When a woman is with you, she sincerely appreciates you, and you have the qualities she values; or you have a good enough attitude towards her, and women trust you enough to treat you as a soul mate; you are good enough to attract women's attention, you are good enough to women, you can impress women, and finally gain women's trust; at this time, women will naturally feel more and more inseparable from you, women will take out their hearts and lungs for you, give your heart to you, no matter what kind of twists and turns occur between your feelings, women will firmly stay with you.
If there is a mistake in the relationship between you, the woman's attitude towards you is not as good as before when she interacts with you, treats you as a dispensable person, no longer pays attention to you, and will find a reason to leave you. Or maybe the woman didn't even want to find a reason, and said bluntly, "You're so stupid, no matter how you keep me, I will leave you, because I don't want to be good with you anymore." ”
Women are so blunt, obviously do not want to live with you, at this time, you are not willing to face the reality, stalking it, and finally just self-pleased, at this time, men should first think about it, first figure out the real reason why women leave themselves. You know, there's a reason a woman will leave you, and men can only be flexible if they figure out the reason.
1. She has higher standards for mate selection.
When a woman gets along with a man, if she has feelings for men, feels that men can give her a happy life, and be with men, she will have a strong sense of happiness in her heart, even if you have some deficiencies and some small shortcomings, women will gladly accept and will not be too worried with you.
For women, she values you, likes the feeling when she is with you, you can meet her mate selection standards, at this time, women will naturally live with you with a dead heart, and they will not abandon you.
However, people are changeable, women with the increase of experience, three views and the appeal to the future life, there may be some changes, at this time, you have not changed, slowly can not meet her mate selection standards, women do not want to be with you, at this time, women germinated the idea of leaving you, and this idea takes root in her heart, how do you keep her? In the end, it will only be self-inflicted.
2. You keep regressing, she can't stand it.
When two people are together, they are in love with each other, they look at each other tirelessly, they like each other, and they are looking forward to further development with each other, at this time, women will naturally be very patient with men and are willing to work with men to manage life well.
On the contrary, women do not have deep affection for men, and at this time, men are not contentious, always stagnant, living in their own small world, falling into path dependence, constantly rolling inward, taking women to live worse and worse days, at this time, women have given men the opportunity, but men have not cherished well, repeatedly let women down.
In this regard, the woman is deeply desperate and feels that such a man is really not worthy of trust, so she chooses to leave this man. For this situation, men should take a good look at themselves, try to correct their mistakes, make themselves more motivated, men only let women see a better tomorrow, women will be assured to entrust themselves to this man.
3. She loses herself, or there is a misunderstanding between you.
When a man is in contact with a woman, he loves this man without distraction, the more deeply the woman loves, the man also doubles his regret and treats the woman well, and the feelings of the two people will naturally become more and more profound.
At the same time, when two people are together, what words can be said directly, will not be hidden, two people have misunderstandings, can be clarified in time, when two people can build a smooth communication bridge, the relationship between the two people will not be too much wrong.
On the contrary, when two people are together, they do not maintain a good communication bridge with each other, the two people have contradictions, misunderstandings occur, and the man does not explain well, so that the contradictions are continuously amplified, making the relationship between the two people more and more tense.
Or, women lose themselves, when they talk to men about love, they can't withstand the temptations of the outside world, and when the feelings of two people have twists and turns, women can't withstand the test, choose to let go, so they choose to leave. For this situation, the man can properly retain the woman, not to stop, let her go.