Xunzi has:
"Anger is not enough, joy is not enough."
You need to control your emotions, don't punish others excessively because you are angry, and don't give others special rewards because you are happy.
These are irrational and indecent words and deeds.
People live in the world, aiming to have a calm and natural mentality, and come up with an indifferent style to do their own present.
It is true that a person who can be as calm as water and not be insulted can withstand the ups and downs of life, and can also be calm, not rushing to achieve quick success, not being exaggerated and frivolous, and maintaining emotional stability.
Therefore, when a person has achieved this realm, life is quite ok in terms of state and quality.
virgo
Virgo people are precise and at the same time picky.
They are very demanding of themselves, like to try to do their best in everything, and do not like to be gossiped about, but they often live a better life and constantly compete with themselves.
In order to achieve their goals, Virgo likes to pay attention to some details, especially those that are difficult for some people to detect, which makes it easy for Virgos to find the laws of things or some kind of trick.
Virgos have a deep understanding of some things, so they will be able to practically and constructively apply their accumulated knowledge in order to achieve their wishes, and apply them to life as much as possible.
The Virgo of the earth sign itself is very particular about the reality and availability of things, that is, they are very rational and realistic about their choices and the ideas in their minds.
Those illusory, impractical things, like love and bread, for Virgos, love without bread, it is difficult to insist on.
This is not to say that Virgo is snobbish, but simply to express that these people have a traditional, conservative style in their bones.
This style makes them prefer to be able to maintain a responsible attitude for everything to the end, at least this attitude can make them feel that doing things is worthy of themselves and worthy of life.
Therefore, the Virgo veterans will carry some unwarranted pressure and responsibility on their shoulders, they know that they are not omnipotent, nor omnipotent, and often even feel their vulnerability.
But Virgos are still very conscious, they will feel that as long as they do what they should do, even if others should not do it at all, they will not evaluate, nor do they bother to evaluate.
After Virgos have accumulated some life experience, or seen through the so-called human nature, they will be able to be spoiled and not shocked, and they can also maintain a state of seeing through and not breaking through many things.
This realm makes them know that they are not insulted, emotionally stable, and for many things, they have not been in a hurry, and even will not be exaggerated and frivolous, but they know how to create their own life and live their own lives.
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