Wen | Wu Qingqian
In the TV series "In the World", Zhou Nan's attitude towards Luo Shibin is completely different from Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun, who have an antipathic attitude, while Zhou Nan is willing to communicate with Luo Shibin, thinking that Luo Shibin is a good person, if it were not for Zhou Bingkun saying a place of affection for Zheng Juan before moving, perhaps Zhou Nan would have run away with his biological father Luo Shibin.
Under the suggestion of Shui Ziliu, Luo Shibin returned to Jichun to find Zhou Nan after handling the selection of the director of the silk drawing factory, which was the first time the two met in the true sense. When Zhou Nan was born that year, although Luo Shibin was also in the hospital, but Zhou Nan at that time had no memory at all, and although Luo Shibin returned to Jichun and secretly saw or happened to meet Zhou Nan from a distance, Zhou Nan did not know that Luo Shibin was paying attention to him, until the water flow told him that he was alive, he did not know that there was a person named Luo Shibin in this world. This meeting between father and son in the true sense is the first time that Zhou Nan has faced Luo Shibin, and he has memories and impressions.
Luo Shibin always believed that if he was a poor egg Zhou Nan would not recognize him as a father, it was with this idea that he founded the Luo Group and wanted to give his son a business empire. After meeting with Zhou Nan, he did not forget to show his magnanimity and take Zhou Nan to eat expensive Western food. Zhou Nan, who has been living an ordinary life, has never been to such a place, and should never have eaten such expensive Western food, before he knew from Shui Ziliu that his father was very rich, but how rich he could not imagine. After having a meal with Luo Shibin, I can more or less outline what is rich.
Luo Shibin, who appeared in front of him, looked like a successful person, dressed in leather shoes, polite and polite, and quite knowledgeable and wise in his conversation, Zhou Nan could not associate the person in front of him with Luo Shibin, who raped his mother Zheng Juan. Luo Shibin told him that it was better to read thousands of books than to walk thousands of miles, hoping that he could study abroad, see the world outside China, experience different cultures, and become a pillar of material in the future. These are very reasonable, studying abroad, becoming a pillar of material is also Zhou Nan's thoughts, Zhou Nan is not in a hurry to go home, just want to stay with his biological father, even if it is very late, and then do not go back to his mother will worry.
This time when he met Zhou Nan at least did not think that his biological father was a bad person, after returning home, he also asked Zheng Juan why he could not communicate with Luo Shibin, and Zheng Juan told him that Luo Shibin did not only want to associate with him, but wanted him to give him Luo Shibin as a son. Zhou Nan understood that his mother always only recognized him as her and Zhou Bingkun's son, and if he interacted with Luo Shibin again, his mother would be disappointed and angry with him. When Luo Shibin came to him again, he deliberately ignored him, saying that his mother would not let him associate with him, he listened to his mother, and his mother listened to his father. Luo Shibin could only leave helplessly, but he was not lost, because he obviously felt that Zhou Nan liked him, but he was limited by Zheng Juan's dislike for him and did not dare to associate with him.
At the first meeting, Luo Shibin gave Zhou Nan a really good impression, and felt that this biological father was more prominent than his adoptive father. So at the family meeting held before moving back from his new home to the old house, Zhou Bingkun asked Zhou Nan - when I let you down, Zhou Nan did not speak, Zheng Juan poked him with her hand to let him say something nice and did not express his attitude, and said angrily, "Mom, what are you doing?"
Zhou Nan's silence made Zhou Bingkun very angry, and Zhou Nan did not answer Obviously, the answer is self-evident. Zhou Bingkun realized that if he did not do Zhou Nan's ideological work well, this boy would soon abandon his poor father and go to find a rich father, so he called outside the house to force Zhou Nan to answer, and Zhou Nan thought about it before spitting out a sentence, "Of course, this place is stronger than the old house." ”
Zhou Bingkun said--Your father is better than here, a hundred times better than a thousand times. You are fifteen years old, not small, and you must set a good example for your younger brothers and sisters, because you were born to my daughter-in-law, you were raised by my daughter-in-law, you are my daughter-in-law's life, and I will not allow anyone to hurt my daughter-in-law, including you Zhou Nan. I didn't tell you a lot of things about your mother before because you were still young. Now that you are fifteen years old and considered to be the eldest child, I will introduce yourself again, after all, we will have to live together for many years in the future.
I was with your mother at the end of the Cultural Revolution, when you were three years old. At that time, in order to minimize the harm to your mother, I took the fact that you were born before marriage on myself. At that time, men and women who did this was called hooligans, even if the public security bureau did not care, the unit had to manage, light notification, heavy dismissal, then the work and career may be finished. I...... My brother and my sister advised me that this man is based on his career, and why does the eldest husband suffer from wifelessness? It's right and it's not right, it's right for some people, it's not right for some people, it's not right for me. I just don't have a job, and I can't fail your mother.
A lot of people... They all look down on me, think I have no career, have nothing, and feel that people like your father and your father Luo Shibin are called successful and successful people. But I don't care, I don't care what other people think, I just want your mother to be happy, your mother is happy, I am happy.
After saying that, when he turned away and was about to walk to the door, Zhou Bingkun was afraid that Zhou Nan would feel that he was taking him as an outsider, and turned back to Zhou Nan and said--you stay here well, this is your home, take out some of the old masters, no matter how much bitterness you chew and swallow.
Zhou Bingkun's words had a great impact on Zhou Nan, and before that, he should not be able to understand why his mother did not want a successful person like Luo Shibin, preferring to be obsessed with such a inactive person as his adoptive father, and after listening to Zhou Bingkun's words, he could understand it. As far as that year was concerned, Luo Shibin was a hooligan, and whether it was in the past era or in the present era, it was a crime, if there was no care for his adoptive father, his mother might not be able to raise him so big, and his life was also stable. As a fifteen-year-old boy, he aspired to be a successful person like his biological father, but years of upbringing also told him that the affection and responsibility of his unsuccessful adoptive father were equally precious, even more precious, and such an adoptive father was worthy of his father. Moreover, his mother's love for his adoptive father is the same as that of the other party, if he really follows Luo Shibin, they may no longer be mother and son.
Therefore, after moving back to the old house, Zhou Nan wrote a letter to Shui Ziliu and decided to give up studying abroad, stay in the Zhou family, and study abroad with his own skills. From this incident, it can be seen that Zhou Nan and Luo Shibin are not the same kind of people - everything looks at money. Luo Shibin measures everything with money, including father-son relationship, and feels that if he has money, his son will recognize it, and his son who has no money will not recognize it, thinking that if he has money, he can get his son back. And his concern for his son is only the thought of passing on the generations, not true love. And Zhou Nan is more affectionate and righteous, otherwise he would not have given up his rich father Luo Shibin for his mother and adoptive father.
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