Many girls sent messages saying that their cognitive abilities were relatively poor, and they had many contact with boys, and they didn't know him very well. Is there any way to get to know this guy quickly?
Today we will talk about a few details that the girls should pay special attention to in the early stage of meeting, so that everyone can have a general judgment of his personality.
First, look, look in the direction in which his eyeballs turn.
We often say that the eyes are the windows of the mind. If you want to understand people's hearts, you may wish to observe the changes in the eyes of the other party.
Japanese psychologists have done an experiment, after asking a question to a man, observe the direction of his eyes when thinking, you can judge his personality. And the results of this experiment show that this method only works for male personality analysis, not for women.
When you ask him a question, pay attention to observe, if his eyeballs are used to turning right, this person may be good at science and computers, like to stay up late, and have a strong defensive psychology in contact with women.
If the eyeballs turn left, this man may be a more emotional person, like classical things, good at liberal arts, open personality, like music, interested in religion or something, do not like to drink.
Second, listen, listen to his voice and the speed of his speech.
If the other person's voice sounds younger than his actual age, it proves that the person is energetic, athletic, and positive. If the speed of speech is very fast, it shows that he is eager to socialize and will take the initiative to socialize, and people with obvious ups and downs in their voices and speed will generally be more emotional, and even a little feminine in their hearts.
Third, pay attention, pay attention to the angle of his chin.
Darwin said that when an animal shrinks its body, it means to back down, hoping that the other party will no longer attack itself, raising its chin, usually in an extended posture, pointing at the other party with a threatening attitude.
In the process of your chat, if the other person's chin will be raised all the time, the other person's personality may be more extreme. You think, what does the average arrogant person feel like? Raise your chin and hold your chest.
Therefore, people who speak with their chins up, generally have strong self-esteem, like to rush to show their sense of superiority, will feel that they are very powerful, and may often deny your opinions when they are really together in the future.
The person with the chin and the chest hunched back gives people the feeling of being feminine and dark. This kind of person is often less courageous, and many things are easy to give in, but the defense psychology is very strong, and they often question what others say.
If this man, when talking to you, often raises his head or often bows his head, and behaves particularly extremely, you should be cautious.
Fourth, pay attention to the bag that the other party is holding.
The attitude of men and women on the bag is completely different, and women have only one principle, that is, to look good. Men, for their part, will use the bag as a status symbol and a practical tool.
If this man likes a bag with a lot of pockets, and is used to putting things neatly and neatly in those small pockets, this kind of person will generally be more serious, and may be a little neurotic, curious, and adventurous.
Men who even hold a briefcase on a date belong to people with a more utilitarian heart, and will be particularly realistic, afraid that others will not know that they are "business elites" and hope that others will look up to themselves a few times.
If the bag is still locked, it shows that this person likes to show his difference, and it is difficult to be close to others, even if he treats his lover, he will be particularly clear about your and mine, in short, it is his own heart, and the sense of security is not enough.
The shopping paper bag is used as a bag, and some important things are put in it, this kind of person, generally more maverick, do not care much about the eyes of others, do not care much about people, the heart will be quite indifferent, but will be more honest.
If the bag you bring, rotten can't work, it can only mean that this guy, with a particularly strong sense of self, is definitely not easy to communicate with, and is not a person who will compromise.
In fact, looking at the wallet used by the other party, you can also make some judgments. The first time you meet, if you're having dinner together, you can take a look at his wallet at checkout. Isn't there a saying that how money is treated is how love is treated. That is to say, people with a positive concept of money will treat others more gently, and those who spend money with moderation will also have moderation on feelings.
The neatness in the wallet shows that this person can grasp the rhythm of life very well. Strong self-discipline.
Wallets are particularly expensive at a glance, even luxury brands, this kind of person is somewhat wasteful on the surface, but it will be more financial concepts and investment awareness, and may not actually be a person who loves to spend money. If you want to have a better economic environment after marriage, people who are used to using premium wallets are worth recommending. Of course this is not absolute, but only as a reference aspect.
Those who put money in a ball and stuff it directly into their pants pockets will often have a sense of escapism, and their property estimates are limited, don't ask me how I know.
Well, the above is how to understand the personality strategy of men in the early stage of meeting.
To sum up again, the first way, look, look at the direction in which his eyeballs turn, turn right is rational left turn is emotional;
The second way, listening, listening to the way he speaks, the voice and the speed of speech fluctuate, the person may be more emotional;
Third, pay attention to the angle of his chin, the man who raises his chin and closes his chin too much, the personality is actually not too good;
Fourth, keep an eye on his bag and wallet. Binbin sister suggested that the wallet is a big name and a neat man, which is worth in-depth contact.
When the guy you're dating is carrying a locked briefcase, which of the following options doesn't match his inference:
A. Special people
B. It is very clear to be separated from others
C. Inner security is not enough
D. Gentle personality