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Since the ancient disease is ruthless, Chen Ran, whose home is in Wuhan, was diagnosed with "chronic myeloid leukemia" in 2015, and after treatment in the hospital, Mr. Chen has been able to rely on drugs to maintain the stability of his condition.
Mr. Chen is married and has a two-year-old son, "Chen Ziqian", in addition to the burden of tens of thousands of yuan in drug expenses every year, Mr. Chen's family is also happy and harmonious.
But the change came suddenly, just two years after Mr. Chen's diagnosis, his four-year-old son was also diagnosed with leukemia, a family of two leukemia patients, the doctor benevolence, after learning about the situation of Mr. Chen's family, the doctor gave a last resort:
"It is recommended that children give up treatment, otherwise it will be difficult for both to survive."
Chen Ran's condition has been stabilized, the cure rate of the child is not as high as Chen Ran, and the practice of giving up the child is very cruel, but the child can still be wanted, if you give up Chen Ran, the family will not be able to maintain.
In addition to Chen Ran's four-year-old son, there were four old people above him waiting for him to support him.
As a father, how can Chen Ran bear to watch his son die of illness and live alone, he left a family letter to secretly leave.
One
This letter reads:
"Dear son, ten years from now you will be fourteen years old, and your father may no longer be there. Ten years later, you should have reached the age of junior high school, Dad does not require you to study how good, only wish you peace and security, hard work, only wish you a happy and happy life every day.
For all children who have suffered should be treated tenderly by this world. Dad's love for you is always unconditional, and if you see this letter for ten years, please don't laugh at Dad's childishness, because this is why Dad loves you too much. ”
Such a letter is full of Chen Ran's love for his son, as well as because of the helplessness of not being able to accompany his son to grow, once this letter was exposed, it aroused the attention of tens of thousands of netizens, everyone is looking for this father, and also reached out to the Chen Ran family.
Chen Ran's departure has no signs, since the son Ziqian fell ill, Chen Ran's family has a clear division of labor, the wife and grandmother are responsible for taking care of the children in the hospital, chen Ran and grandfather are responsible for making money and hospital fees.
On the day of the child's chemotherapy, the family was accompanied by the hospital, and the wife was taking care of her closely in the ward, because Ziqian was only four years old and had to be accompanied by her mother.
After Chen Ran left, his wife sent WeChat and called Chen Ran, chen Ran did not reply, he rarely replied to his wife, let alone revealed where he was.
Whenever the child's condition deteriorated, watching the child suffer from chemotherapy, the wife especially wanted Chen Ran, even if Chen Ran could not help, but with him, the spirit had a pillar, and the wife did not run so hard.
Although Chen Ran did not reply to the message, his wife still insisted on sending a message to Chen Ran to share the latest situation of her son, and a few days after Chen Ran left, her wife received a letter from Chen Ran.
In this letter, there is no thought of the wife, no worries about the children, the content of the letter is "divorce", Chen Ran said in the letter:
"Kiki, there are a thousand words when I lift the pen, but I don't know where to start." In the past few years, my son and I have been sick, and now my son has begun to maintain treatment, and my condition is more stable than before, so I have the idea of doing things.
Only your business is what I have been thinking about for a long time, and now I want to talk to you, I want to divorce you, I hope you can agree, because this family will only make you suffer, forgive me for not being able to accompany you to old age, I hope that in the future you will be a little more happy, a little less sad. ”
Chen Ran and his wife were married not long ago, now his wife is only 26 years old, very young, he has given up treatment, sooner or later he is no longer alive, he and his parents can not leave this situation, but his wife can leave this poor environment, can live a better life, this is why he insists on divorcing his wife.
Seeing this letter, the wife burst into tears, this is the situation she least wants to see, she is not afraid of illness, not afraid of poverty, what she is most afraid of is that her husband gives up the hope of life,
Faced with difficulties, the wife refused to divorce, she believed that the family should be together, and illness was not a reason to leave.
The husband left for more than three months, the wife finally saw her husband again with the help of others, where did Chen Ran go in these three months?
