Love has a time limit, and when a person loves you, you do everything right, but when he no longer loves you, even breathing is wrong.
A man who no longer has feelings for you will no longer speak to you as politely as before, and even the words are full of indifference, and it is a cold feeling to be with him.
In fact, it's not that you don't understand that he has changed his mind, you just don't want to admit this fact, you don't want to be separated from him, you'd rather deceive yourself and think that he is only temporarily like this.
But some feelings change is change, your expectations will only make you more disappointed, if he no longer loves you, he will no longer be enthusiastic about you, and will not continue to be good to you.
At this time, don't lie to yourself anymore, but make yourself brave enough to accept reality, and the man talks to you like this, indicating that he has no feelings for you, stop the loss in time!
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He said perfunctory words to you
A person who loves you very much, he will be serious about you, whether it is talking to you or replying to your message, he is patient and meticulous, and does not want to be a little perfunctory.
But I don't know from what day, his attitude towards you changed, when you talk to him, he is no longer as enthusiastic as before, but with indifference, you send him a message, he will always use only "um" and "ah" instead, and there is no other word.
At first, you still think that he is busy, so you don't have time to chat with you, but slowly you find out that he is not busy, he just simply does not want to talk to you.
When he has no feelings for you, he will perfunctory to you, say some irresponsible things, and even ignore your attitude, at this time you will stop bothering him, there is no point.
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He is silent about you
Love will make people change, will make a person who does not like to talk into a "talkative", before you think he is very introverted, but after being together, you find out how he is a man who loves to talk, and even has some humor.
But if he changes from "talkative" to "silent", then you should understand that he has no love for you, and he will not want to talk anymore, and even feel that he has nothing to say with you.
In fact, two people together, where there are so many words to talk about, it is nothing more than some nonsense, but if a person has you in his heart, he will be willing to talk nonsense with you, and he is willing to listen to you talk about some parents.
If one day, he is silent to you, even if you say a word, he does not want to respond again, then persuade yourself to give up, there are some things that you can not control, so don't stop.
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He often says hurtful things
A relationship, the most feared is not to separate, but to end in an undignified way, which will make you feel that the relationship is not worth it.
Obviously, I was so in love with each other before, but when it came to separation, he often said something hurtful to you, even some words that you couldn't accept, and you didn't want to accept this fact, but that's how it appeared.
If a person often says something that hurts you, you should stop wronging yourself, let alone believe that he will change, some hurt is unforgivable, when those harsh words are too much, you will no longer have love for him.
If love exists in this way, there is no need for this, it is better for everyone to gather and disperse and end it with dignity.
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Conclusion
Whether a person loves you or not can be seen in the way he speaks to you.
If he still loves you, he will talk to you very seriously, he will not say words that hurt you, make you wronged, and will not be silent with you.
But once this person has no feelings for you, he will say something hurtful to you, even the attitude is perfunctory, and sometimes he will ignore you.
When you feel his unlove, don't force yourself to continue, leave a little dashingly, give yourself a fresh start, instead of being trapped in an unloved relationship and unable to get out, such love is meaningless!