Dear Teacher Yu Ge, dear family, hello everyone! The topics I'm sharing with you today are:
How do women resist the pressure exerted on them by the external environment?
The choice of this theme to share stems from my busy and intense life in the last six months, especially this recent week.
During this time, my child's father was on a business trip, and the nanny was temporarily absent because of a family affair, so I was busy with one thing after another.
I am especially envious of those sisters who have the elderly to help take care of them, and they can walk away or go out to study and train, and they can completely put it down without any worries. As an entrepreneurial woman, if you want to do a career, you really have to learn to resist the various pressures exerted by the external environment.
I summed it up, I think we women have two ways to resist external pressure must be good, the first way is that you do not give up self-growth, because only the more sufficient your own connotation, the more confident, the stronger the resistance to external energy will be.
In recent years, under the influence of Teacher Yu Ge and Xue'er, I also insisted on getting up early and reading a lot, and it was precisely with the U disk thinking that I had accumulated precipitation day by day, and I had the stock in my brain, and I had the courage and output.
Through reading and learning, I do every day to read the content to do a good job of internalizing the public account creation, I have been rooted in the marriage and family lawyer industry for more than ten years, these two years have been precipitated to learn a large number of courses on psychology and family education, and have successively obtained the qualifications of psychological counselors and family education instructors, I am now slowly doing derivative work of this section, for example, doing emotional counseling, doing parent-child education guidance.
In addition, thanks to the exercise in Yu Ge's speech, my speech ability has been greatly improved, I have learned to run salons, and I have the courage to participate in speech competitions on various occasions. In the 2019 Fan Deng Reading and Speaking Book Contest, I won the first place, that is to say, I expanded my influence through speeches, and in the case of the economic downturn of epidemic prevention and control, I have not been in a hurry to do my own business, while enriching myself, I am becoming more and more confident.
All said, every woman has a little girl in her heart, and I am no exception. I also love beauty, in the crowd of our Yu Ge speeches, like Quanzhou A Feng, Xiamen Huang Yin, they are very accomplished in wearing this piece, I will follow them to learn to dress up, every day to get beautiful. At the same time, I also insist on exercising, going for running when I have time, doing yoga, physical training...
It was precisely because I was working hard to cultivate inward and outside my heart that I slowly blossomed from the original state of hiding and tucking. So even though the daily chores from the family are tedious and the negative energy from the work is bursting, I can still release myself from these pressures.
Of course, that's the second point I'll share next, and what matches the first point is that we women have to resist the pressure of the external environment and learn to find the support system around us. For example, we women can form more sisterhood, of course, how much energy you have, how high the energy of your sisterhood is; and your like-minded friends around you, recognizing your relatives, etc., they are very important to your help.
In other words, in addition to becoming strong ourselves, we also need to learn how to use the resources around us to change our own lives.
You have to resist all the pressure from the outside, you rely on you alone is actually very difficult, if you can use the resources outside, take the initiative to communicate with many people, seek help, your problem is easier to solve. Don't always carry it alone, learn to use resources and use the support system around you.
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Humility and mutual appreciation are the best state of marriage. As Mei Lingxue said, my job responsibilities are very great, I can help more people run a good family, of course, to help others to reach themselves, the first thing that benefits me the most is myself.
At the second session of the Yu Ge Speech China Speech Festival, I shared for 18 minutes, the theme was: Run forward, don't stop, go chase your blooming life. Here today, I still want to say that although we have many difficulties and adversities on the road to pursuing our dreams, we must continue to grow, resist the pressure of the external environment, find the support system around us, and live a hot life.