It turned out that after leaving home, Chen Ran came to Hengdian, where Chen Ran hid his serious illness, he did group performances in Hengdian, and the salary of group performances was unstable, at least 70 yuan per day, and at most more than two hundred.
When there was no drama, Chen Ran also did scene work and costume props.
Giving up treatment and going out to work is a long-planned thing for Chen Ran, this matter is only hidden from his wife, after arriving in Hengdian, Chen Ran reported his situation to his parents, and his parents also sent Chen Ran's clothes to him.
Every month Chen Ran will talk to his mother on the phone, by the way to understand the situation of his wife and son, on WeChat indifferent Chen Ran, in fact, has been secretly paying attention to his wife, he hopes that his wife will leave, but also afraid of his wife leaving.
Two
The child was first diagnosed with the disease in 2016, when his son was three years old and the first episode of the disease was a continuous rash.
At first, the family thought that the child was allergic and did not care, who knew that this rash had been on for a whole month, and did not subside with any medicine, and the wife felt that the situation was not right, and went to the hospital with the child with her grandmother.
At that time, Chen Ran did not realize that the child would have the same disease as himself, and on the day the child went to the hospital for examination, Chen Ran was still sleeping at home.
After returning home at noon, his wife showed Chen Ran her son's test form, and the test form was indeed wrong, but Chen Ran still held a bit of luck, and he comforted his wife: "Don't worry, it won't be leukemia." ”
In the afternoon, Chen Ran and his wife came to the hospital again with the child, and after the results of the hospital examination came out, the doctor suggested that the child be hospitalized, and it was best to transfer to the upper hospital for comprehensive treatment.
Chen Ran's family immediately went to the higher-level Union Hospital, and the moment they took the blood test sheet, Chen Ran's mood was extremely tense, and after seeing the test results, Chen Ran was happy.
The test sheet showed that everything was normal, Chen Ran happily shared the news with his family, just when everyone carefully studied the blood test list, they found that the check sheet was wrong and the name was wrong.
Chen Ran went back to get his son's blood test list, and as a result, Chen Ran's son was diagnosed with "acute lymphoblastic leukemia", and at the moment he knew the condition, Chen Ran and his grandmother were paralyzed on the ground, and the feeling of being helpless made Chen Ran very uncomfortable, but the child's illness could not be escaped, and he could only face it.
Chen Ran graduated from Hubei University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, he is a doctor, but in the face of his son's condition he can not do anything, this feeling of powerlessness makes Chen Ran can only give up his own treatment when the doctor suggests that he give up his son.
The doctor is out of the best solution for treatment, and Chen Ran is out of father's love.
After Chen Ran left home, his wife supported her son's treatment alone, needed to do four examinations a month, and also had to do a bone thrombosis and chemotherapy.
The wife is still a little girl's age, but under the illness of her husband and children, she alone carries the burden of the whole family and bears huge mental pressure every day.
The most collapsed thing for the wife is that the child does the waist piercing bone marrow puncture, Zi Qian is only four years old, when doing the waist piercing, the wife must also accompany him, a huge steel needle, it will be hard to plunge into the child's bone slit, such pain even adults can not bear, let alone a four-year-old child.
The first time when she did the waist wear, Zi Qian cried while struggling, and the mother's heart was broken, because the child did not cooperate, the waist wear was done four times without success, until the fifth time, she said to the child: "You don't move randomly, if you move randomly, you have to prick a few more stitches." ”
The four-year-old child understood his mother's words, and under the severe pain, he could not hold on, and finally succeeded.
Before each waist wear, the wife has to say to her son: "You have to be strong, don't move, we try to succeed in one shot, and finally suffer a little less." ”
The four-year-old was still playing, but he understood his mother's words, and he nodded.
Since then, every time he made a waist wear, he cried his heart and lungs, but his body did not dare to move at all, and with his cooperation, the waist wear could be successful once.
