Text/Flying Fish
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Sanmao said: "Knowing that friendship is the norm of life, and being able to speak occasionally, while still being gentle in heart, is a good friend." ”
I often think of some of my classmates and friends in the past, how much I talked to myself, and how much fun I had at that time, always eating together and hanging out together.
Later, after we all came out of society, we found that the more we grew up, the lonelier we became. Many friends who used to play well have their own circles due to time and distance, and gradually, we have lost contact, and our feelings will slowly fade.
After starting a family, my husband often told me that you should know that only your partner cares about you the most now.
Because when they become a family, some friends around them will occasionally come out to go shopping together, but they will only make an appointment when they want to make an appointment, and people after becoming a family must take care of their families.
Sometimes when I am very free, I want to ask them out, but they often have their own things, or they have already asked someone else out, or they choose to rest at home because they don't want to come out.
So, sometimes think about what mr. said, and you're right. Life is like a passer-by, it is to go, it is to stay, everything must follow fate.
We can't force other people's ideas, because everyone has their own rhythm and life, there are their own circles, when we can get together, we are happy, when we can't get together, don't be grumpy, after all, to complete others, but also to complete themselves.
No one can accompany you through the whole of life, including your partner, maybe the other party will leave earlier than you one day, or maybe you will go before him one day.
And life meets one, accompanied by a journey, are fate, don't tangle too much, know how to cherish the moment, go with the flow, everything is fine.
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Life is a lifetime, but decades, we can meet anyone in this life, are lucky, a little more with fate, a little less can not let go, learn to let go, in order to be able to feel the happiness of the long-lost when the next reunion.
Life is actually a process, in this process, we will always continue to meet, will continue to separate, gather and disperse with fate, gain and loss, because every encounter is destined.
Gu Manzhen and Shen Shijun in "Half Life", the two people met in the bus, thinking that they were strangers, but they were destined to have a bad fate.
Gu Manzhen and Shen Shijun admired each other, understood each other, and soon fell in love with each other, but they did not think of Providence, and how regrettable it was that two people who loved each other could not be together.
Sometimes, due to people's demons, the more things they don't get, the more they want to get. For feelings, the same is true.
In fact, during the years when Gu Manzhen was imprisoned by his sister, he still tried his best to contact Shen Shijun, but it always backfired.
After Shen Shijun lost contact with Gu Manzhen, he also tried to come back to her several times, but he did not expect to be told by his sister that she was married, calling him dead hearted.
Shen Shijun returned to his hometown, and at the urging of his family, he helplessly married.
After marriage, they always lived in each other's hearts, and Shen Shijun often secretly opened the letters left to him by Gu Manzhen before, and while watching, he shed tears and felt sorry.
After Gu Manzhen took it out, he thought of going to him, but he did not think that he had already started a family.
Life is sometimes like this, two people who love each other, but can not be together, the heart is always difficult to reconcile, helpless, can only silently bless each other.
Many years later, the two people reunited, and the person was middle-aged and couldn't help himself. Only later, we can't go back to the past.
Red dust rolls, the world is vast, there is always such a person in our lives, leaving us with unforgettable love and memories.
Failed to come together, in the end is not enough fate, the other party is to go, is to stay, can only follow the fate.
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Ancient clouds: the sky can be replenished, the sea can be filled, the South Mountain can be moved, the sun and the moon are in the past, and cannot be pursued.
Life is a passerby, why a thousand knots. In fact, at each stage of our life, we will encounter different things, some people leave, some people come over. Life is a process of continuous gathering and dispersion, and only by learning to look down on it can we reduce suffering.
Parents will grow old and leave, friends will have their own lives, brothers and sisters will have their own families to run, life is hurried, get together and part, come and go, only with fate.
In this life, to be a person who can see openly, should let go, should forget, do not insist, go with fate, let go of obsession, let go of the unbearable, learn to let go, for those who stay, we must cherish well, treat well, for those who have gone far, we can only choose to let go.
In life, many people are like this, walking and walking, they are scattered, disappear into the sea of people, and turn around is a lifetime.
There is no perfection in things, life is difficult since ancient times, cold and warm are the norm, regret is always more than consummation, we must also accept it calmly.
Life is a guest, some people come, some people go, not under human control, can only silently follow the fate, just look away.
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