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Infidelity within marriage is something that neither party can stand.
Some women put up with it for the sake of their children, as long as the man breaks off the relationship with the woman outside, the days go on as usual, but the feelings have definitely changed.
Men are willing to endure this wang baqi, not necessarily how much affection for this woman, can not afford to get away from marriage, that must be true.
Since Tao Yidong lost money in business and owed a debt to his ass, there has not been a day at home that he has not been blinded by his father's white eyes.
His father scolded and grinned at home every day: "Lao Tzu has worked hard for a year, all of you have wiped your ass, you are more than thirty people, there is no day to be down-to-earth, do something serious... ”
After the scolding, Tao's father still got up early and went to the turtle shed to feed the turtles, and the money he earned was all repaid to his son,Which was not enough.
The family of six depended on the turtles in the shed to feed themselves.
Tao Yidong also did not go to work, nor did he help his father to work, and he hung around every day, either playing cards with friends or singing and drinking.
Going out to play without money is definitely not possible, Tao Yidong put his mind on his wife's body.
His wife, Shen Yue, did not go to work because she had a son and a daughter, a son of five years old, a daughter of three years old, both still in kindergarten, and could not get rid of their hands at all.
But Shen Yue's family was demolished, and the old man gave Shen Yue a sum of money.
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Shen Yue looked at a very shrewd person, living with his in-laws, never going to work a day, raising children, living a life, and never paying a penny out.
Tao Yidong lost money in business, she did not care, looking for her to ask for money, two words, no.
In order to get the money out of his wife, Tao Yidong used his brain.
He said to his wife: "Now the money in the bank is not worth much, let's go buy a house, raise a son, definitely need a house." ”
"Where did you get the money to buy a house?" Shen Yue asked.
"How many of you have here, I'll sum it up and think of a way."
Shen Yue said that there were six hundred thousand in his hand, which was considered to be the bottom.
Saying that he bought a house, Tao Yidong took his wife to look at the real estate, and the house was in favor, and he said that he had a problem with the credit report, and he would definitely not be able to approve the loan.
You can't buy a house without a loan. Tao Yidong and his wife discussed, they together to Tao Yidong's brother-in-law to borrow 700,000 yuan, the full amount of money first to buy the house, wait for the family demolition and then pay back.
Shen Yue thought that he could buy a house without a loan, so he agreed.
The husband and wife borrowed seven hundred thousand yuan from their brother-in-law together, and on the IOU, the names of the two husband and wife were signed.
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Later, Shen Yue waited for Tao Yidong to buy a house, but the house was not bought, and Tao Yidong bought a BMW.
"Didn't you say buy a house?" How did you buy a car again? Shen Yue asked him.
Tao Yidong said very well: "That house is not good, the family will be demolished immediately, and when we are demolished, we will buy a house in a better location, the children will soon go to school, it is inconvenient to pick up and drop off without a car, you can also drive this car." ”
Shen Yue felt that she didn't pay a dime in the horizontal vertical, and the loan also said that it was good to wait for the demolition and then repay, so she didn't feel anything?
But from then on, Tao Yidong began to become human-like again, driving a BMW around with friends drinking and singing and talking about business.
During the period, Tao Yidong did a little business again, opening a small catering business of bone pot, but unfortunately, within half a year, he closed the door.
The scope of another batch of demolition areas has been implemented, and Tao Yidong's home is not in the scope of demolition.
Tao Yidong's father completely ignored this son, in order to pay off his son's debts, Tao's father had become dry wood for this family.
Shen Yue now needs to put up money by herself to raise children, and her husband does not take the money out, she feels that this will not work, so she went to find a job.
Half a year later, there were rumors on the street about Shen Yue and other men's ambiguity.
An area where men who often play outside are involved, and it is not certain whose friends know whom.
Coincidentally, Tao Yidong's friend knew Shen Yue's lover.
