As the saying goes: evil comes out of the mouth, and sickness comes from the mouth.
Think twice about everything, and those who have no mouth are not only exquisite, but also more likely to offend people.
When you meet any kind of person, you should say whatever kind of person you want, have a choice in what you say, leave room for people, and don't be "aggressive".
The old man often says that people's achievements are related to "one life, two luck, three feng shui", the birth environment we cannot decide, but the fate of the day after tomorrow can be changed by our own efforts, for example, some words cannot be said when talking to people, because people are social animals, and the bad words said behind others will always turn to my ears.
Then there are some things that you say that you often can't win recognition or recognition, and you may become the laughing stock of others and become a chip to blackmail yourself.
In the ancient Chinese divination book "Zhou Yi", it is mentioned that whether rich or poor, when talking to people, it is beneficial to say less "these 3 things"
First, daily troubles
In the Zhou Yi, the Ten Eight Gua gua are the image of the gong, that is, the image of the wind rising under the mountain.
The word 蛊, literally, is the image of a worm on a vessel.
It means to warn future generations that if a person is addicted to wine and dinner for a long time, he will get sick, and if we want to get rid of bad luck, we must first find the reason from the habits of life, and then get rid of negative energy.
Especially if you often tell others about negative energy such as your own troubles, it is a kind of harm to yourself and others.
First of all, your negative energy will be contagious to your body, and secondly, your troubles are likely to become the jokes of others. Therefore, the best way is to get rid of this problem.
Second, secret private affairs
The 25th gua of the Zhou Yi is titled "No Delusion": "No Delusion: Yuan, Heng, Li, Zhen." Its bandits are in a bad mood, and there are disadvantages and dangers. ”
It is said not to be ignorant, to act rashly, not to act in vain, "Nothing will be gained, and it will be blessed." "To put it in interpersonal communication is to have its own code of conduct, to have a bottom line in everything, not to cover your mouth."
Some people treat people sincerely, as long as others have a little kindness to themselves, they will dig their hearts and lungs out of them, and tell others the secrets that they usually do not say to others. When I said it, I only told you one person, but if you know the face and don't know the heart, others may tell others when they turn around. Pass ten, maybe the whole company knows its secret.
Third, past achievements
"Zhou Yi" 15 Gua Qian Gua: Humble Gua symbolizes the meaning of humility and humility, a gentleman with modesty can prosper in all things, and there is a beginning and an end to humility.
The old saying often says that "wealth is not exposed", and the achievements achieved are also the same truth, there are always those who are richer than you, speak out and self-depreciate; there are always those who are poorer than you, and they hurt people's self-esteem and even be jealous, causing unnecessary trouble. There is no benefit in publicizing your achievements by going around, except to find you a group of pig friends who only know how to sneak and shoot horses. Life is alive, it is better to keep a low profile.
For example, if you show off that you have taken a large bonus, and at the same time you are jealous, you change the method to drag down your work progress, resulting in you being worn in small shoes and "never getting a bonus again".
A person says less and does more, everything is just hard work, no matter how many achievements, as long as they go further, the future and blessings will become better and better.
For ordinary people, the I Ching is an ancient book that contains blessings! If you feel that life is confused, read it
In the folk, it has always been said that "I Am afraid to walk all over the world with the I Ching in my hand"! In the eyes of the ancients, the reason why the I Ching is broad and profound, in the final analysis, is because it is all-encompassing, the "I Ching" has a total of 64 gua, corresponding to 64 life decision-making mental methods, and explains the basic development laws of marriage, family, education, and the workplace.
In this lifetime, people really have to spend some time to read the I Ching and realize the great wisdom in it, which may make you feel that you are open.
The content covered by the book "I Ching" is all-encompassing, profound, and it is precisely because of this that it is obscure and difficult for ordinary people to understand the mysteries.
Therefore, for thousands of years, many people have regarded the I Ching as a book of fortune telling, and some people have regarded it as a feudal superstition.
However, with the development of society, people gradually found that the "I Ching" explains how to behave in different stages of life to the fullest extent, which can be called the source of Chinese philosophical thought.
From the universe to everyone's life, the laws contained in it are all in the book "I Ching". Confucius wrote the I Ching alone in his later years, and once issued an exclamation that "if you add me for a few years and learn from me for fifty years, you can be no bigger than that".
Ancient Confucians and Taoists all took the guaxiang in the I Ching as the basis of their own path.
Mr. Feng Youlan, a famous master of traditional Chinese studies, once said: "Zhou Yi is the algebra of the universe."
Now, more and more people are gradually realizing the importance of the I Ching and have begun to study it.
On the road of life, every time you choose the right one, you will be one step closer to success
I have also always believed that before the age of 30, life can rely on hard work. But after the age of 30, life needs some "luck". This kind of luck is not feudal superstition, let alone metaphysics, but through the wisdom of choice, always put yourself on the side of winning.
I was an obsessed with the I Ching, but when I first came into contact with the I Ching, because the original work was full of words and words, it was very difficult for people to understand, and during that time, I was always troubled.
Just when I wanted to give up, an Yixue colleague recommended this "Illustrated I Ching" to me, which completely solved my reading problem by adding a full annotated and full translation to it on the basis of respecting the original work.
And it is not just to talk about some blunt truths, but to use the form of pictures and texts to explain the mysteries of the 64 gua for us in connection with actual life.
It covers the explanations of the Five Elements, Heavenly Stems, Earth Branches, Tai Chi and Bagua, as well as the introduction of Elephants, Numbers, and Theories in the I Ching.
Through this book, not only did I easily get started with the study of 64 gua, but also benefited me immensely. So today I'm going to recommend this book to everyone, and if you have such troubles too, don't hesitate.