Now people looking for objects are either similar in age, or there will not be much generation gap in the topic; or find people who are a few years younger than themselves, and the other party can bring you back to your lively self; or find people who are a few years older than themselves, the other party can help you in career or spirit, and you will often see the mature and stable appearance of the other party.
But few people have to find their own older people, and generally if they look for people who are too old, they will be talked about behind their backs. Especially as a woman looking for an older person, she will think that this woman is the money of an old man, especially realistic, especially vain, and will not think that this woman loves this old man, nor will she think that friends have "year-old friends", not to mention the feelings of this invisible and untouchable thing.
Now most of the "old men" with some backgrounds, with experience and social experience, are particularly popular in the eyes of young girls, why? Let's talk about the characteristics of "old men" who can attract young girls:
1. Always exude mature charm
We all know that young girls choose young men, sometimes because the other party is handsome, they are comfortable, and when they quarrel, as long as they look at his face, their temper will disappear by more than half. However, in the matter of a person looking handsome, there will be visual fatigue when you see more, and you will slowly feel that the other party is actually not so handsome.
But the charm of maturity is not the same, it is rarely found in young people, after all, the charm of maturity must have a broad mind, an open heart, tolerance, tolerance, tolerance and tolerance, and a life of emotion and fullness. Young men rarely suffer in society, and even if they suffer, they have not accumulated any experience, so the charm of maturity is not very sufficient.
"Old men" are different, they know how to release their mature charm, in front of young girls, comfortable, generous and graceful, far away from the young men half a street. So, young girls will be attracted to the ubiquitous mature charm of "old men".
2. More mature and stable
Under the protection of their parents, young men are more or less childish, like to stick to the people they like, so there are few circles, there is no pattern, and when conflicts occur, they are all solved by breaking up, so feelings come and go quickly like a river.
And old men have suffered most of their lives, so they know how to respect others, everything to solve problems as the focus, accumulate their own network resources, one day is the place where they need to be used.
Young girls will take this into account when choosing old men, can give them a long-term companionship, will not be able to move on the temper, play sex, old men will not only accompany young girls, but also know how to talk with temperature, which is a very fatal point.
3, in case of trouble, not rushed, have the opinion, have the responsibility
Most modern people more or less follow the trend of the times, society is developing rapidly, but people's hearts are showing a state of wandering, or a kind of irritability, there is no way to make their hearts quiet, but always want to play with friends, no one has been alone.
However, most of the older people, the more they know how to return to themselves, know how to change their bad habits, do things with a beginning and a tail, encounter difficulties and are not in a hurry, and can always deal with them quickly. Young girls will often do wrong things, and people of about the same age will not have much patience to wait for her to change back, but old men know the heart of women, so they are willing to constantly endure the mistakes made by young girls and help her grow up together.
epilogue:
Young girls do not have any social experience, so hope to find a better than their own people, others say that if you are average, you want to find an excellent person, if you are excellent, you want to find a more excellent person, the road of life does not have a route to go back, the mate selection criteria are also, it is impossible to find a person worse than themselves, so they will find a partner who can be stronger than their own life, which is what most women think in their hearts.
Most young men do not have the characteristics that can attract young girls, but just old men have, old men know better than young men how to smooth the mind of small women, more know how to give small women a sense of security, have their own opinions, and will give advice when small women are ambiguous and overwhelmed. Therefore, after men come, with the above 3 points, they can also attract young women.