Details determine the success or failure of a relationship.
When you find that a middle-aged man pays special attention to details, starting from small things, giving you meticulous care and considerate care, it shows that he really loves you.
Of course, we can also see through a lot of details in life whether a middle-aged man really cares about you.
If he usually lacks care and greetings for you, is too cold or selfish to you, then it is obvious that he may not really love you.
Love needs to be expressed in words and verified by actions.
If his love for you only stays on his lips and never puts it into action, it means that he doesn't really love you that much.
Love is mutual fulfillment, mutual respect, mutual understanding.
When you realize that a middle-aged man's attitude towards you is too perfunctory and sloppy, rude and arrogant, it means that he does not have you in his heart at all.
The more you love your middle-aged man, the more you pay attention to the details of getting along with you, so that you can fully feel the beauty and sweetness of love.
To judge whether a middle-aged man really loves you, you can draw the answer by carefully observing the various details of getting along in life.
In general, these life details show that middle-aged men may not really love you.
1, never take the initiative to hold your hand when you go out
If a middle-aged man never takes the initiative to hold your hand when he goes out shopping with you or accompanies you across the street, it means that he may not love you so much.
Of course, some middle-aged men may not be very good at expressing love for you through body language, but middle-aged men who really love you deeply will have some physical contact with you to a greater or lesser extent.
If he never takes the initiative to approach you, for example, never takes the initiative to hold your hand, or refuses to let you fit into his life circle, whenever you approach him, he will show strong resistance or boredom, indicating that he may not really love you.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply and longs to live with you every day.
When you're out and about, he may take the initiative to hold your hand and don't mind the strange look in the eyes of others.
Because he loves you, he will let you feel that he is deeply dependent on you by holding hands or hugging.
On the contrary, if a middle-aged man not only refuses to take the initiative to hold your hand, but instead pushes you away from him and avoids you, it means that he may not really like and care about you.
2, always refuse to answer your questions head-on
If a middle-aged man refuses to answer your question head-on, it means that he may be a thief.
If he has not done anything to apologize for you, he will maintain the necessary sincerity and honesty with you, and will not refuse to answer your questions.
During the chat, if he is full of hesitation and evasion about the questions you ask, and is unwilling to answer sincerely, it means that he does not actually love you so much.
Truly beautiful feelings are built on the basis of mutual honesty.
The reason why he refuses to answer your questions head-on is because he lacks the courage to face the emotional problems directly, and he is not a middle-aged man with responsibilities and shoulders.
For example, when you ask him why he refuses to go out shopping with you, and he is torn and spitting, unable to give a reasonable reason and explanation, then it is obvious that he does not really love you.
For example, when you want to know what he thinks and evaluates you, he is hesitant to answer positively, but instead looks at the other side, and the words flicker, so that you can't guess his mind.
A middle-aged man who truly loves you deeply never easily rejects your questions, but tries to answer your various questions sincerely, even if your questions are more harsh and mean, he will still answer positively, will not dodge, and will not choose to escape.
Only when he doesn't love you so much will he refuse to answer your questions directly, or always drag mud and water when answering questions, not at all crisp and clean.
3. Often forget your various anniversaries
Feelings need a sense of ceremony, and the sense of ceremony is reflected in many details, for example, you will firmly remember each other's birthdays, and you will remember the day you first met.
If a middle-aged man always remembers your various anniversaries and even forgets your birthday, it means that he doesn't care about you at all.
Middle-aged men who truly love and care about you will remember every holiday related to you.
For example, he will remember the day you first made up your relationship, the day you went on your first date, the day you met your parents, the first time you went out on a trip together.
It is precisely because he cares about you that he will remember every day you have spent together.
Whenever it is your birthday, he will carefully prepare birthday gifts and surprises for you, willing to spend time, time and energy for you.
If a middle-aged man usually ignores you, ignores you, never treats your time together, and does not know how to cherish the memories you have together, then it is obvious that he may not really love you.
The more middle-aged men who truly love you, the more they will want to create more beautiful memories with you.
We are busy studying, busy working, busy having children, but we forget to take care of the most intimate and cherished partner around us.
When a middle-aged man has a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beautiful things and has a rich and delicate heart, he can keenly capture the feelings in life and firmly remember this touch, indicating that he is a gentle and kind person.
The writer Hu Qinghe once said: "How many people in the world have an earth-shattering life?" Days are like a trickle of water to flow long. ”
Why isn't that the case with feelings?
Where in the world there are so many vigorous loves, plain love is the norm of life.
However, when a middle-aged man is willing to add a bright color to his ordinary life, he is willing to spend his mind to create various small surprises and small touches for you, and create a touch of romance for your love life, indicating that he really loves you.
In short, to know if a middle-aged man really loves you, you don't have to be tempted, you don't have to ask, you just need to observe the details of life at a glance.
If he can firmly remember the important holidays you get along with, listen to your heart, know how to put himself in your shoes, and be willing to help you solve your urgent needs, it means that he really loves you.
When you live with a middle-aged man every minute and every second feel happy and warm, every day feel the care and ding from him, feel the beautiful details and trivialities, indicating that he really loves you.
On the contrary, if he never cares about the details of life, treats his feelings roughly and leaves, and loses everything, he is neither careful enough nor delicate enough, indicating that he does not have you in his heart at all.
When you have experienced a few relationships and have some life experience, you will understand that truly beautiful love is wrapped in details.
Love, not deliberately pursued, but goes with the flow, is subtle perception, is mutual cherishing.
Love, not necessarily grand and strong, is not far away, when you use your heart to feel and savor, only to find that love is like a flame, flashing around you in the subtleties.
When you meet a middle-aged man who really understands heartache and understands you, he is willing to accompany you to experience the cold and warm, turbulent and displacement of life, accompany you to read the prosperity of the world, red dust sentient beings, and you are also thrilled by him, please cherish the people in front of you.