British writer Claire McFaul wrote in The Ferryman: "If life were a lonely river, who would be the ferryman of your life?" I think I can answer with the words of Mr. Bingxin: "With love, there is everything." "Funding and support itself is a kind of loving and meaningful giving, which is a life ferry with temperature." Thus, there is a love story between me and Xiao Siying...
First encounter
In March 2021, the Taixing Women's Federation, together with the Municipal Education Bureau, the Civil Affairs Bureau, the Planning Bureau and other units, launched the "Heart Plan" activity. The specifications of the launch ceremony are very high and the scene is very large. In this activity, Xiao Siying and I met for the first time. When we first met, we were both a little stranger to each other and a little shy.
I pulled her aside and asked, "Baby, do you have a little wish you want to fulfill?" Mother Heart helps you achieve it, okay?" I thought she would say a lot of dreamy wishes, but I didn't expect Xiao Siying to say: "I want my mother to come back to life..." After saying that, she lowered her head, and her young little hands kept stroking the corners of her clothes.
At that moment, the air froze, and I didn't know how to answer the phone at once. The sensible Little Siying seemed to realize my embarrassment and looked up at me and asked, "Do you know heaven?" They all said my mom had gone to heaven. The last time I saw my mom, only my dad and I could go into that room, and no one else could get in because I was mom's dearest person. I lay down beside her and shook her vigorously and shouted at her, but she was still asleep..." My tears swirled in my eyes.
When it came time to "hug Mommy," she snuggled tightly into my arms and whispered softly, "How nice it would be if Mommy was there?" In a word, my heart was crushed, and I couldn't help but wrap my arms around her: "Child, I will definitely do my best to accompany your growth!" ”
Maybe she's still young and doesn't know how to live and die. The dead are gone, the living are like this, may the heavens and the earth be all right! I look forward to her thriving!
In this way, inadvertently, we broke into each other's world.
Celebrate your birthday
Children look forward to nothing more than their own birthdays. A few days ago, I was planning to see Xiao Siying, and I also prepared a gift for her birthday on Tuesday.
When he arrived at Xiao Siying's house, the child's face was filled with a bright smile, like a flower blooming in the sun. "Wow, and the cake, thank you, thank you!" She was so excited!
Every girl has a pink princess heart, and seeing the gift I brought her, a pink coat and small leather shoes, immediately made her very happy, and she refused to take it off when she put it on, and said "thank you" with a strong mouth. She rushed to the room to take out the bubbles: "This is my own blow, I like it the most, give it to you!" ”
I helped her correct mistakes in her paintings and helped her correct the wrong pronunciation in her reading. Opening the child's school bag, a little dirty, a little messy, I patiently taught her how to sharpen pencils, how to organize the stationery box and school bag, she nodded seriously.
After making a wish to cut the cake, she gave the first piece of cake to her great-grandmother, "What a filial child!" ”
The time spent together is always happy and always short-lived. Before leaving, I was really reluctant to leave, we agreed to meet in the fiery May, then we must give each other a surprise!
It's love that holds us together!
Family trip
May 15th, is a very meaningful day, the Municipal Women's Federation organized a two-day parent-child tour, the destination is the Shanghai Science and Technology Museum and Oceanarium. Along the way, sing all the way.
The Sea World Pavilion is cool. I led her to know a lot of marine life, and Xiao Siying said excitedly: "I can still talk to my classmates when I go back!" ”
At the Science and Technology Museum, she was as happy as a monkey bouncing around. The power generation bike is too high to reach, let's get started! In just three hours, we experienced the first and second floors of the science and technology museum, and she didn't want to leave.
Looking at her cheerful smiling face, I thought: In the future, we can continue to open happiness and continue to explore and move forward.
Thanks to the summer camp provided by the Municipal Women's Federation to walk with love: getting along again and again, Xiao Siying and I are getting acquainted with each other, always blurting out the shout of "Mom, Mom", which feels really good!
School Visit Day
Today is busy and full, today I want to give Siying baby a surprise.
After work at 11:00, I went to the class with my grandmother to visit Siying Baby. When we showed up in the first (2) classroom, she looked up at us for a moment, first surprised, but then shyly smiled.
