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Good girls deserve the love of men, and those who do not know self-esteem and self-love, play with the feelings of others, will eventually ruin themselves, green tea women are so, green tea women are difficult to survive in the same sex, because she can not get the respect and recognition of the same sex, in the eyes of the same sex, girls like her, the face is a simple look, but the heart is very vicious, in order to achieve their own goals, unscrupulous, who will want to be friends with her?
Green tea women look very pitiful on the outside, but they are very cruel, taking other people's feelings as a child's play, stepping on the dignity of others, if they find that they have no way to retreat, they want to find an honest man to take over, in their opinion, honest men are stupid, they are deeply in love with themselves, they are coaxed around by themselves, and they will not mind raising children for other men, but this is just their wishful thinking, if honest men learn the truth of the matter, will they really be willing to marry such a green tea woman as a wife? The answer should be no.
Whether it is an honest person or a smart person, they have their own requirements for the other half, and it is impossible to have their own bottom line, so it is impossible for the green tea woman to achieve her wishes.
01. Reject the pursuit of honest men
Li Ying is a typical green tea woman, she wants to marry a rich man, but she is not willing to expose her nature of worshiping gold, she looks like a pitiful look, can arouse men's desire to protect, arouse the sympathy of others, she relies on this advantage to bring herself a lot of convenience.
Sun Liang is Li Ying's suitor, he is an honest man, li ying is also dead hearted, although the family is not rich, but still willing to buy gifts for Li Ying, but Li Ying does not look down on the things he bought, on the surface but pretends to be very touched, but behind the scenes, he threw those gifts directly into the trash can.
Once, Sun Liang plucked up the courage to confess to Li Ying and wanted to get her heart.
"Li Ying, I have liked you for a long time, I know you are very good, I do not deserve you, but if you are willing to be with me, I will definitely cherish you and will not let you regret choosing me."
"Sun Liang, I know you're a good person, but I don't have any plans to fall in love at the moment, don't you want to force me to be okay?"
After rejecting Sun Liang's pursuit, Li Ying told the people in the dormitory as a joke and ridiculed Sun Liang.
"You know what? That Sun Liang actually confessed to me, looking at his poor and sour appearance, how could I agree to be with him? What a joke. ”
02. Treat feelings as a child's play
After graduating from college, Li Ying began to let go of herself, she mixed among the rich people, wanted to marry into the rich as soon as possible, and the rich people liked her type of girl, so she easily got what she wanted.
Li Ying is a clerk in a company, and the male colleagues in the company are also pursuing her, but she is mostly dismissive of those suitors, feeling that they are not worthy of themselves at all, but on the surface they are not willing to refuse, such a man is a spare tire for her, she feels that raising more spare tires is not harmful to herself, at least in the future, she can find someone to take over for herself.
Later, Li Ying established a relationship with a rich second generation of rich people, and the two people quickly lived together, but this relationship did not last long, she was dumped, and found herself pregnant, at that time her heart was very panicked, and she was tired of playing, she wanted to find a father for the child in her belly, so she took the initiative to contact all the opposite sex friends around her, but those opposite sex friends were either married or directly refused to be with her, which made Li Ying very annoyed.
03. Find an honest man to take over
Just when Li Ying didn't know what to do, she remembered the honest man Sun Liang, if it weren't for this incident, she wouldn't have remembered Sun Liang at all.
Li Ying took the initiative to make a phone call to Sun Liang, but she hid her pregnancy, she wanted to wait until after marriage to tell Sun Liang about this matter, when the two people have been licensed to marry, forgive him and dare not mention divorce to himself.
However, Sun Liang was on a business trip in the field at the time, saying that he would talk about marriage when he returned, and Li Ying felt that there was a drama in this matter, so she was full of joy at home waiting for Sun Liang to return.
Sun Liang came back from a business trip and went directly to Find Li Ying, but he did not talk to her about marriage.
Li Ying saw that Sun Liang came to find her, her heart was very happy, after playing tired, the green tea woman Li Ying proposed to the honest man Sun Liang, and the result was intimidated.
"I've prepared a garage, so you're going to have a big belly?"
Upon hearing what Sun Liang said, Li Ying immediately panicked.
"How do you know I'm pregnant?"
"Do you think this kind of thing can be hidden?" You are not looking for all the friends of the opposite sex around you, you want to find someone to marry, this matter has long been spread, a woman like you, has long been infamous, why should I marry you? ”
"Then what do you mean by coming to me today?"
"I just want to tell you that I'm an honest man, but I can't take over for you, you died this heart, when I loved you, you were dismissive of my feelings, and laughed at me with your roommates, do you think I don't know all this?" 」
"I didn't have enough fun and didn't want to be with you, but now I really want to marry you and live a peaceful life with you."
"My conditions are not good, but I am not so stupid, once you thought I did not deserve you, but now you deserve me?" Even if I don't help, I won't raise children for others. ”
"If I'm willing to beat up the child, will you marry me?"
"In fact, it is not the reason for the child, mainly I don't think you deserve my love, if you are hurt by other men, I am naturally willing to take care of you and the child, but you are not a good girl, hard to destroy yourself, why should I spend the rest of my life with a woman like you?" 」
"There are so many girls like me in the world, are you ready to be single for the rest of your life?"
"Rest assured, I will find a good girl and live this life hand in hand with her, as for you, you are a guest in my life, and I will never be affected by you again." 」
After Sun Liang left, Li Ying sat on the ground and cried, she did not expect that an honest man like Sun Liang was not willing to marry himself, so what should she do in the future? Is it necessary to raise this child alone? But a single mother is not easy, can not give the child a good life, Li Ying feels a little desperate, so she told her parents about this matter, parents learned about it and were angry, felt that she did not know self-esteem and self-love, resolutely let her beat the child off, otherwise she will be dragged down by this child.
Li Ying struggled in her heart for a long time, or obeyed her parents' arrangement, took away the child in her belly, and later she left the city, feeling that there was no place for her in the city, so she left everything that had been and stayed away from this place.
The reason why a girl will become a green tea girl has a lot to do with her native family, it may be because the original family does not get enough love, so when she grows up, she will become unscrupulous, as long as she can achieve her own goals, she does not care about anything, but such behavior will cause great harm to others, the pursuit of what she wants is right, but in the process of hurting others, it should not be.
Whether it is a man or a woman, it should be far away from green tea, girls and green tea women to be friends, there is no benefit to themselves, and men marry a green tea woman as a wife, it is impossible to live a good life, green tea women in the bones of the utilitarianism is too strong, there is no good for themselves, is determined not to do, with such people to be friends or live together, only bad, there is no benefit.
Both men and women should have the ability to distinguish, be able to recognize which girls are green tea, and then stay away from them, so as not to cause trouble to themselves.
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