Many people say that love should be the most beautiful watchful eye of a person's life, it can bring people not only inner warmth, but also make life more warm. However, some people in the pursuit of love, is always gradually drifting away, they think that as long as they work hard for love, or even abandon everything for love, they can harvest the love they want. But in fact, more are ended up being issued a "good guy card", do you know why?
Men chase women across the mountain, women chase men across the yarn. In real life, the phenomenon of women chasing men is really a minority, and men chasing women is actually the basic argument. On the road to courtship, many people are drifting away, living in their own inner world, and when two people have not yet established a relationship, they are excessively kind to the other person and think that it is right. But in fact, when there is no confirmation of the relationship, it is basically equivalent to working hard in vain, doing everything is futile, and your kindness will not be accepted. When you think you can, when you want to confess, you may be greeted by the "Good Guy Card" jackpot.
Why do girls give you the "good guy card"? First of all, it may be out of the feeling that everyone gets along, thinking that you are only suitable to be a friend, not suitable to be her object. Secondly, everyone may meet in the future, there will be opportunities to get along, in order to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, issuing a "good person card" may be good for each other. In the end, you're not the type she likes, and handing out the "nice guy card" is a sign that she's rejecting you and that she's sorry for you.
What if I was issued a "Good Guy Card"? First of all, you have to understand one thing, love actually sometimes happens to the wrong person, in fact, it is very cheap. You have been paying for her, in fact, it is visible, but out of face problems, sometimes she is not easy to say anything, can only let you understand it yourself. But after a long time, you are still like this, it will make her feel very difficult to be a person, so at this time, choosing to issue you a "good person card" is to show your rejection, let you sober up, do not focus on her body. At the same time, it is also to maintain the face of both sides and avoid embarrassing situations in the future.
Second, you have to understand that not all people are worth your selfless efforts. Especially when the relationship between the two parties is not confirmed, do not give completely for a person. Because that will make your feelings look very cheap, and your behavior will become very cheap. People often do not cherish the things that are easy to get, so you must cherish your own efforts and do not let your feelings and actions become cheap. Otherwise, you will give foolishly, and in the end you will not get anything, and you will be issued a "good guy card".
Finally, you have to understand that only the right person is worth your selfless giving. What is the right person? Then first of all, you have to confirm the relationship, no matter whether the final result you have embarked on the palace of marriage, the confirmation of the relationship is very important, only after confirming the relationship, your pay will not be cheap, your pay can be meaningful. Otherwise, you don't know whether there is a reward for your efforts, and you may end up reaping a lot of sadness, which is not very worthwhile. So, whether she's the right person or not, confirming the relationship is really important.
Like there is no right or wrong, if you must distinguish between right and wrong, it may be wrong in not meeting the right person. Life is so long, youth is so exciting, it is sometimes inevitable to meet the "good guy card". therefore. You must understand how the "good guy card" is generated, and at the same time, you must adjust your mentality in time, actively face the pain of failure or rejection, and come out to discover the beauty of the world. This person is not right, there will always be the right person waiting for you, but you have not met it yet, and when you meet it, everything will be worth it. Therefore, you must always maintain your state and welcome the arrival of ta.