Recently, the topic of sharing desire has been rushed to the hot search, when did we gradually reduce the desire to share?
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The desire to share refers to the fact that some people have a strong desire to share, like to share what they have seen and heard in the day, and what they think is good books, pictures, movies, etc. to the people around them, and to share with others and feel happy and satisfied, not to eat alone.
From snack sharing when you were a child, eating together with many children, or sharing a plot, gossip, skin care products, and clothes with your friends when you grow up, we are all sharing and harvesting friendship and love from it.
But I don't know when this desire to share gradually decreased, and we no longer like to share all our likes and sorrows with others.
Is it that we are grown up and mature and don't want to share anymore? As Weibo hot search said, is the reduction of sharing desire the beginning of the breakout?
The editor's answer, that is inevitable, and deeply experienced.
There's a saying that when your takes up most of your time, you'll be happier. When there is less nonsense, your happiness will be less! Of course, this also varies from person to person.
Unconsciously we grow up and begin to discover that friendship is precious and love becomes a luxury.
So why do we start to care about the desire to share in our feelings?
In fact, it is very simple to get along comfortably and like each other, and the vocabulary of mutual liking hides the desire to share itself.
There is a gripping comment that said, "I told you that day that I wanted to see the sunset on your side, not that there was no dusk in my eyes, not that the dusk I saw when I looked up was different from yours, but that I also wanted you to share with me what you saw and heard steamingly." ”
It is because the desire to share is itself passion and love. Everyone expresses love differently, but love must be hidden in sharing. The reason why we care about the desire to share is that we care that the enthusiasm we give can be rewarded, that we hope that happiness and sadness can be echoed, and that we hope that someone will love us when we love others passionately.
When you get along with someone you like, the nonsense will become a lot, you want to tell him a lot of trivial things, tell him what you see about the sunset and sunrise, tell him that it is the best season to go to the beach, tell him what to eat for breakfast today is good or bad, and the first time you see interesting and cute things, you will think of each other.
Just because I remembered it, I shared it.
Strange said that Fu Seoul said that "the desire to share is the love that is spliced together from the details of life."
Therefore, there is a lot of enthusiasm hidden in the desire to share, hidden in the miss of a person, a preference for a person, and a liking for a person. When you share, you feel like someone is involved in your daily life.
The desire to share is the basis of an intimate relationship, and the desire to share is extremely important in an intimate relationship.
Of course, I don't care what the shape of the clouds is, what the sunrise and sunset look like, nor do I care whether the roadside milk tea shop is open or not, and I don't think what to eat today is good or bad. But because of your presence, I find any little thing much more interesting than before, and we are happy to share the details of life in detail, and the patience to keep listening to the trivial daily routine.
So when did we start to lose our desire to share?
I remember that there was a particularly heartfelt sentence in the movie "A Hundred Responses": "I drove around the city, but suddenly found that I did not even have a person who could talk." It turns out that in some indifferent places, even speaking the truth to a person has long become a luxury." Maybe that's why we're gradually stopping sharing.
Interesting things should not be shared with perfunctory people, and people who are willing to listen to you share are the ones who take you to heart.
Only if you are defenseless about a person and like someone will you want to share with you everything she sees, everything she has, everything she has experienced.
When a person is extremely disappointed or even desperate, the door of the heart is closed, and there will be no more ideas to share with others.
Would you share it with someone you hate? I won't anyway.
So the desire to share is the beginning of the breakout, and it is.
Communication is a bridge to enhance feelings, if two people do not even want to say anything, then there must be a contradiction, do not resolve the contradiction, how can you go all the way? So if someone likes to share it with you, she doesn't hate you at least. Sometimes quarrels are also a form of communication, because in the process of arguing and arguing, they are also communicating. If you don't even bother to quarrel about the cold war, that's the beginning of the break.
The desire to share is sustained by response, and so is enthusiasm.
Our life is busy and busy, the desire to share is not with everyone, only because you are worthy of me I am willing to share the bits of life with you, please cherish your friends around you to share the desire to burst.