Text: Brahman star heart language
(Focus on the Sun and the Rising Sign)
A vast sea of people, confidants are hard to find.
Life is enough to know oneself!
Everyone who takes a trip in the world wants to be accompanied by a confidant, because life is not easy, and everyone wants to be understood.
People will meet all kinds of people in their lives, but there are only a few who can become confidants.
Being able to become a confidant of others is also a valuable life gain, and by participating in the life process of others, you will have a clearer understanding of yourself.
A sincere heart is a necessary prerequisite for becoming a confidant of others, and Leo, like the other two fire signs, has this prerequisite.
But sincerity is only a necessary prerequisite for becoming a confidant, not a decisive condition.
If you want to become a confidant of others, you must not only be sincere, but also have the ability to empathize with others, share happiness and worry together.
Especially with regard to the latter, "sharing worries" is crucial, which is also lacking in many Leo friends, who lack patience and even less comforting people when facing others' unhappiness.
It's not that you're cold, on the contrary, Leo is very enthusiastic. It can be said that there are very few unsupportive Leos, and you are actually very willing to help others subjectively.
But your personality is easy to understand, and sometimes you use too direct language in the face of other people's emotional loss.
This also makes it difficult for your friends to treat you as a confidant, even if you are enthusiastic, you may have done bad things with good intentions.
Don't underestimate "comforting people", which will make a person have a good reputation and popularity, even if the person is not a frank person himself.
Leo is a sincere and frank sign, but often because it will not comfort people and can not gain more trust from others, which is actually very unfair to you.
Therefore, learning to comfort people is extremely meaningful for many Leos in life.
Comforting people is not only a language skill, but also a manifestation of character. Leo friends want to learn to comfort people, but they still have to try to change some of their personalities.
Break the habit of paying too much attention to yourself, and pay more attention to other people's thinking and hobbies.
The lion is a sign with a strong sense of self-identity, which is also your nature as a son of the sun, after all, the planets revolve around the sun. This not only makes leo you very confident, but also pays too much attention to yourself, and thus lacks attention to others.
Many times, you only have yourself in your eyes, and living in your own world is also a happy experience in your eyes.
You pay little attention to what others like and think, and you rarely pay attention to what others really care about, or even care too much about other people's feelings, but pay too much attention to your own feelings and experiences.
Therefore, even if you have become friends and lovers because of the same hobbies, interests, and values, it is difficult to really enter each other's hearts.
Leo is very expressive, especially the ascending Leo is more obvious at this point.
When others are in a depressed mood, you like to talk about the big truth endlessly, but in fact, the other party only wants to listen to comforting words at this time, even if in your opinion, some comforting words are more hypocritical.
Therefore, Xiao Fan has always felt that complaining should not look for Leo, because it is futile.
Of course, it is important for Leo to overcome his impatient personality.
Leo will prefer optimism when dealing with people, and you are also willing to enjoy happiness. And for negative emotions, you will be more resistant, either unwilling to listen, or impatient...
In fact, everyone will hate to deal with people with negative emotions, but Leo you will behave prominently, which is also your immature side, because mature people will moderately accept pessimism and negativity.
epilogue:
Leo is certainly not very good at being a listener, but you also have a valuable point, that is, your character is trustworthy.
Speak to Leo, at least don't worry about being used by them in the future, because Leo is pouring out his heart and lungs for his friends.
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