The biologist Pasteur said, "The three most important words in the dictionary are will, work, and waiting." I am going to build the pyramid of my success on these three cornerstones. ”
Life has been so many decades, but you are desperately sprinting, and you run to the end in one breath. Suddenly, you are at the time to "cover the coffin", which is really sad.
Slowing down is a kind of wisdom; it is to use every minute and second to achieve the best you can be.
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The trough of life, slowly boiling, in order to run from time to time.
Feng Tang once said: "To carry through the hardships of life, we rely on not being in a hurry, not being afraid, and not having a face." ”
When he was young, Wu Mengda made a lot of money by acting, but he was obsessed with gambling money, lost everything, and owed a lot of money to others. The debt collector guards him at all times.
One day, Wu Mengda found his friend Zhou Runfa and hoped to borrow some money. Zhou Runfa refused.
Not long after, Zhou Runfa secretly helped Wu Mengda receive a play. Then Wu Mengda, with his excellent acting skills, got a lot of money and won the "Best Supporting Actor". All the difficulties were solved. More importantly, reality taught Wu Mengda a lesson, letting him know what friendship is and what life is.
Just imagine, if Wu Mengda didn't have the real ability, who could help him? The salvation of others is based on self-help.
In real life, most people who are heavily indebted will not be as lucky as Wu Mengda. Hiding debts, begging for forgiveness, and asking for help are useless, such scenes can force you to a dead end.
Meals should be eaten bite by bite, and money should be earned one by one. If a person can put aside debt, pain, and then focus on doing something, then he can play at his best level and avoid the distractions of troubles.
Su Fuzhi, a writer of opera in the early Ming Dynasty, said: "The fortune of the times will be the future king and keep, and the trapped dragon also has a time in heaven." ”
Anyone who wants to succeed pays attention to the favorable time and place, and if the time is not ripe, they will toss blindly, but instead destroy the original Laodice.
Sleepy, like a cage, you have to slowly pound out a window and let the sun come in. Then knock on a door and you are free.
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Supernatural things, looking slowly, will always come to light.
Wang Rong, one of the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest, when he was seven years old, played games with friends. Suddenly, I saw a plum tree not far away, full of fruit.
Friends scrambled to climb the tree, afraid that the fruit would be plucked by others.
Wang Rong stood still.
After a while, the friends took a bite of the fruit and said, "It's bitter." ”
Later generations praised Wang Rong and had foresight.
According to common sense, the fruit of the plum tree on the side of the road will be favored by people, but this plum tree is ignored by no one, and there must be mysteries in it.
The writer O. Henry once said: "A true adventurer will face and meet the unknown fate without any utilitarian purpose and without any hesitation." ”
Strange things, particularly appealing, but also lurking disasters. Really smart people do not take risks, but estimate dangerous things accurately, and then do it.
Wait and see, others will be one step ahead, and you will be able to see the real side. Time will give you the best answer.
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Reading and educating people, taking it slowly, can also be a big instrument and a late success.
Liang Qichao said: "Success is easy, and the harvest is abundant in Si's expectations, and the shallow people are happy, and the deep-understanding people are hanging." ”
What is easy to get will bring unexpected gains, but it will also make knowledgeable people feel sad.
A shallow person, looking at the results, a heavy person, looking at the results.
Whoever can laugh to the end is the real master. Unfortunately, there are too many people who are eager for success and quick profits, and too few people who can achieve great things late.
In fact, people who can really be admired by others are not smart for a while and a half, but they have been learning all their lives and getting smarter and smarter.
For example, Mo Yan wrote all his life, and when he was in his fifties, he won the Nobel Prize in Literature and became famous in one fell swoop.
He said: "The late maturing person, when the right time comes, there is a stage that can show his talent, and he will shine." ”
A bowl of soup, to master the heat, after a certain period of time, can emit fragrance; a piece of land, after years of cultivation, can be called a "rice field"; a person, to read countless people, read thousands of volumes, travel thousands of miles, can be regarded as a talent.
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Get old on the road, walk slowly, and you can enjoy the time.
Once, I went on a trip with friends. When I was in Guilin, I met a grandfather in his seventies who walked very slowly.
The tour guide urged: "Hurry up, this is a mountain, there is nothing to see." ”
Grandpa was not in a hurry, he sat down and slowly admired. All those who were waiting were in a hurry.
Grandpa said, "If we're running fast, then why are we still here, it's better to run in front of the house." ”
All the people, silent, began to look up, looking for the scenery of the mountain stream, listening to the whisper of the wind.
In the "Cai Gen Tan", it is written: "The years are long, and the busy people promote themselves; the wind, flowers, snow and moon are idle, and the disturbers are redundant." ”
We always urge ourselves to make money quickly, otherwise the money will be earned by others; promotion must be fast, otherwise it will be a foregone conclusion at the age of fifty, and no one will be promoted.
In order to be faster, we lived a life of staying up late and working overtime and running non-stop. I have been to a city, but I don't know which streets there are in the city, nor do I know what kind of food, the sunset on the edge of the sky, nor do I take a look; when I have a meal with my parents during the festival, I didn't say two words, I left in a hurry, and I didn't know what my parents needed and thought; I couldn't wait until the day of rest, but I kept looking down at my mobile phone, and time was wasting...
Time is like a white colt passing through the gap, no one can grasp it, but we can enjoy it. Touch a spring breeze, touch a ray of sunshine, and wait for the sunset to slowly set.
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Conclusion.
The pace of life is a little slower, and the body will not be so tired. Often, a person sits quietly, and the life of soldiers and horses is chaotic, shaking hands and making peace.
Take your time, because you are full of energy, and everything can be faced calmly.
Take your time, because full of anticipation, everything is the best arrangement.
Take it slowly, because you have looked down on the gains and losses, and everything is over the clouds.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.