Hearing the child's heart-rending crying, the wife always secretly wiped tears behind her back, and the child's grandfather secretly said to Ziqian after knowing: "Baby, you can't cry when you wear a waist, you have to behave better, okay?" ”
But Ziqian said to his grandfather, "My mother said I could cry, but I couldn't move." ”
The medical staff present heard the child's words, they could not help wiping tears, this four-year-old boy, soaking in the medicine jar every day, either injection or medicine, he was very cooperative throughout the whole process, every time after the injection will also say to the medical staff "hard", such a sensible child, but to suffer so much.
In the process of treatment, Kiki did not give up the child's education, she will teach the child to memorize ancient poems in the free time after the treatment, the child has not yet gone to school, but she will already carry a hundred ancient poems, and Ziqian often recites the ancient poems to the doctors in the hospital.
Three
The doctors in the hospital all knew about chen ran's father and son's leukemia, and they published chen ran's family's story on the Internet, and many people on the internet reached out to Ziqian, who was in charge of the sensible, and gave their love.
In addition to the enthusiastic netizens on the Internet, there are many people who personally send their own love offline.
A 70-year-old grandfather from Shanghai, after learning the story of Ziqian, came to the local area by train alone, and he found the residence of the Ziqian family through the local TV station.
This old grandfather was older than Zi Qian's grandfather, and after coming to Zi Qian's house, he took out 5,000 yuan to give to Zi Qian, when Chen Ran had already left home, and it was Chen Ran's father who received the old man.
The clothes and pants on the grandfather's body were torn, and it could be seen that his own conditions were not good, but he still ran so far in the car alone and sent 5,000 yuan.
In order to save money, so far away, he is not even willing to buy himself a high-speed rail ticket, 5,000 yuan is not much, but for an old man of such an old age, it is difficult to earn 5,000 yuan.
After giving the money, the old man turned to leave, Chen Ran's father sent him all the way to the railway station, he wanted to buy a high-speed rail ticket for the old man to go back, but the old man strongly refused, he was unwilling to disclose his name, nor did he want to disclose his address.
Chen Ran's father stopped the old man and said, "Today I won't let you go if you don't tell me what your name is, even if you don't tell me your name, you must tell me your phone number, so that I know that you are safely home." ”
Blocked by Chen Ran's father, he left his phone and told him that his surname was Gu and that he lived on the outskirts of Shanghai.
Another person who reached out to help was Grandma Jin in Wuhan, who not only donated money to help herself, but also united with the "sister group" around her to organize more than 40 old women to help them together.
Grandma Jin also went to the hospital with six grandmothers as representatives to visit Ziqian, and when they came to the hospital again, they prepared an envelope containing 5200 yuan and gave it to XiaoZiqian.
Before leaving, Chen Ran's father asked Grandma Jin, "Can you write down your names and let us know who helped us?" Grandma Jin handed over a piece of paper with the names of more than 40 grandmothers densely written on it.
Finally, with the help of patients, Chen Ran's father and these kind grandmothers left the last group photo in the hospital.
A big sister Gan who was also in Xiantao, after learning about the Chen Ran family, Gan Sister took her girlfriend to Chen Ran's house twice and donated 42,000 yuan to the Chen Ran family.
There is also a "milk powder brother" is also continuing to help their family, Xiao Ziqian is only four years old because of illness can not eat much, drink milk powder must also be special, this big brother is specialized in selling this milk powder, after learning about the situation of Xiao Ziqian, this milk powder brother contracted all the milk powder of Xiao Ziqian.
Not only that, he also arranged a job for Ziqian's grandfather, and he said to Ziqian's grandfather: "We must face everything happily together." ”
With the help of many well-wishers, Chen Ran also returned to his family, and when it came to the reason for leaving, Chen Ran said:
"The child has the help of well-meaning people, has a chance to live, I don't want to just stay at home, I also want to go out and make some money, and it is not good to trouble others anymore." 」
Well-meaning people persuaded Chen Ran:
"Your current efforts are not how much money you make, the important thing is that you have to give your wife a support, you have to give this family a main bone, you have to return to the position of the main heart bone." 」
Under the persuasion of well-meaning people, Chen Ran returned home, and the well-wishers around him helped Chen Ran organize a love donation, and we believe that with the help of everyone, Chen Ran's family will be able to get out of the predicament as soon as possible.
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