From the mainland's policy at the present stage, we can know that it has begun to attach importance to fertility, and from the two-child policy to the three-child policy, it has always been improved and has been changing.
However, childbearing is an afterthought, before giving birth needs to be married, and before marriage needs to be "mate-choosing", if even the "mate-choice" barrier has not passed, then how to talk about getting married and having children? It is impossible to talk about the second and third children, and it is useless to improve the policy.
Let's talk about it, today's women's "mate selection" standards, appearance has long been not the most important, and thinking has long changed.
Nowadays, the standard of women's "mate selection" is not the only one
Responsible and responsible
You know, in the "mate selection" of girls' requirements for boys is always changing, and each change represents the arrival of an era.
Like in the past, girls attached great importance to the appearance of boys, and did not look at others, as long as they were handsome.
But now it is different, today's girls pay more attention to the sense of responsibility of boys, after all, with a sense of responsibility, there will be a future, and there will be a future family.
"Appearance" is nothing more than a vase, and no matter how good the appearance is, it is useless.
Body is more important than appearance
Boys with good looks may not have a figure, but boys with a figure will certainly not be bad in appearance.
You know, if you want to have a good body, you must have a strong self-discipline, a self-disciplined person is very scary, and when boys can have self-discipline, the future is very promising.
Studies have shown that compared with those boys with high appearance, the figure is more critical.
Therefore, we can see that when girls seek their other half, they pay more attention to body shape rather than appearance.
Character is the key to future happiness
Does appearance matter? Appearance can only be said to be average, appearance can not determine the happiness of a family, nor can it bear the burden of a family, so to say, the current girls regard the appearance as particularly light, and begin to pay attention to the character of boys.
The boy's personality will increase the fun in life, but also increase the sense of happiness, so reasonable, cheerful personality will make a family more happy and sweet.
The bride price is the starting point for future life
"Bride price" is a topic that cannot be avoided, although some girls say that they do not need a bride price, but the problem of bride price has always appeared in life.
Appearance is simply worthless compared to the bride price, but there is a reason why girls want a bride price, after all, money is needed everywhere after marriage, and the bride price is the starting point of future life and is the start-up capital.
However, here we should remind that the bride price is not too much, depending on the situation of the man, otherwise it will become each other's pressure.
The "mate selection" criterion is taught by parents
What kind of "mate selection" standard a girl has, in fact, it is all taught by parents, when she is a child, she passes on the correct three views to the child, so that the child has the correct concept of love, so when she grows up, she will not be blind, nor will she be impulsive, everything is based on the family and decided.
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Nowadays, women's "mate selection" standards, appearance has long been not the first, and even has fallen out of the girls' "mate selection" standards, after all, the appearance can not be eaten as a meal, nor will life become happy, down-to-earth, step by step, is the most critical, but also the basic of making a family happy.