In this world, there are people who live in their own world, are unwilling to communicate with people, cannot integrate into society, and even their parents and mothers. They have a nice name, "Children of the Stars." They released a faint faint light in the dark night sky. Every year, April 2 is World Autism Day, a reminder that in this world, they need our love even more. I'll tell you a true story. A great mother, let the children of the stars, live as happily as ever.
A friend of mine has a child with autism. When she was just born, she was no different from other children, and the parents of the establishment were very loving, and this belated "little cotton jacket" gave her a nice name "star", hoping that she could become the brightest star in the night sky.
When the child is two or three years old, the friend finds that the stars are different from other children. She doesn't like to talk, doesn't like to move, talks slowly, doesn't like to play with other children, is always alone in a daze, and her expression is stereotyped and indifferent. There were also no toys that she particularly liked. Dad had a vague sense of foreboding and took her to the hospital to see a psychiatric department and was diagnosed as an "autistic child".
After friends learned about "autism", it was like five thunderbolts in an instant. And when he was young, he couldn't bear it a bit and cried loudly. He knew what "autism" meant, and in the days to come, he needed someone to take care of her specifically. Unwilling, he took the stars to Beijing to find them all over, a well-known expert in this field. After the experts looked at it, they all shook their heads helplessly. "Under the current medical conditions, there is no possibility of a complete cure for 'autism', and only through uninterrupted training, some children can gradually integrate into the surrounding living environment."
After returning, the couple not only fell into deep pain and self-blame, but also worried about the future life of their children. Now it is necessary to have a special person who always takes care of the stars to see if she can integrate into this society through uninterrupted exercise, and live well in this world after a hundred years of her parents.
The stars once pinned their hopes, and all their joys and hopes are now ruthlessly broken. Seeing that I had reached the age of kindergarten, the stars occasionally called out "Mommy and Daddy" vaguely, and there was definitely no hope of going to school.
So, the couple discussed that dad went to work to earn money to support the family, and mom quit at home to take care of and teach her. Star's mother, playing the piano is better. So, after taking care of the life of the stars, she played the piano at home, playing and singing over and over again.
The stars don't speak, but when her mother plays the piano, she will always listen, just expressionless, not knowing if she can understand. But every time she talked, she would always go out of her way to teach the stars some simple words and communicate with her. From uninterrupted training, it became a mother-daughter duo, the whole of life.
Once, when my mother was playing and singing to herself, the song "The Sky is Big", she thought of her child and couldn't help but cry bitterly. The star actually, with her small hand, gently wiped her mother's tears. Mom hugged the stars and burst into tears.
Seeing the small action of the stars, the mother felt that the floodgates of her daughter's feelings seemed to have been opened a gap, and she was one step closer to being able to integrate into society healthily in the future. A small sense of accomplishment gave her the determination to persevere. Perhaps, this is all fate, who called it at that time, gave her such a name.
The stars are like the children of the stars, although there is only a faint light, but I want her, in this dark world, to be the brightest star in the night sky. Mom swore secretly. So every day she tirelessly repeatedly played the song "The Sky Is Big" to her, whenever she heard this song, the stars would always widen, her twinkling eyes, very seriously listened, and then, called a "Mother", this is the most happy and happy moment for Mother.
Listening more, the stars began to be curious, to touch the piano keyboard. In Mom's hands, it was like a note flowing in the night sky. Mom was very surprised and tried to teach her some simple syllables, the door of the heart of the stars, as if opened by music a door.
Under the tireless teaching of her mother, the stars can also play a complete song. The mother happily picked up her daughter and saw the faint twinkle of hope in the dark night sky.
Cold and summer, the stars are already ten years old, under the careful education of their mothers, they can already play many smooth songs, and they are willing to communicate with their parents. Dad sent her to school to receive a systematic education. Although the stars still don't like to talk, the music opens the door to her heart and gives her the things she loves to do.
Mom liked to carry the stars and let her sit on a revolving wooden horse in the playground. When the Trojan spins, she laughs happily, just like any other child. At this time, she felt that all her efforts had been rewarded. The healthy growth of her daughter is her happiest thing.
This world, though, has a million roads to Rome. But some people are born in Rome. Some people have a hard time reaching them all their lives. The child of the star is unfortunate, she may not be able to integrate into this society to work hard and achieve a certain ideal, but I think the star is happy.
Because she has a mother who has never given up and has always loved her, although she stumbled all the way, patiently educated her, and grew up with her. Teach her to be in music, to open a door of the heart, to make herself happy, to communicate with the world.
Perhaps at some point in the future, concerts will become her hobby and specialty, able to feed her on her own. In the future there will definitely be a boy who will show up, enjoy her music, love her quietness, and give her a home.
What is happiness? Everyone has a different sense of well-being. Guarding the homeland, the family together every day plain, rough tea and light rice, is not also a kind of happiness. The children of the stars, not necessarily, work hard outside.
There is a mother who has always been inseparable, loves and cares for her, does what she likes, and is content with this peaceful state, even if she lives in her own world, the children of the stars can be happy.
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