August 15, 2008, Li Xuan's most unforgettable day.
On this day, Gao Xiumin slept permanently in her sleep, and Li Xuan couldn't believe it.
The day before, she was still talking to her mother, but today she is separated by yin and yang.
The successive deaths of her parents made it difficult for Li Xuan to accept, and she was left alone in this world, and she did not know how to face her future life.
When Gao Xiumin was alive, her popularity was very good. After her death, her friends were willing to help Li Xuan and take her out of her pain.
With their help, Li Xuan not only has a successful career, but also has a happy family.
Li Xuan, born in 1981 in Jilin. Her mother, Gao Xiumin, works at the Songwon Art Troupe, and her father, Li Yunqi, works at the Songwon Cultural Center.
Although the couple is separated, Li Yunqi drives home every day to accompany his wife and daughter.
He is very fond of his daughter and cooks for her when she is at home. Sometimes, when he was busy, he asked his friends to go to the restaurant to pack up and send them to his daughter.
Li Xuan is simply her father's little baby. And the mother, Gao Xiumin, because she was busy, did not have time to take care of her daughter.
At that time, their family was very poor, and their brothers and sisters did not have the money to help them, so Gao Xiumin could only desperately perform sketches. In order for this family to live a good life, she did not worry less.
In her career, Gao Xiumin worked very hard and got the attention of the leaders in the troupe, hoping to let her go to a better platform for development, and planned to transfer her to the Liaoyuan City Culture and Art Troupe.
This is a good thing for Gao Xiumin, who can make more money, at least the family life can be better.
Li Yunqi did not agree to go, he did not want to leave Songyuan, and there was a conflict with Gao Xiumin.
During that time, Li Yunqi and Gao Xiumin often quarreled, even in front of their daughters.
Every time there was a quarrel, Li Xuan was very scared and did not dare to come forward.
Later, Gao Xiumin went to Liaoyuan to break in, and the result did not change at all, similar to living in Songyuan.
Li Yunqi said: Since this is still the case, I will not move and stay in Songyuan.
Gao Xiumin was very angry: I am tired and tired for this family, and you still don't understand me. Subsequently, the two quarreled again.
Gao Xiumin said angrily: If you don't come, I won't go back, then we will divorce.
Li Yunqi has a very rigid personality, insists on himself at any time, and says that it is a departure.
Because of the gambling, Gao Xiumin and Li Yunqi's marriage came to an end.
After the divorce, Li Yunqi still had some regrets, and the words said by the big man could not be received back. However, he and Gao Xiumin decided not to tell their daughter first, as usual.
In order not to let her daughter see the clues, Li Yunqi drove 7 hours a day to Liaoyuan to see her daughter and cook for her, which lasted for two months.
Later, Li Yunqi had less time to see her daughter, and Li Xuan found the clue and asked her mother if she was divorced. Gao Xiumin told her daughter what had happened recently.
Li Xuan suddenly realized that she had sprinkled all her anger on her father and blamed him for divorcing his mother.
At the moment of learning the truth, Li Xuan blamed all on his father and no longer saw his father.
Since then, Li Xuan and her mother Gao Xiumin have relied on each other for their lives, and the lives of the mother and daughter are more than one person, He Qingkui.
Gao Xiumin saw such a talented He Qingkui, selling vegetables and selling fish in the vegetable market.
She pulled He Qingkui to cooperate, one wrote a script, one acted, the career was booming, and the two also sparked.
He Qingkui was afraid that Li Xuan would not accept it, so he asked her opinion, are you willing to hand over your mother to me, I want to take care of her. She nodded.
He Qingkui lived with Gao Xiumin's mother and daughter, and he was very good to Li Xuan and treated him as a daughter.
Seeing that her mother found her own happiness, Li Xuan left her father behind, and she did not want to see him.
Gao Xiumin can't look at it, and directly tells her daughter to meet your father, and she will regret not seeing it now in the future.
Li Xuan is still young and does not understand her mother's good intentions.
It wasn't until her father fell ill that Li Xuan understood what her mother had said.
In 1997, Li Yunqi remarried and opened a small shop, although it was very hard, but the little life was not bad.
However, accidents can come at any time and anywhere, and he suddenly collapsed and went to the hospital to check and found lung cancer.
Li Yunqi couldn't believe it, and the doctor suggested that he have surgery. However, he was stronger in his life and chose conservative treatment. Even if his body hurts, he does not choose to get injections, afraid of dependence.
