What is the world? The Bible says that love is eternal patience. Shakespeare once said that love is blind. Zhou Guoping said that true love is the encounter between soul and soul.
What is love? In the eyes of a thousand people there are a thousand Hamlets. Maybe everyone has their own different answer in their heart. But I thought that a man's true love for a woman must show fear of this word. Men who truly love you are bound to be afraid of you.
01. I am afraid that if you are angry, you will ignore him
Everyone has heard the word cold violence, in fact, many girls in love will meet boys who are cold and violent to themselves. Although it is normal for couples to quarrel with each other, I really feel that cold violence is a very emotionally hurtful practice.
After all, girls are still very emotional and fragile creatures, if they quarrel, men do not know how to accommodate and tolerate girls. If the boy would rather keep the girl cold and let the girl stay alone and get angry, and he does not take the initiative to bow his head and apologize to the girl, then it must mean that the boy does not love the girl so much, and even the boy does not love the girl at all.
Boys don't love girls, so they don't bother to spend their minds and don't want to accompany girls when they are angry.
Men who really love girls deeply will never abandon girls, because men who love girls deeply are more afraid of girls getting angry with him and ignoring him than face or anything.
Boys who love girls deeply will also take the initiative to solve problems with girls, because he is worried that this problem will become a barrier between the two of them, he wants to go on with girls for a long time, and does not want to have any misunderstandings with each other and affect this relationship.
02. I am afraid that you will suffer and have a bad life
It is said that where a man's heart is, the money is there. This is not chicken soup, but reality, the man who loves you deeply must be willing to spend money for you, because he is afraid that you will suffer and have a bad life.
A writer once said that heartache is the highest state of love. Men are afraid of your suffering, that is, they hurt you.
"Big Fish and Begonias" once had such a line: In this world, what I am most afraid of is that you will let you suffer.
The man who truly loves you deeply, in his opinion, your happiness is his happiness. So, if you eat well, or dress comfortably, or live fast or unhappy, he will worry. If you suffer, he suffers, and naturally he will be afraid.
03. Afraid that you will be disappointed, leave him
In general, men yearn for freedom and will not easily enter into marriage, which will bind him. But if a man really loves a woman, then he is willing to give up this freedom with her, even at the cost of marriage, so that you can live for a long time.
You know, when a man loves a woman deeply, he is very afraid of losing her. So men who truly love you deeply will definitely be responsible for your relationship. He won't be with you so that you can't see that you don't have a future, and even if he's not in good terms now, he will become more motivated and work harder to make money for you. Because he will be afraid that you will be disappointed and want to leave him.
Suzen said: The rule of love is that the more you like, the more timid you are, and it makes the biggest grinning person become cautious, and the most fearless person begin to tremble.
Yeah, when a guy is really in love, the more he likes you, the more timid he will act. Originally, when he was single, he wanted to do everything calmly and confidently.
But after meeting you, he began to become a little inferior. Because he cares about you, he is also afraid that he will not be good enough in front of you, making you feel that he is not the person you want, so that he is disappointed in him and wants to leave him.
Men love women sometimes love to the extreme is like this, men do not spare no effort to pursue this woman, the heart is good for this woman, but he still inexplicably will be uneasy, always feel that where he is doing not good enough for women, worried about not giving women the happiness they want, let her disappointed, will leave him.
But women, you have to understand that a man's fear does not mean that he is cowardly and incompetent, but that he really loves you too much. You can't be proud of this, feel that men are very fond of being spoiled and afraid of you, he is not worthy of you, you deserve better men.
In fact, in this carnal society, most men are not true love women, they just want to possess women, and a very small number of men will treat women sincerely. Men are afraid that you are also his performance of your sincerity to you, and when you meet such a man, you must grasp it in time and do not let him run away.