Sometimes, it's hard to "cross yourself"!
People in this life will encounter a lot of bad people under the trip to block your way, these people are like thorns to make you difficult, scarred, but fortunately, you have not given up, not only in the self-strength and hard work, but also some good people around you, through your difficulties.
Sun Wukong in the Journey to the West, because of offending the Heavenly Court under the Five Finger Mountain for five hundred years, in the darkness, the Tang monk who went to the Western Heavens to learn the scriptures passed by here, yes, the Tang monk was the one who came to cross him.
In the darkness, it seems that many fates have been predestined, who is your parents, who are your brothers and sisters, who are your lovers, some people are born predestined, have a fate, some people meet at a certain intersection, just because they look at it more, they are entangled for a lifetime...
When people are in difficult situations, no one "crosses" you, it is difficult for you to change your fate, some good people in your destiny, "seriously" affect the direction of your destiny, guide you out of the haze, to the light!
Of course, the pain is extremely painful, you need to cross yourself, and the person who crosses you may just reach out and pull you, maybe just accompany you, maybe just keep spurring you, but this is enough.
01 The person who gave birth to you and raised you
Sometimes I complain about why I was not born in a wealthy family and why my parents were so mediocre. But when my parents are gone, I understand that it is good to have a father and a mother!
A child with a mother is like a treasure, and a child without a mother is like a grass. The person who gave birth to you is always selflessly giving, but how much can the children repay.
Every family has imperfections, some people have given birth to you but have not raised you, the people who raised you are not necessarily just parents, some people grew up with their grandparents, and when they grew up, their grandparents left, only shed a few sad tears.
Some parents have no culture, no ability, they have no villa or luxury car, they are just ordinary farmers, working day after day, doing the hardest work, guarding the roughest rice bowl.
But they have exhausted everything, carrying the burden of a lifetime, and when they are old, they can't walk, and they still hope that you will have a good life!
The mother's hand is threaded, and the wanderer's body is clothed. The seams are tightly sewn, and I am afraid that I will be late. Whoever says anything will be rewarded with three Chunhui.
One day, I was also a parent myself, and I understood the meaning of birth and maintenance. If there are no "good people" in this world, parents are the only ones who are good to you.
When you grow up, you can slowly realize that there is no eternal friend, no eternal love, and family affection will fade with the rings of the year, but only your parents, when you are old, are still saving money for you, and you still want to wash and cook for you...
Others cross you because they think you are not bad, and your parents cross you, but they don't care whether you are good or bad. Others only cross you for a while, but your parents cross you, but it is a lifetime.
02 Flesh and blood compatriots
In the past, in the countryside, there were several children in the family, and seven or eight brothers and sisters were normal. At that time, the old man hoped that people would prosper, and when the family was older, there were more people, so they would not be bullied.
Another point is that the elderly hope that their children can help each other when they grow up, love each other forever, and live not alone. But how many relatives, wait until the old man is gone, because the interests of each other look at each other...
Some people are willing to believe in friends and refuse to trust relatives, in fact, family affection, far more "heavy" than friendship, many brothers and sisters in childhood feelings are very good, they feel that in this world in addition to parents, is the most important brothers and sisters.
However, when I grew up, I didn't understand why, people's hearts changed, relatives calculated, quarreled, and compared with each other for their own interests, and once shared glory and disgrace, but later they went to the west and east.
When I was a child, my affection was bigger than the sky and deeper than the sea, but when I grew up, my affection was an account that could never be calculated, so some people would fall silent once they mentioned family affection...
Once I went to a mental hospital and saw an old man with Alzheimer's disease who kept saying, "Oh my brother...
When a person is the most vulnerable, poorest and most helpless in this life, who is willing to give her best things to you, who bravely stands in front of you when you are bullied... It's brothers and sisters!
Although later we all understood that everyone's life is not easy, after they have established a family, there are many difficulties, brothers and sisters have become polite, but also become "brothers, clear accounting", but at least, brothers and sisters have passed you, when you have the most...
03 Appreciate your Bó Lè
Adults' interactions are inseparable from the word "interests", and some people are very resistant to being used, but you don't know that some people want to be "used" in order to change their fate.
In addition to self-reliance and self-reliance in this life, the most important thing is to meet Bole, a good horse without Bole, and even be used as an animal by mediocre people.
Especially in today's world, there are many capable people, and the so-called masters are in the folk, but there are also many able people who are buried.
In this life, it is useless to rely on hard work alone, if you are lucky enough to meet a high person to guide you, you can find the real way out of life.
To know how difficult it is for people at the bottom to rise to a higher class, not only need to improve their knowledge and abilities, but also need to meet a Bole who appreciates you!
Don't blame many people who live more and more realistically, as they say - on the road of survival, I don't know how many times I lowered my head, countless times I thought I met Bole, so when the cow is a horse, I don't quit, but I lived for a long time to find myself, and I only ate a few big cakes...
Appreciate your Bole, promote your superiors, respect your capable people, is the person who should be most admired in this life, and is the noble person who changes your destiny!
04 Hit the person who loves you in your heart
It is the greatest honor for a person to be deeply loved by a certain person in his life, she loves you, loves deeply, she loves you, and never gives up...
Nothing inspires passion more than love, and falling in love with someone at a young age, even if you exhaust everything, doesn't matter, but then we understand that love is "priceless".
Humble love is worthless, and it is truly fortunate to be loved by others but cannot be bought with money. Some people desperately make money for love, and some people are empty-handed for love.
Love is occasionally emotional in reality, but in the end it will be defeated by reality, how many naïve vows fail to resist the temptation of two cents, how many sweet love words fail to resist the destruction of reality.
Some people take love as a chip in life, some people take marriage as a stepping stone, in fact, the best lover, not a better person than you, but even if both people are "rotten", but also love "messy", one is willing to "I love you", one is willing to "I raise you", eat roasted sweet potatoes together when poor, there is a bright smile on the face, watch fireworks together when you are rich, fireworks are still not as beautiful as you!
Can be silently accompanied by you when you are the loneliest in your life, can go with you in the wind and rain, can also cry with joy when you succeed, see you at a glance and think that this is a marriage of a lifetime, the whole quarrel and tear your heart and lungs are still not willing to go - the person who loves you in the eyes of the heart is the person who crosses you to the other side of happiness.