Cai Shaofen is the wife of singer Zhang Jin, extroverted and has a lot of comedic talent, after Zhang Jin participated in "The Brother Who Cut through the Thorns", he became popular again, and was also excavated by Mango Station to become the host of "Hello Saturday", which can be said to be a female host with great potential, and even a bit like cultivating the taste of the second Hunan sister.
Recently, Cai Shaofen participated in an interview and elaborated on her experience of not working for more than a decade and taking a baby full-time at home. Cai Shaofen said that these years at home with the baby, in fact, is very hard, more than five o'clock to get up, ten years have not slept a full sleep, and even while stir-frying dishes to hold the baby, the shoulder pain is terrible, almost no time to relax.
In the eyes of many people, the full-time wife is at home with a baby, no need to go to work, making money without pressure, is a very enjoyable thing, but Cai Shaofen's experience, but let us see a full-time wife's difficulty, get up early and go to bed late, the last 24 hours standby, and even less than the freedom to work.
Normal people's sleep is eight hours a day, lack of sleep will lead to mental problems, and Cai Shaofen has not slept completely for ten years, whenever the child suddenly wakes up at night and calls the mother, no matter how sleepy the mother will get up and serve the child unconditionally.
The only thing that can be driven is pure maternal love, the child is a little older, when the child is still swaddling, if there is no nanny and sister-in-law, the mother will get up six or seven times a night, the baby is crying, the baby is hungry, the baby is stinking, etc., others may not pay too much attention to the baby, but the mother absolutely can't stand the baby crying, and sleeping well is the norm.
Cai Shaofen has a total of three babies in the family, the eldest daughter Zhang Chu'er is 11 years old, the second daughter Zhang Xin'er is 8 years old, xiaobao Zhang Le'er is only three years old this year, Cai Shaofen spent eleven years to raise these three babies, and now she has not completely separated from the identity of Bao's mother, she has come out to work, which shows that the full-time wife is not so good.
Cai Shaofen shares these, but also in praise of the mothers, really hard, but in this regard, netizens do not buy it, saying that raising children is so hard, you do not advocate others to give birth, then you yourself also gave birth to three, it is really a double standard.
It seems to be unreasonable, since it is so hard to be a mother, why do you still have three babies, is it difficult to achieve the joy of being abused by life? In fact, for the identity of the mother, although it is very hard every day, but seeing the children happy together, this happy joy can overcome the pain.
Not to mention the hard work now, the future will also become happiness, the three babies grow up day by day, every day to understand things, every time to give back to the mother a word of love a gift, is the happiest moment of motherhood. Although Cai Shaofen called her mother hard, she also said that she had gained happiness.