Mom and Dad may have given their babies 100 nicknames: honey, be careful with liver, good baby, stinky fart, fat mound...
I don't know when the baby added a new one to his nickname: unhappy.
Is it good to eat apples? No!
Is it good to read? No!
Is it okay to hang out? No!
Is Mom hugging? Don't, don't!
Babies will lose their tempers, play small, cry for no reason, and suddenly they will be very, very unhappy.
After the baby is one and a half years old, the growth has entered a new stage, and various abilities have been improved by leaps and bounds.
The baby is a small person who can walk, run, speak, and use his brain, and at the same time has some small temper, no longer the obedient little baby, is Mom and Dad mixed?
If the above situation occurs, it means that your baby should have entered the "first resistance period".
What is the "First Rebellion Period"?
Psychologists have found that children will have several periods of particular rebellion in the process of growing up, and 1 and a half to 2 years old is the first, so this period of resistance is also known as the baby's "first resistance period".
In the baby's "first resistance period", the baby begins to be assertive, but the temper is very large.
When you don't meet your baby's requirements, he will use the trick of crying.
Babies are born to use this "weapon" to express and meet their own requirements, but as they get older, they will slowly learn to express themselves through language and learn to wait.
If adults often compromise when the baby is crying, the baby will use the method of crying more. How can such a small baby slowly train him not to express his needs through crying? Here are three methods worth trying.
First, take your baby to learn self-control
Many times, your baby's stubbornness and crying can ignite anger in your heart and make you lose patience.
At times like these, it is crucial for parents to remain calm.
In the face of the baby's screams and non-cooperation, you must understand that as an adult, you are using practical actions to show the baby how to control his emotions.
Because when your baby doesn't know how to do it, he will follow your example.
If the family is a photocopier and you are the original, then the baby is the copy, and your advantages and disadvantages the baby will learn.
If you lose your temper with your baby regularly, he will most likely learn to respond to you that way, so this is a great educational opportunity.
You can talk to yourself internally first, and keep telling yourself: I am a role model for my baby, and I must calm myself down first.
Then, in a firm and calm tone, say to the child, "Baby should use his mouth to say oh, crying is useless!"
If your baby doesn't know how to say it, you can help guide him through it.
You can also say something like, "I know you're upset, so when you stop crying, come back and talk to Mom and Dad!"
Second, let your baby try "calm moments"
It's also a great way to have your baby try "calm moments".
When your baby explodes because of unsatisfactory emotions, give him a little time.
Guide your baby to pause everything and let his emotions slowly calm down.
You can set up a "cool corner" at home and take your baby to this corner.
But this "cooling corner" is not a punishment for him, but a place where he can slowly calm down.
You can accompany him and gently but firmly tell him why he needs to calm down and how to calm down emotionally.
Third, read your baby's thoughts carefully and teach communication
Some babies may speak a little later, and they lose their temper because the adult doesn't understand him and the child can't say what he wants.
At this time, parents not only teach the baby to talk, but also need to help the baby how to communicate.
Teaching your baby to express their needs with gestures is a more effective way.
For example, eating, drinking, sleeping, etc., you can guide your baby to communicate through gestures.
Mom and Dad can also invent their own sign language, or other alternative words, as long as you and your baby can understand each other's meaning.
In addition, when the baby can make a single sound, parents must also learn to understand the baby's meaning.
For example, a baby may use "p" to represent grapes, say biscuits as "b", and so on.
You can also make the baby's usual food, play toys into a photo book, when the baby wants something, with a finger to the photo, at this time, you repeat the name of the item, to strengthen the baby, strengthen the baby's learning understanding.
Don't worry too much, these substitutions will affect your baby's normal language development.
On the contrary, the appropriate use of some substitutions can allow the baby who opens late to better express his needs, which can effectively reduce the baby's emotional anxiety.
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