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Preparing for the rainy day is not only a kind of vision, but also a kind of guarantee for future life.
Although some things have not yet happened, but to prepare in advance is not to be overwhelmed at that time. Sometimes, what opens up the gap between people is precisely whether you have left enough way for yourself in advance.
Everyone will grow old one day, there's no doubt about it. So have you ever thought about how you would spend the rest of your life if one day, your parents were gone, your siblings were gone, and there was no human touch?
I've always felt that everyone has at least three pillars in their lives: family, career, and friends. Family is our backing, career is the source of our sense of security, and friends are the guarantee of spiritual emptiness. Only if we have all three, we will not live alone.
Then wait until the future, your parents are gone, and your brothers and sisters are not enough to become your dependence, then you must force yourself to complete three things in advance, which is the biggest guarantee for your later years.
One: Run the existing family well and try to love the other half
Perhaps, only when we live to a certain age will we understand that it is not others who can really accompany us to the end of life, but our lovers. As the saying goes, it is important for a couple to come to the old couple and wait for people to be old before they realize the existence of the other half.
Having a happy and harmonious family will make our old age depend on something, so no matter what, don't do anything to hurt your partner. Lest they get old in the future, the two people will resent each other and will no longer feel the taste of happiness.
However, the management of love and family should also pay attention to methods, not wishful thinking can be exchanged for the so-called eternity. Sometimes, love also needs to be cultivated slowly, and it needs to be long-term.
Love is not equal to marriage, there is a lover to eventually become a family is only a small probability of lucky events, many people are between yin and yang, and the person who loves the most missed, and a most suitable but not the most loving person into the palace of marriage.
But through their careful management, they have gradually become a couple.
There are also many people who are united because of love, but in the chai rice oil and salt, they have worn out the original appearance of love, changed from lovers to resentful partners, and finally parted ways. Marriage is not the graveyard of love, but the beginning of love.
Good love can heal your life, give you the strength to face setbacks, and can also become your strongest backing and support, so that you are no longer alone on the road of life.
Second: run your own business well, so that your future life will have more material security
Regardless of the age group, you can't deny the importance of money, which is the source of your sense of security and the security of your life. If there is no money, many times it is difficult to move forward, and even in the process of interpersonal communication, it will be cringed because of the lack of confidence and self-confidence.
Therefore, before entering the old age, we must manage our own business as much as possible and let ourselves have a certain amount of savings, so that we will not be passive everywhere after we are old, and we have no initiative and choice.
You know, career to a large extent, can represent your ability, it requires you to deal with all aspects of the relationship, you need to have a specialty in the art, you need to become a generalist, able to meet different challenges.
If you can thrive in the workplace, you won't feel a headache when faced with most of life's problems.
But we have a career, in order to be able to live a better life, can not put the cart before the horse, sacrifice their own life to achieve a career, especially can not use health to exchange for career, otherwise you have become an emotionless work machine, even if the career is successful, your life is also missing some taste.
Three: Have your own social circle, at least a trusted confidant
If you are old in the future, your parents are gone, your brothers and sisters are no longer in contact, and the other half is finally gone, then we living in this world must have a trusted confidant, which will make your heart have a sustenance, no matter what, you can go hand in hand with each other.
You might say, why can't people rely on their children when they are old?
In fact, this is not to default to the filial piety of children, but to say that when we are old, our children are almost middle-aged, and they also have their own pressures and burdens. If you regard them as all you rely on, it is bound to bring them trouble, and as parents, how can you bear it?
So I have always felt that in life, if you can rely on yourself, you should try to rely on yourself, and don't think of anyone as a way out, which is not to say that they are unreliable, but to say that we should be responsible for our own lives.
There is further joy in life, every stage of life, there is a unique beauty of each life stage, we do not have to worry about what has not yet happened, but be prepared in advance, enough to make their future, there are more ways to retreat and security.
If one day, your parents are gone, and your siblings are no longer kissed, then be kind to your other half, run your business with your heart and have your own social circle.
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