As a regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala, Gao Xiumin has contributed many works to the Spring Festival Gala, such as "Selling Abduction" and "Selling Cars".
She died of a heart attack in 2005, which attracted countless viewers to send her off spontaneously.
Her past with her husband, He Qingkui, also disappeared with her departure.
However, her only daughter, Li Xuan, lost her father and mother in 8 years.
Stepfather He Qingkui also returned to the family after the death of his mother.
How is she going to face the storms of this world when she is alone? How should her life go on?
In 1978, Gao Xiumin and her husband Li Yunqi concluded a joint relationship.
Within a few years of marriage, they gave birth to a lovely daughter of ice and snow,
Li Xuan was born in Buyeo County, Jilin Province,
My mother worked in a folk art troupe in Matsubara, while my father worked at a cultural center.
When she was born, her father was almost thirty years old, and his father loved her very much since she was a child.
When she was a child, her parents were very busy at work, and at that time, her father basically fed her food.
Even if it is too late, he will ask his friends to bring food from the restaurant to his daughter.
In Li Xuan's impression, the relationship between her parents is somewhat tense, and sometimes she will fight in front of her.
But after all, the two came together because of love,
So even though quarrels and fights have become commonplace, I have never thought of separating,
Until Gao Xiumei plans to leave the current troupe and find a new way out.
At that time, Gao Xiumei was already the leader of the regiment, but her income did not increase significantly.
But there are parents and a lot of relatives in need of help, and the pressure on the body is very large.
In order to get better development, she thought of going to other places to find another way out.
So she joined a two-person transaeration troupe.
However, Li Yunqi's ideas are different, he thinks that he can't get a good development over there.
Just stay at home,
The two had a fierce quarrel over the issue of going and staying,
After countless consultations, the two who did not speculate chose to part ways,
The daughter lives with Gao Xiumei.
After his wife left, Li Yunqi also regretted that he had always loved his wife.
But machismo made it impossible for him to reconcile,
His only request was not to let his wife tell her daughter the fact that they had separated, for fear that she would not be able to accept it.
Gao Xiumei is a very individualistic person,
She thinks her daughter deserves to know about it.
Fortunately, Li Xuan actually found that the atmosphere between her parents was not right,
There was not much reaction after learning that they were separated.
Later, when she grew up and recalled this experience, Li Xuan always felt very regretful.
Because at that time, there was an element of gambling between parents who were separated,
If she had been able to persuade her then, the outcome might have changed.
The separation of parents is like a dividing line, completely separating the lives of the two people,
While Li Yunqi was running for his life, Gao Xiumin's career was thriving.
After she moved to Changchun with Li Xuan, her relationship with her husband became worse and worse.
Until 1992, Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi completely ended this marriage.
And Li Xuan's chances of seeing his father are becoming less and less.
Gao Xiumin met He Qingkui in 1988.
He used to be a staff member in the duo's theater troupe,
Later, the career did not go well, and he could only sell fish tails for a living.
It wasn't until he met Gao Xiumin later that he changed his life and wrote a big fire sketch.
Gao Xiumin, Fan Wei and Zhao Benshan Iron Triangle,
The performances of "Selling Abductions", "Selling Cars" and "Heart to Heart" performed on spring evenings are all from his hands.
However, at this time, He Qingkui had no long belongings, only a Zhiqing wife, Zhang Yanru,
Although the two have been married for many years and have three children,
But there is no common language between them for a long time, and the marriage is also dead in name only.
At gao xiumin's invitation, he continued to write works for her.
When he was cooperating, he slowly fell in love with this cheerful, hot woman,
So he found Li Xuan, who was only six or seven years old, and asked,
"Will I help you take care of your mother later?" Rest assured I will not fail her,
I'll also treat you like my biological daughter. ”
Li Xuan looked at this steady uncle in front of him,
I remembered the bright smiling face of my mother and uncle when they chatted, so I focused on my head and agreed.
With her support, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui came together.
At first, she thought that her stepfather and mother would not like to fight as much as their parents did.
Later, I found out that in fact, the two of them often had conflicts.
At first, because I was not familiar with it, I was embarrassed to argue in front of her,
After getting familiar with it, I don't care about this.
I remember when I was writing the sketch of "Selling Abduction", He Qingkui gave Gao Xiumin four lines in his first book,
Gao Xiumin was very dissatisfied, saying that she had never seen anyone treat her daughter-in-law like this.
Later, after Gao Xiumin's pampering, she had the following lines.
But for the two of them, even if it's a fight,
There is also love in their eyes.
After being together, in order to give a name to the beloved woman,
He Qingkui took all his savings to find his wife and hope to divorce her.
But the wife is not willing to divorce under any circumstances,
And said that she did not care that her husband and Gao Xiumin were together,
In this case, he can only live with the woman he loves without a name,
Fortunately, Gao Xiumin is a free person,
She thinks that since two people are in love, it doesn't matter if they have that certificate.
After the two established their relationship, He Qingkui also did as she said,
He is very concerned about Li Xuan, just like treating his own daughter.
At this time, Li Xuan would occasionally go back to see his biological father.
But every time she went, her father liked to ask her mother and He Qingkui about her feelings.
The more she asked, the more she did not want to face her father,
Once she hadn't seen her father in three years.
Gao Xiumin knew that after kicking and beating her again, he asked her sister to put her over and go to see her father.
Gao Xiumin said: "You don't want to go now because you are still young, I really don't want you to pass, you will definitely hate me in the future." ”
At the request of her mother, she went to see her father,
At this time, Li Yunqi's conditions were not good, but he still prepared sweet potatoes and watermelons for her.
But for the young Li Xuan, it was too embarrassing to be with her father.
After lunch, I couldn't wait to leave.
