-01-
In fact, most men's liking for women is only temporary. It may be a whim, or it may be temporarily bored, just need someone to accompany you, and you just happen to be there.
You think he loves you deeply, after all, he said "I love you", but in fact he just needs the feeling that you bring him not to be alone.
Good love has always been managed by means, after all, all love in this world will fade.
So in this case, how can a woman "trap" his heart?
At this time, women should not plunge into it, thinking that if they pay a lot, then this man may be soft on you, and then he is willing to be with you, which is extremely self-deceptive.
You know, most men don't like the kind of women who blindly give.
A woman who always gives will make the man take it for granted, so that he will not pay attention to you, and will feel that you do not have your own ideas, so that you are not attractive at all.
-02-
How to trap a man's heart is not to blindly pay, but to use small means.
This little trick will make men think that you are very novel, a little bad at the same time, but also a little cute.
It may be a very simple thing to make a man fall in love with you, you just need to show your own different side, and then give the man some freshness of love, and he will fall under your pomegranate skirt.
But getting a man to love you all the time and be held on to you is not a simple thing.
After all, no one's hormones are constantly secreted for the same person, and people will actually fall in love with many different people in this lifetime.
And you want a man to always put a heart on you, you have to learn to let him constantly discover new sides of you and be attracted to different you.
As someone said: the real novelty is not to do the same thing with different people, not to do different things with the same people.
I believe that the freshness that a man craves is satisfied in you, and he will continue to attract you, and he will want to dig deeper into your inner being and see how many more surprises you can give him.
-03-
In fact, the way many women get along with men is fundamentally wrong.
You think that if everything goes according to his will, he will be gentle with you; you think that if you put him first in your heart, he will cherish you equally; you think that unreserved effort can be exchanged for his sincerity.
But in the end, you will find that you become a spare tire by the man's side, a free nanny, not his lover.
So women, if you want to trap a man's heart, the first thing you should do is to stop the humble pay and try to get along with men with some means.
Pretend to be weak in front of him
Some women, when it comes to dealing with men, are aggressive. She can do anything, she doesn't need the protection of men, and she can't let men see through her vulnerability.
This makes the man with her feel useless, and sometimes even laughs at other men for "eating soft rice".
Therefore, in order to show that they are very attractive, most men will be attracted to girls who look weak. Because he found his own presence in those girls who looked weak.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with women being strong, after all, this is a "cannibalistic" society, but you must know that strength in the workplace should not be brought into feelings.
A woman with two faces, especially attractive to men, you who perform well at work, but show a little daughter attitude in front of him, which is undoubtedly a great emotional satisfaction for men, and is very capable of satisfying his sense of need.
So women, why not be soft and show your need for him, and you will find that he is more gentle and considerate to you.
Be appropriate to the man
A woman who will be spoiled will often get more pampering from men. And the truth is that most men can't stand women's pampering.
With men, as long as a woman is a little spoiled, she can let men buy and buy for her, not to mention "trapping" a man's heart.
A little girlishness will make men think you are cute, and it will also make men feel that it is a very happy thing to be needed.
It is said that "a spoiled girl has the best life", which is not an exaggeration at all to some extent, in fact, many things can be used to spoil the past, so why be so sober.
Praise him often
If a woman's self-confidence is 80 points, then a man's self-confidence is 99 points. The remaining point is the need for the affirmation of the people around him.
If a woman wants to "trap" a man's heart, she must always praise him.
Because most men have a blind self-confidence in their bones and feel that they are excellent, they are not allowed to be denigrate him.
And a woman who understands a man's mind is extremely important to him. How could such a woman not let him be moved?
Nothing more praise for him, when he's done well, reward him with a hug and a kiss, and you'll find that he'll become more in love with you than you think.
-04-
If you want to "trap" a man's heart, as long as you master enough routines, it is not a difficult task.
As long as you grasp the method well and know how to use his mind, then it is only a matter of time before you grasp his heart.
At the end of the day, every man has weaknesses in his heart, they have their own emotional needs, and only by deeply understanding men can they give him the love they want.
In fact, you only need to change the mode of thinking, look at the feelings from the perspective of a man, and understand what he wants.
Really, to manage a relationship, women must not be too naïve, thinking that paying can be exchanged for sincerity, the reality is that unreserved payment is often a woman's self-touch, which can only be ignored and disliked by men.
To put it bluntly, one of the most critical points in trapping men is: throw in their favor.