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Only when there is love is pain, and it is the meaning of life

Only when there is love is pain, and it is the meaning of life

Text/Coriander

When people come to this world, there is only one life experience, whether it is good or bad, and only at the end of life can the value of this life be summed up.

Life has love, is the luck of life; life has pain, is the test of life.

A life with love and pain is complete. If there is only love and no pain, it is like the sky is always sunny, lacking the moisture of rain. If there is only pain and no love, and if the sky is always rainy and cannot see the sun, life naturally cannot grow healthily.

Therefore, there is love and pain, which is the meaning of life.

There was a woman who, when she was twenty years old, met her first love. They loved each other very deeply, promised each other not to abandon each other in this life, and walked together to the whitehead. They walked hand in hand through many places, including the easternmost seashore, the northernmost grassland, the southernmost South China Sea, and finally, they were engaged to betrothed in the westernmost Lhasa, letting the snowy mountains prove that they would always be together in this life.

Perhaps, it is Heaven who is jealous of their love and does not want them to have a too perfect ending. So God called the man away and sent him to another world, leaving the woman here to grieve and cry.

She herself was chaotic for ten years. These ten years were the most painful days of her life. Several times, she wanted to go with him, a hundred times.

But her family followed her closely and looked at her, making her unable to do so.

Only when there is love is pain, and it is the meaning of life

It took her a full decade to wake herself up from the pain. She tried again to feel the blossoms of spring, the heat of summer, the coolness of autumn and the snow of winter.

She was alone, once again following the path that the two of them had walked, to remember, and to be reborn. Along the way, although there was pain, in her heart, there was his love with her.

Coming to Lhasa again, at the foot of the snow-capped mountain, she seemed to see the snow-white mountain, where he stood and smiled purely at her.

Or the sky of Lhasa makes her feel the beauty of life again, and she looks at everything in the world and becomes more angry.

Or maybe he really didn't trust her and sent someone to love him.

In Lhasa, she met a man who had also come here for a vacation, and he said it was his first vacation in the year after fifteen years of his job, which was short, only a week. And he did not come to Lhasa without a plan, but only followed the guidance of his heart.

Unexpectedly, during this week, he saved her twice. Once she fainted because of low blood sugar, and once on the street, she almost got hit by a car because of her loss of concentration.

He followed her until he walked into her heart.

On the last day of the trip, he said to her: Marry me, let me guard you for the rest of my life!

She looked up, tears pouring down her cheeks. In the clear blue sky, she seemed to see him nod to her and smile at her in the sky.

She said: "We've only known each other for a few days...

He said: I've been looking for you for 35 years...

In 35 years of life, he has never been in love, has not been married, and his emotions are blank.

However, he gave her a sense of security, and she felt that way while he saved her. When she agreed to marry him, he told her: My overalls, olive green...

She laughed, and she didn't tell him that before he, his favorite color was sky blue!

She quit her job as quickly as she could, said goodbye to her family, and followed him to where he worked. Their wedding was simple, but full of blessings.

Her heart was resurrected, with the deep love of him and now, and once again experienced all the beauty of this world.

Only when there is love is pain, and it is the meaning of life

Now she has children and new hope. Those painful years were buried in the depths of her soul.

She said, don't forget, he's there. No longer mentioning it, does not mean that it will be forgotten, but life always has to move forward, there has been love, there has been pain, and life is also complete.

She cherishes her life now, although men are not often at home, but they are very good to her and her children, so good that they are almost spoiled. He knew her passage, she said it once, he remembered it, and he never asked it again, just more and more loved her and spoiled her. So much for.

Life, without experiencing it, it is difficult to know how to cherish. After loving and hurting, I know that some people are destined to become the past; some love can become eternal in an instant!

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