This is a letter written to his son by Liang Jizhang, a well-known host of Radio Television Hong Kong, which quickly circulated on major websites, and many people were deeply touched after reading it.
This letter is not only very inspiring for my son, it is also suitable for everyone! The number of words is small, which contains the father's perception of life and the infinite love for their children, which is very touching!
My son, write this memorandum to you, based on three principles:
First, life is blessed and uncertain, no one knows how long they can live, and some things are better said earlier.
I am your father, I will not tell you, no one will tell you.
Third, this memorandum records that I have experienced through tragic failures, which can save you a lot of wrongs for your growth.
Here are some things you should remember in your life:
1, people who are not good to you, you don't mind too much. No one in your life is obligated to be nice to you, except me and your mother. People who are good to you, you must cherish and be grateful.
2, no one is irreplaceable, nothing is necessary to have. Seeing through this, even if you lose everything you love most in the world, you should understand that this is not a big deal.
3, life is short, today may still be wasting life, tomorrow will find that life has been far away from you. Therefore, the sooner you cherish life, the more days you will enjoy it. Instead of hoping for a long life, it is better to enjoy it early.
4, love is just a feeling, and this feeling will change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let time slowly wash away, let the soul slowly precipitate, and your suffering will slowly fade. Don't overly dream of the beauty of love, don't exaggerate the sadness of lost love.
5, although many accomplished people have not received much education, but it does not mean that they can succeed without studying. What you learn is the weapon you have. People can start from scratch, but they can't be unarmed, remember!
6) I will not ask you to provide for the rest of my life, and I will not provide for the rest of your life. By the time you're old enough to be independent, my responsibilities are over. In the future, whether you take the bus or mercedes, eat shark fin or fans, you will be responsible for yourself.
7, you can ask yourself to be trustworthy, but you can't ask others to be trustworthy; you can ask yourself to be good to others, but you can't expect others to be good to you; how you treat people does not mean that others will treat you, if you can't see through this, it will only add unnecessary troubles to you.
8, I bought 26 years of lottery, or poor and white, not even the third prize has not been won, which proves that people to develop, or to work hard to be able to, there is no free lunch in the world.
9, relatives only once fate, no matter how long I and you will get along in this life, you must cherish the time together, the next life, whether we love or not, will not see each other again.
This letter is not only very inspiring for children, but also suitable for everyone! The number of words is small, which contains the parents' perception of life and the infinite love for their children. Very touching!