The other children cast curious glances at our arrival and whispered, and some children said, "This is Yang Siying's mother?" I introduced myself: "Yes, I am Yang Siying's mother, and now she has three mothers!" A little boy was puzzled: "Three mothers? Ex-mom, post-mom, pro-mom? I was stunned, and I touched his head and said, "No, we are Si Ying's loving mothers." "I'm afraid they can't understand it when I say mother heart." Then I said to the whole class: "Now Siying has three mothers, we all love her, last Saturday also took her to changzhou zoo to play, watched a lot of animals that can only be seen on TV, also watched a wonderful circus show, bought a fun hair band, butterfly wings!" The children immediately threw envious glances at Si Ying.
This is the effect I want, I just want Si Ying to have confidence in front of the children. "Are you willing to be good friends with her, play with her more often, and help her learn?"
"Yes!" There was a loud noise in the classroom.
Thank you so much to these lovely kids!
Seeing Xiao Siying's unfinished homework book, Mother Sun randomly guided the writing method and let Xiao Siying learn to write a few, one point through, very beautiful writing.
The last time they were separated, Si Ying said that she would surprise me. Sure enough, the pencil case was neat and tidy, and the bag was neatly organized. Must like one!
In order not to affect the learning of the children in the class, Siying and I went to the office together to exchange information with the class teacher, Teacher Gao.
Thank you very much to Si Ying's teachers for their various care in school, so that she no longer has inferiority and has made obvious progress in her studies! When I had to go to work in the afternoon, I had to leave in a hurry, and before leaving, I asked the teacher to take more care of her, and I was in touch with anyone who had anything to do.
When I arrived at the school at 1:35 and sat down, I remembered that my grandmother and I had not yet eaten lunch.
But it's all worth it! "There is light in the eyes and love in the heart, which is what a teacher should look like." I worked hard and worked hard.
Feature films
Helping and educating people is itself a tree shaking another tree, a cloud pushing another cloud, a soul evoking another soul, and a life crossing another life.
In order to better amplify the brand effect of the "Heart Rui Activity Plan", the Taixing Women's Federation decided to make a feature film represented by our group. We are all very happy, we have been recognized by everyone, and at the same time, it is also a challenge, can we do a good job in completing the task entrusted to us?
The whole shooting process, we used weekends to do it, once not, twice; twice, three times... It didn't stop until I tried out a satisfactory shot. In this way, all the materials needed for the production of the film crew were done brilliantly.
It is worth the happiness of all the mothers of the heart that after the recorded video was sent to Taizhou, it was sent to the province on behalf of Taizhou to participate in the second Jiangsu Women's Media Competition National Invitational Competition, and won the Excellent Work Award. Behind the flowers and applause, not only belongs to our group, but belongs to all the mothers and babies of the heart, it is their hard work that has won the recognition and acceptance of all walks of life. I long for the brilliant sunshine to return to the child's face, and I strive to make her life as beautiful as a flower...
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Later June 1St Children's Day, happy summer camp, celebrate the National Day, red tourism, etc., every time I activities, I treat Xiao Siying as my own daughter with heart, and strive to fill her lack of maternal love, every time I meet, every activity, I can feel the distance with Xiao Siying is getting closer and closer, I can see her gradually becoming more cheerful, and I am getting closer and closer to her inner world. In the daily relationship, there are tears, there are laughter, and my firm belief as a "heart mother".
I firmly believe that this warm and highly loving event will continue as planned, and I know that there will be many, many more wonderful things to come.
There are more left-behind children in our Jiangping campus, and I continue to practice and promote it in the class I teach in with the practice and understanding of participating in the "Heart Rui Project Activity". I used WeChat to build a "child group", focusing on helping the left-behind children in my class, "one person leads a group of people, and one person warms a group of people". In the group, I patiently guided them to learn, stimulated their self-confidence, encouraged them to face learning and life with an optimistic spirit, educated them to achieve a better life in the future with knowledge and action, and strived to achieve "educating people and cultivating hearts, spring wind and rain", and received good results.
In the movie "Teacher Good", Teacher Miao Wanqiu said to the children: "I did not meet you at the best time, but met you, and I had the best time." "In my best years, I had the privilege of becoming the ferryman of Xiao Siying's life; and Xiao Siying also became my ferryman to fraternity.
Chen Jinlian (Taixing Gulou Primary School Education Group Jiangping Campus)
【Source: Junction News】