlessly. Then he posted that he wanted a child and was not allowed to call a father who did not know.
Such an attitude shows that Wang Xiaofei has been very helpless before on the issue of Big S's remarriage, but he has no choice, including on the issue of child custody, and this time he is also angered by Xiao S's various brainless behaviors, so he completely shows his attitude.
Many netizens have teamed Up Wang Xiaofei this time, hoping that he can get the custody of the two children back, it is estimated that now everyone feels that the practice of remarriage at the speed of light of big S is really inappropriate, two follow such mothers, it is better to be around dad and grandma.
In fact, not only Wang Xiaofei, for any man, will not let his children call others fathers. So in life, what is the name of those children whose parents remarried to the new parents?
What should the children of remarried couples be called to their parents' new spouses?
For the problem of parental remarriage, as a child, it should not be managed, and naturally it is not possible to manage, so the child only has to accept it. But on the question of how to call the stepfather and stepmother, the child can follow his own inner thoughts.
Most children for the stepmother stepmother is called uncle and aunt, after all, they are not each other's biological children, the care and care given will not be so in place, even if it is some necessary care and care, it is also based on the husband and wife relationship with the partner.
After the reorganization of the family, it is also a responsibility and obligation to take care of the partner's children, and you can be grateful for such behavior, but it is not to the point of calling your parents, after all, the two words of parents are not just talking, the premise is to pay first.
Tuanzi's mother is surrounded by a friend whose parents divorced, his parents have been remarried for more than 10 years, but he has not changed his mouth, in his words: it is too uncomfortable to change his mouth to call his mother, and a person who is not related to himself is called his mother, he feels that his stepmother is also twisted, why reluctantly?
What if parents divorce and start their own families, and the child is not willing to call the other half mom and dad?
The children of remarried couples do not have to call each other's father or mother, which depends on the relationship between the child and the remarried parents.
Like those younger children, who get along better with their remarried parents, it is easy to change their names to father or mother, while those who are older children have more parents who remarry and call their remarried parents uncles or aunts.
In fact, how the child is called, the key is to see how the two sides view the child. If the child is treated as a biological child, then whatever it is called, it is not too much of a problem. Parents really don't need to embarrass their children on this issue, and naturally children will change their mouths when they do a good job.
If the child is really unwilling to change his mouth, then do not force it, after all, in the child's mind, the parents have another person, that is their own biological parents. However, because of the divorce and reorganization of adults, it is necessary to let the child change his mouth immediately, which is too unfriendly to the child.
As a child of a special family, in the face of the other half of the parents, it is indeed difficult for the child to let them call out their parents happily, after all, the parents are specific titles, corresponding to the two people who are close to the child in the world.
For the child's parents, to understand the common feelings of this person, do not have to worry about whether the child recognizes their "new father and new mother", but accept the child from the bottom of their hearts, tolerate the child, so give the child a little more time, and wait for them to willingly call mom and dad.
Today's topic: What do you think your children call their stepfathers and stepmothers after their parents remarry?