Dostoniewski once said:
"The second half of a person's life is made up of habits, and his habits are developed in the first half of his life."
When we have a certain understanding of ourselves, we will know that the reason why some people give people a more cold and cold-blooded feeling is because they have such a tendency in the process of growing up as children.
Perhaps they will change themselves to a certain extent in the environment of their growth, but the natural, acquired personality is difficult to completely change.
This is also why there are always some people who seem gentle and elegant on the surface, very affinity, but in their bones they are rational to the extreme, and even often give people a very cold-blooded and cold feeling.
Once they are hurt in some important matter, aware of the other person's harm to themselves, and after the heart is cold, it is difficult to be warmed.
Perhaps, it is precisely because they maintain their own habit of principles and opinions on many things, so that once such a similar thing happens, they will avoid encountering these things again in order to defend themselves, and then quickly cut through the mess and deal with it very cold-bloodedly.
With such a constellation, we can say that there is a Capricorn.
You will find that Capricorns of the earth sign actually show an indifferent attitude towards many things, at least they often give people a conservative, traditional and restrained feeling.
It is precisely because of this nature that in the eyes of many people, Capricorn is somewhat affinity, giving people a feeling of gentleness and elegance, they have many ideas, but they like to show a very restrained appearance.
Even if their hearts turn over, they will not easily show their minds, and the more critical the moment, the more they will continue to create their own opportunities, rarely waste their time.
Similarly, we will also find that Capricorns like to take things into their own hands and have a very strong sense of responsibility for many things.
Therefore, Capricorn lives very tired, and it is not unreasonable.
High-intensity work and a strong sense of responsibility make Capricorns particularly determined to do whatever choices they make or what level they need to achieve from life.
And in the whole process, Capricorn's attitude is very rigorous, cautious, they are afraid to choose to escape because of problems, just as they always feel that such a life will not make themselves better, but will fall into a larger whirlpool of life.
With such a perception, Capricorn needs to make itself understand that sometimes it is not a bad thing to have a strong desire for control.
Because then, you can really maintain your concentration and really live your life in the way you like.
Obviously, such a life may well be painful and lonely at the beginning, but doesn't Capricorn's strength come from such struggles and struggles?
And in order to create their own wonderful life, Capricorn retains his own thinking and opinion on everything, and maintains his own principles and ideas for everything.
It's like once they have been hurt by others, or they have been hurt in principle, they have been used, so that Capricorn can see the character of the other person.
Then, in such a case, once Capricorn is cold, it is no longer covered, and naturally the attitude towards the other party has changed dramatically, and it can even be said that the relationship between them is like that.
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