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True love has always been unattainable, and many people have never met a soul similar to themselves in their lifetime, even if they are in love or married, they are still inseparable. They don't understand each other, and they don't have much common language, just to take on a sense of responsibility and make it up.
Such feelings cannot be said to be bad, after all, everyone has their own pursuits and lifestyles. But true love can make people feel more happiness and make people no longer lonely in their hearts.
Just want to meet true love, it has always been difficult, if you are in love, not sure if the other party really loves you, just break the connection once to be clear.
If two people do not meet for a while, then when they are reunited for a long time, there must be some kind of impulse, and these impulses are the most direct proof of loving someone.
One: Can't help but give you a hug and hold you firmly in your arms
As the saying goes: a little bit is better than a new marriage.
This is not unreasonable, many lovers or couples who have been separated for a long time will not be able to help but give each other a big hug when they are reunited for a long time to express their lovesickness in the bone.
From a certain point of view, loving someone is actually missing someone, even if you are with each other all the time, you will still feel missed, let alone a long time apart?
On the contrary, if a person has not seen you for a long time, and when they reunite again, there is still no wave in their hearts, then it can be seen that his feelings for you have quietly changed. Only in the face of an irrelevant person can you be so calm, because the existence of the other party no longer allows yourself to produce any emotional value.
So if you want to judge whether a person thinks of you as true love, you only need to look at his performance when they are reunited for a long time.
If he is excited in his heart and can't help but want to hug you and be close to you, it can be seen that in the days of separation, he thinks about you day and night, and he can't stop feeling. Otherwise, it only means that his love for you is not so strong, or even no longer love.
Two: There is an unreal feeling of gain and loss, and I am afraid of being separated from you again
Miyazaki once said: You never know who inadvertently said goodbye to you once, and really never see you again.
Every goodbye is like an adventure for people in love, and even more so for people who have experienced separation, who are not willing to take the slightest risk of losing you. Therefore, once people who think day and night meet, they will be like conjoined babies, sticking together all the time, and they don't want to be separated for a minute or a second.
People who have truly experienced the pain of parting will not be willing to suffer like this again. They will definitely try their best to avoid the next separation.
Some separations are unavoidable, and they will agree on some ways to alleviate their thoughts, such as video every day, how often to meet each other, etc.; and some separations can be solved, such as job transfers and the like, like this can be solved, and the people who love each other will try their best to solve it.
No couple can endure a long-term long-distance relationship, endure the thought of not being able to hug.
If a person says he loves you and meets with him, but he doesn't do anything to change the status quo, then he may not love you that much, or he loves himself more than he loves you.
When there is a problem in love, do not want to deal with the problem, just blindly escape, let two people continue to endure the pain of separating the two places, such love is too narrow, but also too selfish.
Love has the power to cross mountains and seas, and the person who really loves you, thousands of mountains and rivers, he will appear in front of you. Even if you can't meet right now, he will agree to meet you again in the near future.
Love does not make a person wait for a long time, nor is it willing to be separated from him again.
Zhang Jiajia said that there is a parting and a reunion in this world. Parting moments happen, but the person you are with is like the flowers that bloomed last year, and this year is no longer the one.
There is no room for so many separations in love, and perhaps after a certain separation, the person will never appear again. You must firmly grasp your lover, don't be trapped in the thoughts of day and night, be brave, be decisive, and if you love him, do your best to go to him.
Believe that as you try to walk toward Him, the man who loves you is striding toward you.
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