After Gao Xiumin knew that her ex-husband was sick, she told Li Xuan that your father was sick and went to see it. Unexpectedly, Li Xuan was indifferent.
Gao Xiumin asked her daughter to go, can you go back to see your father. Although he promised his mother that he would see his father, he never acted.
She said again: If you don't go back to see your father, you may not see him for the rest of your life.
Li Xuan mainly has not seen his father for more than 3 years, and he does not know how to face his father, and his heart is particularly uncomfortable.
Later, Gao Xiumin directly asked Li Xuan's sister to pull her to see her father.
The father was very happy to see Li Xuan and made a good meal for his daughter. Li Xuan did not know his father's intentions, and he wanted to finish his meal quickly and leave quickly.
My father's condition was getting worse and worse, he had to be hospitalized, he was very thin and small, and he still needed injections to maintain his life.
Li Xuan was very distressed to see his father getting more and more haggard. Stay in the hospital to take care of him. Because she was so young, she didn't know how to comfort her father.
And the two of them stared wide-eyed. My father often said to her: Old girl, I may not be able to do it. Only then did she realize the importance of her father taking her.
On the day his father left, Li Xuan was not able to be around. He wanted to see his daughter for the last time, write her daughter's name on the wall, and keep standing up.
However, at 4:00 a.m., he still died, and Li Xuan couldn't believe receiving a call from her aunt and rushed to send her father on the last trip.
She felt particularly sorry for her father.
After the death of her father, Li Xuan has been immersed in grief, and He Qingkui is very distressed to see her look like this, and decides to make up for the father's love she does not have.
He Qingkui told her: I want to do better than your biological father. Li Xuan's heart was warm when she heard these words.
Because He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin often have to perform in other places, they spend very little time with Li Xuan.
He Qingkui wanted to take her with him, but the official side did not reimburse the third person's expenses.
Gao Xiumin persuaded him to forget it, and as a result, He Qingkui personally funded to take his daughter.
Usually, Gao Xiumin did not let Li Xuan eat randomly, and was afraid of spending money, so He Qingkui secretly took her to eat and bought her what she liked.
When Li Xuan went to school, He Qingkui was afraid that she would not eat well and wear warm clothes, so she often went to deliver things.
He Qingkui was really good to Li Xuan, as if he were a biological father and daughter.
It should be known that after He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin were together, he did not care about his own son, but he was completely different to Li Xuan, and he could be called a "model stepfather".
The only pity is that He Qingkui did not divorce his wife and could not give Gao Xiumin a name. But if the family of three can live together, they are already very satisfied.
After graduating from high school, Li Xuan wanted to study abroad, and He Qingkui was reluctant to tell her: We can still take care of you at home, and we can't help us if we don't know abroad.
She obeyed the central academy of drama. Although living alone in Beijing, Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui come to work and will see her by the way.
The family of three is very happy.
In 2005, Li Xuan graduated from university, and because of the help of Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui, she began filming.
I thought that life would develop in a good direction, but no one expected an accident to come.
Because of the death of his son, He Qingkui went to Guangdong to deal with the aftermath and told Gao Xiumin to wait for him to return at home.
As a result, He Qingkui and Gao Xiumin were separated by yin and yang.
Gao Xiumin died of a sudden heart attack while sleeping. Li Xuan insisted on not believing in hearing this news, and rushed home at the first time.
Seeing the family crying in front of her mother, Li Xuan was overwhelmed, but she did not shed a single tear.
When sending Gao Xiumin, her friends from before her death came to give her one last ride.
At the memorial service, everyone shed sad tears, and He Qingkui cried until he couldn't stand up, and he still needed Li Xuan to hold him before he could leave.
And Li Xuan still did not shed a single tear.
Some say she's not upset at all. Yan Xuejing came out to explain for her. The saddest and saddest state is actually silent.
It wasn't until her mother was buried that Li Xuan broke down and cried, and her mother left her completely.
After sending Gao Xiumin, her friends all took the initiative to help Li Xuan, and she was very pitiful in this world alone.
He Qingkui left all of Gao Xiumin's property to Li Xuan, and the house and car were transferred to her name, and he did not take anything with him.
Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei, and Yan Xuejing also helped Li Xuan, introducing her to filming resources and helping her more in life.
At first, Gao Xiumin helped Yan Xuejing, and Yan Xuejing felt that it was time to reciprocate, took care of Li Xuan as her own daughter, and told her: There is a need for you to find an aunt.
