Text/Public Account: DeepInfong Gossip (shendubagua001)
Finally decided to talk about Zhang Lu's suspected cheating.
The reason why the matter was not written when it first came out the day before yesterday was because the situation was unclear, and everyone saw that Zhang Lu's ex-wife was spilling and had no real hammer, and Zhang Lu earnestly called her "groundless speculation", but still did not dare to evaluate which is right and wrong, and wanted to wait and see the follow-up development.
But seeing that public opinion is almost on the side of accusing his ex-wife, some facts are being distorted, and he still feels that something should be said. Let's take the public facts up to now to sort out this farce of the original tearing up, which is called "reversal".
The latest development of the situation is that Zhang Lu's ex-wife Shao Sihan sent a long Weibo in the early hours of this morning, telling from her point of view about their marriage, the difficulty of having children, how to support each other during Zhang Lu's low period, as well as zhang Lu's humiliation after becoming famous, and hysteria after emotional problems.
The original text is too long, to draw the key points for everyone:
1, she pays a lot for the family: when she gives birth to her daughter, her life hangs in the balance, and Zhang Lu's career is at a low point
2, Zhang Lu Company requested not to disclose the marriage, requested to delete all family and children-related photos on the Internet, and no longer send them.
3, Zhang Lu changed his heart after becoming popular: he was ambiguous with Zhang Tangyan and was indifferent to her and the child
4, February 13, the two agreed to divorce, on the 23rd on Weibo was to see Zhang Tangyan's WeChat on his mobile phone, Zhang Lu dropped the mobile phone
5, express regret for the impulsive behavior of the day, and apologize to those involved, including Zhang Tangyan.
6, marriage failure she is also responsible, other women do not to her like this, will take good care of their daughters
The most critical message of Shao Sihan's article is that the reason why she scolded Zhang Tangyan on Weibo the day before yesterday to detonate this matter was because she accidentally saw Zhang Lu's mobile phone, and the words of "that lady" were still explicit, and the original words were like this:
Let's not talk about whether this matter is true or not, Zhang Lu's mobile phone has indeed changed. At noon on February 24, Zhang Lu came forward to respond to the matter and posted a microblog, showing that the source of the mobile phone was different from the evening of February 23.
Of course, it is not guaranteed that he just changed his mobile phone that day, and then was "used" to write into this article.
In general, most netizens do not buy this article, and there are three points of doubt.
Doubt 1: This article was written by a writer.
This question is also a high-profile comment under this Weibo.
This question is actually a bit far-fetched. Unlike the one who questioned Feng Jie's explosive article at that time, it was not written by her, that kind of questioning was based on the understanding of Luo Yufeng's long-term speaking style and quality, and here in Shao Sihan, just by looking at her past Weibo content, it can only be said to be unfounded speculation, but this possibility is not ruled out.
Suspicious point two: Zhang Lu asked the marriage not to be disclosed after signing a large company
According to Shao Sihan, Zhang Lu was asked not to disclose the marriage after signing the noonday sun, and also asked her to delete all the family photos and children's photos in Weibo, and she also did it one by one.
But after flipping through Zhang Lu's Weibo, he found that he did not completely hide the marriage, and in 2014 and 2015, he mentioned thanking his wife and daughter, and also directly @ Shao Sihan's Weibo.
We do not know the specific requirements of the noonday sun in Zhang Lu's family life, whether it is a "hidden marriage" or as long as the family life is not disclosed, the two are still clearly different. Although Zhang Lu has revealed that he is married, he has never posted family photos and ex-wife photos on Weibo, which is a fact.
Especially in the year after he became popular, there was no obvious interaction with his ex-wife in his Weibo, such as sending Weibo thanks, or direct @, and the most intimate behavior was to like.
On the other side, Shao Sihan's Weibo also does not have a photo of the two or a picture of the child. Shao Sihan also opened a weibo for his daughter to record the growth moments, and Zhang Lu interacted with them here.
Therefore, Shao Sihan probably did not lie in this matter, but there are some problems in the way of expression, and the company's requirements are not "hidden marriage" but not high-profile show of love.
Suspicious point three: the details of the derailment of Zhang Tangyan and Zhang Lu mentioned
The two ambiguous scenes that Shao Sihan mentioned were in Wuzhen last October, and she didn't find Zhang Lu all night until she saw Zhang Lu's Weibo the next day and knew they were together.
Zhang's Weibo on October 23.
The reason netizens questioned was that Zhang Lu posted on Weibo on the evening of October 23, and he was with four other actors, including Wang Kai.
But in fact, the Wuzhen Drama Festival ended on October 22, that is, if what Shao Sihan said was true, it also referred to the night of the 22nd.
On the 21st, Zhang Lu forwarded the Weibo "Noon F4 Re-emergence", which should be going to Shanghai to prepare to shoot "Ode to Joy 2", but not long after Zhang Tangyan also posted a photo with "F4" on Weibo, indicating that they were together at that time.
And it was "four boyfriends", when Zhang Lu was not divorced. If Shao Sihan was Ying Cai'er's personality, he should have exploded earlier.