No one expected that when they met again, my father would already have cancer.
I heard others say that my father did not go to see him during that time because of himself.
So I often smoke and drink, and I break my body.
So much so that Li Xuan has always believed that his father's death actually has some reasons for him.
After falling ill, Li Yunqi believed that if he got cancer and went to the hospital, he would basically be sentenced to death.
So he told his daughter, "You can rest assured, Daddy won't go to the hospital and he'll be fine soon." ”
And Li Xuan is still young and doesn't understand anything.
By the time she saw her father again, he was lying on the hospital bed skinny and bone-thin.
Li Yunqi left very suddenly, and he felt that he could not do it at night.
Before he died, he took a breath and wanted to wait until dawn to look at his daughter again.
But he didn't wait after all, and at four o'clock in the morning, he told his relatives who were gathered around,
Let them call Li Xuan, and they will not breathe at all.
After Li Yunqi's death, Gao Xiumin did not go to see him.
He already has a new family, but as an ex-wife she is not suitable,
However, she still bought him a cemetery, which can also be regarded as the end of their relationship.
Li Xuan, who lost his father, fell into immense grief,
Fortunately, He Qingkui filled the gap in her father's love,
She never opened her mouth to call "Daddy", only called He Qingkui "Uncle", with a ridiculous meaning,
But in her heart, this man was no longer any different from her father.
He Qingkui not only gives her warmth emotionally, but also helps Li Xuan in her career.
With the help of "Uncle", Li Xuan has starred in the TV series "Sunset Is Not a Dream" and "Farmhouse December"
As well as many works such as the skit "Heart to Heart".
Later, after Li Xuan graduated, she entered the entertainment industry to develop.
Just when her career was going well,
In 2005, bad news came from Changchun, and her mother Gao Xiumin died.
When I heard the news, Li Xuan and her little aunt just happened to buy noodles in the restaurant.
Her brother called and said, "The old lady is gone." ”
The first time Li Xuan did not react,
In her opinion, at that time, her grandmother was still alive, and even if she died, she should go first.
How could it be her mother, she asked her brother, "Is it the old lady, or the old lady?" ”
Her brother paused, afraid that she would not be able to accept it, so he lied to her,
Her mother may have been choked in the middle of the night, and was taken to the emergency room and still rescued.
In fact, at that time, Gao Xiumin had already entered the funeral home.
After Li Xuan listened, the noodles did not have time to eat, so he hurried to buy tickets.
Without getting a plane ticket, she went to drive back.
More than a thousand kilometers away she drove for more than ten hours,
I don't know if it's a trick of fate, when she was extremely anxious,
The car actually broke down in the middle of the way,
Finally, it was her family who came and took her back.
When she walked into the funeral home, she just cried.
Living with her mother since she was a child, she saw her mother's face was gray and lying in a coffin, and her heart hurt badly.
However, before she could grieve for long, there was a noisy sound outside.
It turned out that my mother died suddenly, and everything was not arranged in time.
Now she needs to take that responsibility,
She could only suppress her grief and began to deal with her mother's aftermath.
In Li Xuan's view, although her mother left early, she was very happy in this life.
She has left too many classic images for everyone,
So much so that after her death, many viewers spontaneously grouped up to send her off.
From Li Xuan's home to the funeral home, a total distance of 17km is full of people sending off.
If the only regret of the mother in this life,
That's probably because I couldn't get a marriage license with He Qingkui.
After Gao Xiumin's death, He Qingkui's eldest son also unfortunately died in a car accident.
His wife and daughter want him to return to the family,
At this time, He Qingkui was also old, and seeing that his family cared so much about himself, he still had a soft heart and chose to go back.
And after losing his mother, he lost his stepfather,
Li Xuan has become a loner in the true sense.
Fortunately, in 2005, she met her current husband, Liu Dawei.
The husband was introduced by his cousin, graduated from the Liaoning Academy of Arts, and is a very good actor.
When the two went on a blind date, they were in a sheep scorpion shop.
At that time, my husband had not eaten for a long time because he wanted to lose weight.
So before he could get to know Li Xuan, he began to eat non-stop.
Li Xuan was not angry, but slowly picked his flesh on the side,
The day after eating the meal, her husband approached her: "You are the wife I recognize." ”
In 2007, the two entered the palace of marriage and settled in Beijing.
Soon there was a cute son left named Liu Zitian,
And Li Xuan has slowly faded out of the entertainment circle for the sake of her family.
Most of the sons are naughty, when he was a child, Liu Zitian did not like to look at the road,
Li Xuan would often remind him, but he still did not listen,
Every time at this time, Li Xuan couldn't help but say,
If her mother Gao Xiumin was here, Liu Zitian would have been beaten up long ago.
It turned out that Li Xuan did not like to walk well when she was a child, and Gao Xiumin would only remind her once,
When I waited for the second time, I would hit her directly.
As Gao Xiumin's daughter, Li Xuan was most influenced by her,
Her mother's self-confidence on the stage and her radiant appearance made her have a strong interest in acting.
Her mother's uncomplaining and unrepentant efforts also taught her to be kind,
The early death of her mother taught her to cherish her current life.
After marriage, she tried to support her husband's work as much as possible, and his husband did not fail to live up to her efforts.
He has starred in classic film and television works such as "Female Soldier Company Comes to a Male Family" and "Naked Marriage Era".
Now their son has grown up,
Liu Dawei can put more energy into his career,
He starred in a number of TV series in 2022,
Also played an important role in the hit drama "The World of Man",
But in his spare time, he prefers to accompany his wife.
And Li Xuan, with the help of her husband and son,
Also slowly out of the sadness of losing a mother,
I hope that for the rest of her life, she will not encounter any pain and will always be happy and happy.