However, Li Xuan never took the initiative to speak, but Yan Xuejing would take the initiative to help. When He Qingkui tried to help her, she refused.
Before Gao Xiumin was there, he had already troubled He Qingkui a lot and did not want to cause him any more trouble.
After Gao Xiumin's death, the family did not trust Li Xuan to be alone in Beijing, so they gave her two ways, one was to find a partner in Beijing and have someone to take care of. Two back home.
Li Xuan said: Can you find an object and find it? Her sister said: Then go back to Changchun. However, Changchun has too many memories of her and her mother Gao Xiumin.
My sister said to her: Let me introduce you to an object.
At the end of 2005, through the introduction, Li Xuan met Liu Dawei, who was 10 years older. Liu Dawei is a national first-class actor with very good conditions.
Before the two of them met, he knew something about Li Xuan. He was afraid of hurting Li Xuan, and was careful during the chat, leaving a good impression on Li Xuan.
The next day, Liu Dawei made an appointment with Li Xuan again, and directly confessed: The first time I saw it, I decided that you were the person I wanted to marry.
Li Xuan was a little embarrassed, but still agreed.
Not long after they were together, Liu Dawei took her to meet her parents. Before meeting the parents, he told his father about the woman's situation.
On that day, Liu Dawei's parents were very happy, and they got up early in the morning and began to work, buy food, clean up, and see Li Xuan even more warmly.
In this family, Li Xuan felt an unprecedented family atmosphere and decided to marry Liu Dawei.
In 2007, the two married in Beijing.
Since then, Liu Dawei's parents have treated Li Xuan as if they were their own daughters and told her: You are our second daughter.
After marriage, although Li Xuan does not live with her in-laws, she will go home during the holidays.
The in-laws prepared to eat and drink several days in advance, and made three meals a day for them. Li Xuan was very touched, and felt the love of her parents in her in-laws.
In 2007, Li Xuan became pregnant, but the in-laws were very happy, and the elderly came to take care of her, raised her white and fat, and successfully produced a boy, named Liu Zitian.
After giving birth, her in-laws also helped her watch the child, so that Li Xuan could rest well.
Li Xuan is very grateful for the care of her in-laws and mother-in-law, and when the children are older, she will take care of them in turn.
Although Li Xuan married into such a good family, in the middle of the night, she will also miss her mother, especially when she sees her children talking and laughing with their mothers, which is very envious.
After Li Xuan became a parent herself, she realized that it was not easy for her parents to do so, and she wanted to honor them but had no chance.
She often secretly wiped her tears, and her husband Liu Dawei would hug her and comfort her when he saw it.
Every day on Gao Xiumin's death day, he would accompany his wife to visit the grave, and also take the children with him, kowtow to the nagging, and wipe the ashes for the grandmother.
Once, after Li Xuan put his son to sleep, he secretly shed tears alone. Unexpectedly, the son suddenly woke up, saw his mother's tears and went directly up to hug and pat his mother's shoulder.
He also said in his mouth: It's okay Mom, what about me accompanying you?
Li Xuan was very touched to have such a sensible son, as if this son was arranged by his mother.
Although Li Xuan lost her father and mother, she met a good husband and a good in-laws. The love she did not feel, the family gave her all, even the son has always given the love of his mother.
In this loving family, Li Xuan is full of hope for her future life.
After her son went to elementary school, Li Xuan stopped working, she took care of her children, took care of her in-laws, took care of the family, and Liu Dawei was responsible for earning money to support the family.
She took good care of the home, and although her in-laws were in grade, they would also help her and would not be willing to tire her.
When Liu Dawei was at home, he took the initiative to take care of housework and let his wife accompany the children.
Not only that, Li Xuan did not forget the people who had helped her. Now that Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei and others have reached a certain grade, she will regularly go to see them to thank them for their help.
However, she and Yan Xuejing have the best relationship. Because Yan Xuejing often asked her about her life situation, there were good things to think about her.
When Yan Xuejing's son got married, Li Xuan also went to the scene to send blessings. Although they are not related by blood, they are very much like a family.
Li Xuan can be helped by so many people, inseparable from her mother Gao Xiumin.
When Gao Xiumin was alive, she liked to help others, so they were willing to help her daughter.
Li Xuan is lucky and unlucky.
After losing her parents, she was still happy, and her husband, children, and in-laws loved her together to make up for the misfortune of the first half of her life.
It looks unfortunate, but it is actually lucky.
No matter how unfortunate the situation, as long as you believe that you are happy, you can get happiness.