Therefore, it is possible for Zhang Lu and Zhang Tangyan to go to Wuzhen together, but there is still no real hammer. There is also about the "June 1st" Children's Day when Zhang Lu was absent-minded at home with her and her children, and there is no way to verify.
In summary, Shao Sihan's long article can explain the misunderstanding of her in the previous two days, such as why she did not interact with Zhang Lu, why she still spilled after the divorce, etc., but because it is still a one-sided statement, the truth is only clear to her, Zhang Lu and Zhang Tangyan. Because of this, this matter has completely become a "Rashomon", which can be Shao Sihan's hype, and she really deletes the comments of netizens who question her below Weibo; it can also be Zhang Luzhen's derailment, shao Sihan has this farce in one breath.
But the most puzzling thing is that most netizens are personally attacking Shao Sihan.
So, plastic surgery, love selfies and live like a rich wife, is not a good woman who deserves to be cheated on? Plastic surgery face tip chin is not likeable, but it still belongs to personal freedom, and there is no direct relationship with character, right?
--I am the dividing line of self-cultivation of married people--
So the most critical question is, has Zhang Lu cheated in the end? So far, Shao Sihan has no evidence to throw out, only some clues of their interaction on Weibo.
Honestly speaking, as a husband with a wife, Zhang Lu and Zhang Tangyan did show some intimacy on Weibo. Although Zhang Tangyan and Liu Yijun interacted more, it was also because the two had emotional dramas in "Langya List", and Zhang Lu and the two of them did not partner as a couple.
These can be understood as "ambiguities" beyond ordinary friends, and can also be understood as a way of joking between good friends.
But at least it shows that Shao Sihan's suspicions are well-founded. On the one hand, Zhang Lu was asked by the company not to interact with her generously on Weibo, she could not post a group photo on Weibo, and even on the wedding anniversary, she could only send a single photo.
On the other side is Zhang Lu's thriving career, after the broadcast of "Ode to Joy", Zhang Lu's career embarked on the fast track, and then in the noonday sun, which is quite recognized by the industry and the audience, it is not to say that it is as popular as Wang Kai, but at least it is a hundred times better than his previous state. As a wife who cannot be generously led out of the open, Shao Sihan's insecurities and suspicions can be understood.
Under Zhang Lu's weibo response, there was also a comment from a lawyer, saying, "Mr. Zhang Lu called me the year before to consult about divorce."
The year before, in 2015, "Ode to Joy" was launched in August 2015, which means that Zhang Lu signed a contract with Noonday Sunshine in this year, and his career began to start. What can be confirmed is that Zhang Lu has not yet become acquainted with Zhang Tangyan this year, so when he went to consult a lawyer for divorce, the reason was not the intervention of a third party.
That is to say, their marriage went wrong early, only to get back together later. Personal speculation, the only Weibo in Zhang Lu's Weibo @ ex-wife, will it be a kind of overture?
It's just that Zhang Lu's career is flying too fast, and the fame of "Ode to Joy" has soared, while on the other side is Shao Sihan, who is still an eighteen-line actress. In her opinion, After becoming famous, Zhang Lu should be surrounded by temptations everywhere, and he also has a close relationship with a certain female colleague.
However, there is something wrong with the way she solves the problem. Not only scolding each other on Weibo, but also crazy @ a large number of unit leaders, just like the original small three units that will be seen in the real news, mainly losing their demeanor.
I don't think this is like the hype that most people question, but the stressful behavior of a momentary impulse without worrying about the consequences. It can also be seen from several details that she is an impulsive person. One is to send out a photo of his daughter that night, with the text "Heartache you", and then delete it in seconds. There was a misinformation here that she was Zhang Tangyan's daughter, and I saw the positive face indicating that it was indeed her own daughter.
The second impulse was that after Zhang Lu posted a Weibo response on the 24th, she said, "Do you want me to send out her screenshot of you?" ", and then also deleted in seconds.
There's a crooked building here. Something similar happened 9 years ago. CCTV host Hu Ziwei, husband Zhang Bin is also CCTV host, on December 28, 2007, at the CCTV sports channel renaming conference, Hu Ziwei suddenly rushed to the stage to cry, broke out Zhang Bin and other women's abnormal relationship, known as the "big milk defense war".
But then they didn't divorce, Hu Ziwei said, "every family hides a dirty little secret." ”
Back in the entertainment industry, the reason why many people will think that Shao Sihan is hyped this time is because she only sent a Weibo that signed a new company on February 20th, and this incident immediately occurred. At least, I didn't know who she was before, and I had to remember it after a few days of hot searching, although there was no recognition.
Moreover, too much hype in the entertainment industry is the reason why everyone is more and more cautious and not easy to believe. On the one hand, this is also a kind of progress, the national "gossip emotional intelligence" is improved, so that those who want to speculate are not so easy to get on the position; on the other hand, it is also sad, some facts can also be put on the hat of speculation, if there is no evidence to speak for themselves, it can only be a grievance and break their teeth to swallow in the stomach.