When Shen Yue and her lover opened the room, Tao Yidong's friend informed Tao Yidong.
Tao Yidong, with several people, angrily slammed the door and entered, arresting the two people.
The funny thing is that at that time, Tao Yidong did not beat the adulterer, but only pulled his wife to beat.
After that, everyone knew that Tao Yidong's head was a green grassland.
Unable to swallow this breath, after the incident, Tao Yidong pulled Shen Yue every three to five minutes.
The in-laws were ridiculed by the neighbors, their faces were lost, and they didn't want to care about it.
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Unable to live on, Shen Yue filed for divorce.
The divorce lawsuit has not yet been brought up, and Tao Yidong's brother-in-law has sued Shen Yue in court first.
At the beginning, the 700,000 IOU was signed by the husband and wife together, and the court found that the debt was the joint debt of the husband and wife.
Following the legal process, the court froze Shen Yue's account and forcibly removed thirty-five.
"You said that it was a loan to buy a house, the house was not bought, and the money was not given to me, so why let me pay back half of the loan..."
Shen Yue cried and no one paid attention to her, she remembered the BMW, and the car was gone.
The mother-in-law advised Shen Yue: "This matter is not right, but you also have something wrong, you look at the two children's sake, the family house will be demolished sooner or later, and after the demolition, we will definitely return the money to you and live a good life in the future." ”
Shen Yue disagreed and insisted on divorce.
But after the last few lawsuits, Shen Yue not only had to give half of the money left in the account to Tao Yidong, but also had to raise a child, if a child was not wanted, then she had to pay maintenance.
Shen Yue told the judge that the money in the account was her father's personal property given to her, but the judge said that during the duration of the marriage relationship, the cash that was not designated as a donor was a gift to the couple.
This marriage could not be separated, but Shen Yue took her daughter away.
Without the mother, the son began to quarrel at home, the in-laws were also worried about the little granddaughter, Shen Yue had no mother to return to, how did she live as a woman with a three-year-old child?
Later, it was the mother-in-law who persuaded Shen Yue to come back.
Shen Yue looked at the child, her own life was bitter since childhood, her mother left early, her father already had their own home after remarriage, where she still had her mother's family to return.
There was no way, Shen Yue could only bear this breath and live a down-to-earth life in the future.
After these things, Tao Yidong also came down steadily, found a job, and took care of his life first.
The cracks in the hearts of the husband and wife are definitely in the heart socket, but they are each living together for the sake of life.
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epilogue:
Some men look like Sven people, but nine out of ten sentences are deceitful.
So when a woman gets married, you don't necessarily really see through that person at a glance.
Sometimes people's hearts really have to be seen through until they are at the end of the road.
Although they are husband and wife, the girls still have to figure out the debt problem during the marriage.
Don't go and sign it haphazardly, once you sign, you're bound to be legally responsible.
It's not that you say you don't see the money, and the court decides that the debt has nothing to do with you.
After marriage, your parents give you the property, it is best to do a notarization, you do not do notarization, divorce will also be divided by the man in half.
Some people, you say he's bad, but he's not evil and wants your life.
You say he's not bad, but he doesn't think about you everywhere in life, and he calculates you in everything.
Without the nourishment of feelings, trapped in the youth of children, unable to divorce.
This is also a kind of wordless sadness for women in marriage.
A woman's sorrow in marriage cannot be said, but you can't meet a man who talks rhetorically, and think that the other party is your confidant, especially the woman in the marriage.
Perhaps the secular treatment of women is particularly unfair, and women's words and deeds are more easily bound by morality and ethics.
Worldly couples, eating men and women, you think there are so many vigorous love-hate entanglements.
In fact, in the end, there is only a life of flowing water, day after day, mood and sorrow, sorrow and sorrow.
Time is like quicksand in your hand, and finally your hands are empty.
What age can give us is the wrinkle after wrinkle at the corner of the eye.
How short a woman's youth is, in life, love yourself well!